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THIS IS NIGERIA...OR AM I DREAMING?


BRO THE MONEY YOU WILL SPEND TRACKING THAT DUDE WITH HIS NUMBER WITHOUT EVEN SUCCEEDING WILL BE ENOUGH TO BUY YOU THREE BIKES.

well,it's not a bad thing if his motives are pure...

the only issue here is him not giving you "money" as you said...again are the money you are asking for your needs

either ways...he may have bad motives or good motives...ONLY YOU( BY FINDING OUT) AND YOUR DAD WOULD KNOW THAT

this world would be very interesting if BOTH gender can meet their basic needs..cook,clean,wash,make money and afford your basic needs...


MAN GETTING MARRIED CUS HE DOESN'T WANT TO COOK OR DO HIS LAUNDRY ANYMORE....THATS WRONG

WOMAN GETTING MARRIED CUS SHE DOESN'T WANT TO PAY BILLS OR MEET HER LITTLE NEEDS ANYMORE.. . THAT'S WRONG

COMPANIONSHIP, UNDERSTANDING AND SUPPORT IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT

SO THESE TALKS WILL END.


my opinion

na wa...see crowd

looks like the plan of a storey building...the basement (underground) is like a ground floor of a storey building then the main building is like the first floor of that storey building

if the child has very severe medical condition...that's not manageable in the country or outrageously expensive...then with the consent of the parents...it could be possible...but the question is what do people see as very severe condition...ONE SHOULD BE CAREFUL BEFORE YOU IGORANTLY BREAK THE LAW..



LET ME USE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SAY ABORTION IS A CRIME OFFENSE AND COULD ATTRACT AS MUCH AS 14YEARS JAIL TERM.... ABORTION IS ONLY ALLOWED IF IT'S DONE TO SAVE THE MOTHER.....so many people don't know this... though it's not related to what the op is saying...but it's worth knowing...seek what Nigerian law says before doing sometimes

every coach is great UNTIL THEY JOIN MANCHESTER UNITED.


*whistles and walks away quietly"

that means he is going to work for nothing for 8months...I just hope he copes through that period


NIGERIA is a mean country... nobody send you...I just hope he didn't borrow the money sha...all the best to him

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Happy Birthday to me even though I’m nervous right now. [/color]

nervous NOT ma'am

happy birthday...

why are nervous?

Lol... uppercut

PETER DRURY..THE GOAT OF COMMENTARY

That's love

that's what the game is all about

be strong CR7

rickleye:
Can’t complain ! Have a swell evening .

all right...be good

so...if the child is 21 but not in University..no phone for him or her....then if her younger ones say 16 is in University...she gets a phone...well done sir...bravo

hmmmm... beautiful.... amazing...


A.I IS THE NEXT LEVEL

hmmmm

rickleye:
I was reading your response to the Op and I said “ this person sounded matured and seasoned “ so I scroll up and lol when I see your moniker” .
Trust your day has been good.

yeah..my day was good...hope yours was good too?

THIS KINGDOM CALLED NIGERIA IS NOW A LIVING HELL FOR HER CITIZENS...

KIDNAPPERS DEN IS MORE LIKE A SUMMER RETREAT PARK...

NA WA

THIS KINGDOM CALLED NIGERIA IS NOW A LIVING HELL FOR HER CITIZENS...

KIDNAPPERS DEN IS MORE LIKE A SUMMER RETREAT PARK...

NA WA

THIS KINGDOM CALLED NIGERIA IS NOW A LIVING HELL FOR HER CITIZENS...

KIDNAPPERS DEN IS MORE LIKE A SUMMER RETREAT PARK...

NA WA

na wa

rickleye:
I’m with rick here …… enjoy the relationship . Give it a year and see where it goes.
After that you have “ our blessings” ( not that you need it ) to put a ring on the finger.

Ricks are always special...I GREET YOU PLENTY PLENTY...LOL

endure beating abi??


THE PASTOR OR ANYONE TELLING HER TO PRAY OR ENDURE... SHOULD BE BEATEN OR AT LEAST SLAPPED THREE TIMES A WEEK BY A MAN,LETS SEE HOW MUCH HE CAN ENDURE...I PITY THOSE PUTTING THEIR LIFE CHANGING DECISION IN THE HAND OF ANY MAN

na wa

VOsimhen144:
OMO! You just sounded like my elder brother. Exactly what he said. God bless you for your advice bro. I really appreciate.

you're welcome..be good and make sure you follow your happiness with all boldness

slow down a little...keep marriage a little bit far from the conversation for now...get to know her more,enjoy the moments...and build the confidence that you must have dating or marrying an older woman (10 years is no joke)...once she hits 40..hope you will still love and be proud of her? will you still go out with her...on date nights,movies, occasions?...these are the confidence you must start to build...you must always see her inner beauty more everyday... AND DON'T HEAR OR CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY...bro please take it slow... marriage is no joke...it's too early...just continue to grow and water the love...loving an older woman is great..cus they love truly...but IT TAKES MATURITY OF THE HEART AND HEAD TO LOVE THEM RIGHTLY...I HONESTLY WISH YOU THE BEST

Ebubu:
if you get another woman into your life, you complicate the whole matters as you may end up having child outside your marriage, wife can even sue for divorce due to extra-marital affairs, win you and you bear the brunt of the shame.

You choose to marry the other woman, does Christianity permit that? Unless you are a Muslim, fine. But what is the solution for our Christian brothers who can’t take their verbal abusive wives.


Or are they writing off the consequences of verbal abuses in their lives? The kids could be watching and losing respect for their father, if at all they are not already corrupted by the deeds of the mother and trained to repeat same to their future husbands/wives.

..if you are talking of the Bible... firstly..you know the only basis for divorce according to the Bible... secondly the Bible has no record of abuse or the way it should be treated...so if you want to follow the Bible...ITS A NO WAY OUT BRO...so I don't bring in the Bible to matters of abuse cus the Bible never recorded anywhere any one was abused in a marriage...so I would advise you use the LAW IN YOUR COUNTRY OF RESIDENCE PLUS COMMON SENSE

people don't want to use the law... nobody wants to press charges...to me..a CRIME IS A CRIME WHETHER IN MARRIAGE OR OUTSIDE MARRIAGE... people only hear most abuse cases when one party finally dies...USE THE LAW...CALL THE COPS(na so whites dey run am)..

in this part of the world,the men hardly file for divorce based on emotionally abuse...most of them see it as an opportunity to go get a side chick or even marry more women...some feel that's where their happiness lie.


BUT IT'S WISE YOU DIVORCE THE WOMAN..

BUT DIVORCE IS NOT AN EASY PROCESS THOUGH ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE KIDS INVOLVED PLUS THE WHOLE ALIMONY ISSUE... MAY BE THATS WHY THE MEN JUST GO AND GET OTHER WOMEN INTO THEIR LIVES...


ALL FORM OF ABUSE IS BAD...ABUSE IT'S A SILENT KILLER...SAY NO TO ABUSE