1StopRudeness:


So in this whole thread... u are the only one that thinks this parole is about holy matrimony.....u are highly naive.....I’m seriously laffing

shogsman:

The Bleep,what can’t you discuss here.

Arijude:
me too I wan go find German woman oooo. oboy you don hammer !!

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

Heineken:
bro the swiz one make sense.

Adakintroy:


Oga you DE stay street. You no get sense say if DEm catch you for street dem DE burn you before police come. AbI you no know the good ones bad as the bad ones.

I say who DE go DE fear who DE come DE fear. You DE talk your own.

Westsida:
Okay nice one. No worry no fear. Just let her arrive safely. Dont bother getting anything done before her arrival. Let her meet the real you, dont form whatever you don’t have. If she give you money for hotel, book am but if not & if you do not have cash for hotel, no borrow money to book one. I’m hoping your environment is safe. Just carry her go house. Let her see how things be! She’s going to let you know what will as things proceed. Like if she’s gonna chill on a low with you or anything ! About travelling process, don’t bother stressing yourself. She don already call embassy, she don ask if 2 weeks go enough & she already told you nah marriage certificate una go need. Hope you already got ur passport? If not you can apply and get it same day for a token! If nah wedding she want straight up, no delay am! You stand to gain a lot as according to your summary! Don’t delay or postpone the wedding o, I see some people saying don’t marry her first time, no follow am! Get married since she’s ready. You guys been dating for a year and that’s it on her mind. Either online dating or real one, both start counting for their mind right from when una start. If you let her enter Germany back without the marriage, yellow story might pop up. Good luck bro! Be a good boy! Sometimes life nah only one chance! Nah exactly as me go do am I don clear you so!

franchasng:
God is indeed a miracle worker!

God still blesses the poor. Please make sure you treat that white lady well, be a good man to her, don't change tomorrow after you secure a German stay.

I wish you all the best.

But you need to come down to Lagos to make some arrangements ahead, would have offered you some help, but

Richybryn:
She knows everything about me she knows i have nothing,she has seen the real me,shes literally doing a larger portion it not everything

Livefreeordieha:
hummmm bro 2weeks is very tight...

First the wedding will be at ikoyi registry right? Tell us more details please.. I could guide u bro.

Or anybody experienced here..

I will check thread later in the day.

OkaNaUbe:
Warri boys and this oyinbo parole sha.
Just kidding.

You can do court wedding in a day. Just be ready to pay N15-20k for express wedding. Just low key with family and friends.

If you have a passport ready, Two weeks - 1month is enough for German visa and travel. Her insurance cover you. No much question at the embassy.


cc: hadampson.

ekerintee:
Normally,I won't have replied to this.But my advice may look foolish.you need to know what you are entering into.i would advice you as somebody staying in Germany.i would not say marrying a German is bad,you need to know who you want to marry and what she does for living.Marrying a white woman may not be the best thing that can happen to you,you need to know about the conditions and terms involved in what you are about entering to.if you marry the wrong German ,your life could be very miserable,worst than what you are going thru in naija.u would need to endure any shit she does,dont expect her to give you money,not their culture.unless she is not a typical german,if u are doing it to get out of Nigeria,u have to understand that if the marriage breaks within a space of 3 years,u are back to nigeria.these white women have different mood,they change anytime,so you have to be prepared for what you are about entering into.The worst thing that can happen to a man is to have is life dependent on a woman,so think very well before you enter into it and don't rush.i saw a lot of folks asking you to rush into it,I will ask you to plan well,look at it from all angles,do your research,look at the worst case scenario.Some guys said their friends did it,but this people will never tell you what they are going thru.Life is luck,u can never tell what the whole thing has for you .I have told you my church mind and I don't care what others think about it.u need A1 German
language certificate if she is German and you are coming as a family member,it may take you 6 months as the while matter will go thru some investigations from the embassy.she can only bring you if she meets the German requirement ,has an accomodation for 2 and financially ok.so you need to be clear about what she does for living.Not all German are rich.most live average life

Sinavaramini:
Why doing this, you are exposing the young lady to kidnappers, are you normal, posting on social media in this unsafe time in Nigeria detailing yours and her plans is unwise.

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

smoothvee:
I actually use because of you log in again to Nairaland if bot i for still stay guest and i might not have the best advice but listen..

I live in Germany, Frankfurt precisely.. i yaff find common gf tire i don weak upon all my sweg hahaha and you from naija got a good person willing to come down to naija! Several girls here that wanted something to do with me blocked me on whatsap as soon as i mention that i am originally from Nigeria... do you understand what i mean now?

Someone said you should not marry her at first visit, I understand that but bro they hate indecision and trust me you might not get that chance again.. to travel to naija no be moi moi.. so make sure yall marry since she wants it.

For the records you two cant go back together.. as she goes you will enroll in german language learning and get A1 certificate then go to german website and get the required details for Re-union Visa thats what they call it.. then apply.. them go give you once you provide everything.

My Ghanaian friend here did the same thing.

Listen.. you be man.. but i am telling you you can go to lag 1week before time and organise things.

Listen..listen.. your confidence level gats dey A1 no panic! No be brag o... buh no panic and handle that shit. Bro im doing my masters here and if i see this chance and got a good girl i will take it.

No dull yourself. Welcome to Germany.

Now i proceed to logout.

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Reelmii:
ur fiance or ur ticket to Germany

tempest01:


If she is richer, she'll food most of the bills