fineboynl:
I hate it when I see boys with short Nika above there knees and with slippers and to worsting it they carry big iphone.

If seems they spent all their money on the iphone. Some of them cannot even afford a bottle of beer.

They don't spend money on other things other than that iphone thing.

People without the iphone even dress well, spend well and look rich richer. But the iphone is what those boys are using to cover up.

Robotboyy:
Nigeria politics is the same every year in year our.. who has noticed it? Decamping is normal when elections is near. Then the rigging aspect cet normal. Den the violent aspect. And etc. smh for we the poor populace.. when would we even get to enjoy democracy..maybe never in my life time in this country

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.

I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .

I'd like to know what you think

ThatFairGuy:

Can you please explain further, OVER WHAT?

Yanmiriflathead:


We musn't try to play saviour all the time. that's how we get repaid with ingratitude. The Yorubaman in question is a Nigerian not igbo, the woman is From turkey not igbo, And both of them are not biafrians, so how is it the iboman's business? Is the woman the first prostitute with a bastard child? why has the father christmas igboman not taking it upon himself to sort out the bills of all bastard children around the world? Because He must chop the left overs of a yorubaman. I Spit on his bald head

Preshieben:
keep letting it control your brain
Pray it shouldn't put you into trouble someday