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I am once in your shoe. The beautiful angel which is now my wife once acted this way, but as an adult with tones of relationship experience I could deduce what the problem was.
Most time we don't know what we want, it is not peculiar to ladies alone but to the guys also especially when their is a lot of choice on ground. I quickly put myself in my wife shoe to be able to understand her, Note, I am a stubborn and principle man, no nonsense. So I quickly put myself in the position of her relationship teacher, I made her to know she is confused and what is likely to happen to her with the other guy.

I lecture her and let her know that there is 90% probability that you will fall for a guy or a lady you constantly communicate with, I gave her different instances. I laid aside my principle because I don't need anybody to tell me she was a good girl.
To cut the long story short, I strongly counsel her to cut every tie with the guy if she really wants to go on with our marriage plan, she did and today we are married. She turn out to be one of the 1percent out of the remaining good wife out there. To add honey to the whole thing, I disflower her on our wedding night. We didn't have any sexual relationship all through our dating which is my principle though.

So I counsel you to go for what you want, fight for her if you really find yourself compatible but be ready to make a bold stand what you dislike and cannot tolerate. Don't make her stop telling you about other guys pursuing her. Talk and joke about it, systematically blacklist them on her head. But if their is no change, let your brain talk with your leg

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

[[3/18, 4:40 PM] +234 803 526 2223: Unit 12
Assembly

APC =52
PDP =11
LP =28

Unit 13
Assembly

APC =93
PDP =4
LP =23


My polling unit Ward B1 Epe
BOOTH 001
Gov
APC - 161
PDP - 11

HOA
APC 165
PDP - 12



*Oladun junction*
*Unit 12*
*Assembly*

APC =52
PDP =11
LP =28

*Unit 13*
*Assembly*

APC =93
PDP =4
LP =23

*Oladun junction*
*Unit 12*
*Governorship*

APC =56
PDP =11
LP =28

*Unit 13*
*Governorship*

APC =94
PDP =3
LP =22


Nasfat: Assembly

Pdp - 2
Lp - 33
Apc - 62
Accord - 1

Governorship
Pdp - 3
Lp - 26
Apc - 68
Adc - 1

Omo Ellupe don spoil PDP life ooo

*Oladun inside street*
*Unit 067*
Assembly

APC =102
PDP =13
LP =32

Unit 067
Governorship

APC =104
PDP =15
LP =29


*Adewale*
*Unit 068*
Assembly

APC =69
PDP =4
LP =8

Unit 13
Assembly

APC =68
PDP =3
LP =9


*Odogbolu street*
*Unit 129*
Assembly

APC =14
PDP =8
LP =12

Unit 13
Assembly

APC =15
PDP =8
LP =11


EPETEDO PU 065 LAGOS MAINLAND

PDP 1
LP 29
APC 50

My Polling Unit 🌚


*Adesakin street*
*Unit 130*
Assembly

APC =20
PDP =0
LP =3

Unit 13
Assembly

APC =20
PDP =0
LP =4


Sanwo-olu's Polling Unit
Governorship

APC - 121
PDP - 01
LP - 02


State house APC 120 LP 12 PDP 6. Governor APC 123 LP 14 PDP 1. In my unit in mushin


I thank God l delivered my polling unit to APC
Makarious 045 polling unit Ajah in Eti-Osa Local Government
Governorship results
APC- 16
PDP- 04
LP- 10
SDP- 00
ADC-01

HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY
APC- 16
PDP- 04
LP- 10
ADC- 01


I thank God l delivered my polling unit to APC
Makarious 045 polling unit Ajah in Eti-Osa Local Government
Governorship results
APC- 16
PDP- 04
LP- 10
SDP- 00
ADC-01

HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY
APC- 16
PDP- 04
LP- 10
ADC- 01
I am a cordinator of SENBAT Allies Movement Eti-Osa Local Government. I delivered my polling unit to APC.


RESULTS FROM PU009, ODO-ERAN, WARD A4, EPE, LG.

GOVERNORSHIP 👇

APC-152
PDP-4
ELUPEE-0

HOA 👇

APC-152
PDP-4
ELUPEE-0


Desmond Elliot's polling unit, Lagos State
APC - 100
LP - 14
PDP - 3


Polling unit 033
Alimosho LGA
Santos Layout, Akowonjo
No of accredited voters 146

*GOVERNORSHIP*

APC = 74
LP = 67
PDP = 4
SDP = 1

*STATE HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY*

APC = 69
LP = 70
PDP = 4
ADP = 1
Void votes = 2


*Jemiu Alade estate gate*
*Unit 128*

Assembly

APC =43
PDP =3
LP =62

Unit 13
Assembly

APC =44
PDP =2
LP =62


Unit 009.... Odonla ikorodu Lagos👇
APC 233
PDP 15
LP 61
Governorship
WARD B 009 OLD IFAKO

Adc= 1

AA=1

PDP =9

LP = 22

APC = 99


VOID =12

House of Assemble
WARD B 009 OLD IFAKO

Lp =21

Pdp= 13

Apc =101


Void =9


Tinubu wins his polling unit for Sanwo-Olu.

APC - 43
LP - 5
PDP - 0
[3/18, 4:40 PM] +234 803 526 2223: *Governorship pu 16 Alakuko/ Ajegunle election*

APC=168
LP=52
PDP=5
*House of Assembly of 16*
APC 137
LP 85
PDP 2
[3/18, 4:41 PM] +234 803 526 2223: Polling unit 046 Ojokoro
Governorship
APC 16
LP 03
PDP 01

Assembly
APC 15
LP 07
PDP NIL
[3/18, 4:41 PM] +234 803 526 2223: Election results from Ijaiye Ojokoro polling units 001 & 002.

Polling unit 002
House of Assembly

APC 133
PDP 10
LP. 19
ADP. 01
Rejected 02.

Gubernatorial
APC 131
PDP 08
LP. 023
ADP. 002
VOID 01 author=nlfpmod post=121847566]Post Lagos Governorship Election Results from your Po

Breaking News:... Tinubu defeats Obasanjo's candidate Peteru Obi at his polling unit.

Unit 2, Ward 11, Olushomi compound, Totoro - Sokori area, Abeokuta North LG, Ogun State

APC: 56

PDP: 7

LP: 9quote author=LagosEmir post=121230549]Number of registered voters in the polling unit is 779.



Presidential election result:

APC - 17

PDP - 3

LP - 101

Voided votes: 4



Credit: Oluwakemi Abimbola

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This is why we can never have a president from the East, they all children of hatered, they lack respect, pls you can go Bleep your gods and leave the church if you think you are doing them favour by attending their Church. Igbo will never be President.
I use to be Obidient until I learn this Election is more of Ethnicity. Get ready to cry blood after Saturday Election

Validated:
Adeboye is busy releasing music
Adefarasin is speaking in parables
Olukoya is in his prayer room destroying demons stealing people's money

Whereas Islamic clerics are pushing for Islamic state Tomorrow, they will ask us to pray that God give Nigeria good leaders.

All na TRIBAL HYPOCRITES!

The Obidaft should forget about Saturday election or wait for this scenario to vote out Tinubu, because there maybe run off between Tinubu and ATIKU. But for Obi is waste of vote

Fredge:
If a presidential candidate wins the majority of the votes but doesn't have 25% in 24 states, and his closest rival has 25% in 24 states but doesn't win the majority of the votes, what happens?

You will wake from your dream crying

GExcess:
Nevertheless Obi will still coast to a landslide victory on Saturday 25th February 2023, whatever the evil criminals may plan, God who has seen the suffering of innocent Nigerians will turn in around for our good

shut up there IPOB Terrorist, once OBI lost on Saturday, Ekpa will become saint to you. funny Nigeria is no more zoo again

WibusJaga:
.

Extradition proceedings will take a while, but his arrest is certainly a big boost for PO.

Seems Buhari is Obidient.

He is just waking up from his dream realizing Voting Obi is a waste

Umitive:
He has only one vote to cast. Obi/Datti all the way. Tinubu will only be president in iragbaji under Obi. It will be easier for Atiku to win than for tinubu. Saturday is not far, urchins should hold their wailing 😩 , Saturday and Sunday will be their full wailing days.

We already Know Obi won't win a single local government in North

Some of you will just open your gutter mouth and talk rubish as if you have no brain.
Yoruba this, Yoruba that. Despite the fact that we have a son contesting for president it still did not makes us burried our conscience... Almost all the said leaders of Yoruba are routing for Obi. We know those who are more trabalistic in this country but that won't stop us from doing the right thing.

Hendrixky:
Yeah...north is well educated than we thought

After this election we are going to be aware of certain things
1)the problem of Nigeria is tribalism and not all about religion but mostly tribalism
And hausas are not really tribalistic the way we thought
But the yorubas are more tribalistic

Because as at the time Buhari was sick and travelling for medical attention we all was clamouring for him to hand over to a healthy and vibrant Osinbajo. We regretted our action of being stupid to elect a sick old man

But now we have a vibrant and healthy Peter obi contesting but the yorubas because of tribalism wants us to install tinubu again knowing fully well that the world will mock us

The worse part of it is that the pain and memory of the incessant travel for medical check up by Buhari is still very fresh in our mind.not like it happened 20 years ago. It just happened yesterday..

And for all those quoting me. Please am not any of this tribe not igbo, yoruba or hausa. I'm from the South South

You are not a student of history, if only you know your celeberated Azikwe was the bad egg, who stab Awolowo from the back after stern warning against involving the Cownu in there plan Republic.

He stab Awolowo at the back when he signed the amalgamation and made alliance with the north.
Your forfathers are the real betrayer, he is the reason why you are wailing today.

Biafra go no where, you will all remaine in this Zoo and enjoy what your father's had created

obiekunie2
post=94520912:
make una forget this shit!

na game them wan take us play like this.

them don see say 2023 go b huge lose for them so they wan take style scatter all the efforts made so far by ndi igbo against 2023.



NA SO THEIR GRAND FATHER TAKE USE ZIK HEAD ONLY TO DUMP HIM AFTER GAINING FAVOUR FROM THE NORTH.


I SEE MONKEY HAND FOR THIS VERY OILY SOUP!











IF ODUDAWA WAN SEEK FOR THEIR REPUBLIC THEY SHOULD START FROM NIGERIA LIKE IPOB!
LONDON IS NOT NIGERIA!

Nigeria Leaders with their scam

I advise you to keep praying, the first step towards your Deliverance is genuine repentance......Do not try any other means for now, allow God to perfect his work.