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it would have been better if your wife was the student.and you the dependent as your friends advised


my advise for you is..go alone...you can't cope...even if your wife is working...a good amount will be going into the daycare for the kids or you have not thought of daycare?...and no matter what she can't work comfortably with the kids...any little thing like flu they will call her to come take the kids....and you will not be that available cus you will be combining your 20hours per week work and school....it will frustrate you having them with you...and your rent will be like a two bedroom at least...which is like 1k to 1.5k pounds a month.... Except you really have excess money to throw around....it's always better the man is the dependent...you can do blue collar jobs...and multiple jobs more easily then a woman and a nursing mother for that matter...whites don't joke with kids o...your kids must be comfortable if not the government go sanction you o

second advise...since it's relocation you want...just wait and let your wife documents come out and she goes as the student or you go alone....I wish you the best from the bottom of my heart...be nice and wish me a happy birthday

they just want to use Ghana to go have a feel of the world cup...too bad Africa will never learn....that's how Kelvin prince boateng Ghana.....left after the word cup in 2010...shola ameobi at 33 years made NIGERIA world cup squad in 2014 after snubbing NIGERIA years back when he was playing well for Newcastle and expecting England call up that never came...


dear Ghana use the boys that qualified you....these two average players can't win you the world cup...so why bring them

Candidlady:
Rickpat

Iam doing just fine and my folks are alright too inow have a bit of breathing space

Ibelieve you are doing better yourself

yeah...... I'm doing great


glad your folks are good too....and glad you have some breathing space... please just try to maintain/control everything,so you will be having yourself to yourself (breathing space)...be good,be strong,be happy and be healthy...remain blessed candid

na wa

Candidlady:
Yeah been a while this thread just threw me back to some crazy memories

If my cent will save a dying man!!! Rip to the man in advance

you with your words...this got me laughing...we all have really bad experiences........candid can't save rickpat with #5 that's one cent...*crying*....just kidding....trust you are good?...and your folks are good as well?

Candidlady:


Stole lotta money for a stewpid project ididnt know.. the eediot was always having one project or the other with the hope of he was building an empire for us .. iswear men are cunny

This same eediot never runs out of groceries

Payporte and jumia nearly gave me award for best customer. Ihad his address on those site on speed dial

Lagos bistro and smoothie parlor dispatch riders were my pals

Iwill order wears and food for this yaro just to suprise him

God will punish men!! His rent was due, gave another excuse that he was expecting some funds, Ihad to pay

God will punish him... Ijust pity his new partner


Story plenty

...sorry about this sad experience...it really got me emotional and reminded me of so many things...it's well though...humans and manipulations..... greetings to you...it's been a while

[quote author=airliner post=112633481][/quote]... Lol...funny BOY...I hear you

Movingon5:
Good morning sir... pls i need to talk to you.... cos ur advice her is always tally with wat am getting offline... so i think i can share some development and my moves with u. Kindly confirm if i should drop my number here for u

okay ..

very petty

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us. Is there an African based dating website.

if you must marry from this part of the world, YOU SHOULD HAVE YOUR FILTER GLASSES ON...know what you want and go for it...just like real life..you have very good,very bad and very ugly people in Africa and online...just be patient and choose wisely..and try as much as you can to sieve off the scammers cus they're everywhere,trust me..they are in Nigeria, USA, UK... everywhere...I WISH YOU THE BEST...AND MAY THE BEST MAN FIND YOU OR BETTER STILL YOU FIND HIM

get a lawyer..go to court...he is owing you already...so in court he will be asked when he intends to pay...after that he will be told to pay for your filing of the case...and given time to look for a new house...be careful cus eviction is only done by a court...Get a lawyer

get a lawyer...write the company to sack you officially and pay all your back log of salaries...very foolish company...I wonder what their team is doing....as long as they paid money to that pension account...it means you are entitled to your salary.... secondly you can't get any access to the pension fund without the sack letter.....you are entitled to 25% if you ain't working....the balance of 75% is when you're turn 60 years....give that company Telco company some heat please

return it and let the old crook politicians loot it back to the UK again.... SMH

golor:
Hi bro , I just got my admission with scholarship u seem experience..can u give me Ur number so I can always be in touch with the visa application

zero,eight,zero,six,nine, zero,four,two.

Ocholu:
You're an ambivert Oga. No come disgrace yourself for here.

Google is your friend. Incase you're planning on asking me what it means.

I feel he is more of an Omnivert...

it's more like a baby that just started walking...the baby wants to walk around everywhere once given the opportunity.


As an introvert,you have this deep sense of reasoning already...all you have to do is use it often... analyse before you speak...so most things you say would be very good punch lines...the more you analyse before you speak the lesser you speak...even if it's a friendly conversation..still use your strength of analysis i.e analysing before speaking...that way you talk less

it's sexual stimulation through thoughts and sight...it's happens to both men and women...just that in case of a man it's very obvious cus of the erection...for a woman it could be wetness of the vagi*na or erection of the nip*ple...

it's embarrassing to both gender when it happens...


self control is key but sometimes it's just uncontrollable especially when the man or woman in question has fantasized about having sex with the person they are in contact with or having a phone call or chat or just think of that person.....so it happens... IT'S NOT JUST A MALE THING

Maryjane001:
Nice to meet you too Rick.

all right....be good and have fun

same old shameless crooks


ONE WITH AN UMBRELLA COVERING CORRUPTION AND THE OTHER WITH A BROOM SWEEPING CORRUPTION TO ALL PARTS OF THE NATION....SMH...TOO BAD

amazing...what a law!

eiya...

FOREVER THE SPECIAL ONE...we love YOU JOSE

tough group for Africa


Ghana's group way tougher

good luck to them...let's support the females since our men dey hibernation

MALIGNANTGuest:
Now you are Talking.
I may not deeply have issues with the way a Whiteman sees me..
After all we were raised differently..
He has got pretty good sides, so do I have too.
But what pains me more is when we have issues like Aguleri fighting Umuleri....
Ebonyi communities fighting among themselves.
Itsekiri fighting urhobo abi?
Ebonyi & CrossRiver fighting dead hard!
Yorubas fighting Igbos, Igbos fighting Yorubas. Same applies to almost every ethnic nationality
Just imagine the "OSU caste system" in Igboland.
These are just a Few....

We extend such to NAIRALAND & other media platforms. Therefore we shouldn't rush to apportion blames when we have a huge one staring at us. After all, there's a clear distinction between Whites & Black... which is obvious.
Though we are Humans, but "different species"

you have said it all...even with education and exposure... people still practice tribalism to the fullest

TheNoble007:
I am sure you live not in the diaspora. Racism has no comparison.

I said here... meaning Nigeria...try to understand well please


BESIDES WHICH IS MORE PAINFUL, DISHEARTENING AND DEMORALIZING...the way a white man sees you in a certain way or the way a fellow Nigerian from a different tribe sees you in a certain way?...have a great day

MALIGNANTGuest:
What about Tribalism?
Shouldn't u be more concerned about dat one?
Let's tackle the one bedeviling the entire Nigeria b4 throwing tantrums at this one...
What do you think?

of course... tribalism is more deadly to us here...it irritates me alot.....it affects us more than racism...too bad

na wa.... RACISM WILL NEVER GO AWAY...BLACKS JUST GET MORE CONFIDENT CUS WE ARE REALLY TALENTED...TOO TALENTED TO BE INTIMIDATED WITH RACISM

na wa..quite some list

really doubt you can get 50% of what you have on that list in one person in reality

Movingon5:
Good morning house.... av reported at opd, and he was called they officer asked him when is he coming to lagos he said he doesn't no, they ask he when are d children coming to Lagos he said he doesn't no. So d officsr said dat with d way he is answering them he is going to be a court issue ooo. But av gotten a petition from DV unit in Alausa to be take to d lagos commissioner of police which av submitted and it has been approved as at 29th... d case is going to be handled at their gender desk. And d woman their av all assures me of getting my kids back. Probably they will call me after d holiday....... thanks everyone for their positive contributions and as for d naysayers............ I leave u to Almighty God. We all make mistakes. Just identify urs and move on.

... good..glad you have made reasonable amount of progress..it's not easy but I know you can and you would succeed and get your heart desires...just be wise,know what you want,stick to it,follow details and please anything you don't understand whether in the police station or in court or anywhere,ask questions...don't assume or just conclude when you are not sure... I wish you the best and the kids as well... stay blessed

those criminals in NFF has one very stupid criteria to contest the NFF president post...the criteria is ONLY THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN STATE FA CHAIRMAN BEFORE OR PRESENT CAN CONTEST FOR THE POST OF NFF PRESIDENT....so that way I think Austin okocha(former chairman Delta State football association) is qualified....all those five names you mentioned are not qualified...Very funny criteria,from a bunch of jokers running our football