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no dulling at all.

ORAGBON:
Beautiful! since the men no wan propose, the ladies are taking the bull by the horn

Na real waoh....

In respect to your husband,I will say keep quiet. But you can also try speaking to your pastor or someone older and responsible in the family to speak to your sister inlaw and your husband.

Just apply caution shaaaaaa.

ORAGBON:
Dear Lively Stones,

My Sister In law is disgracing my family and my husband does not care.

My husband is an only son from a family of four. All his three sisters are not married and they are all in their forties and late thirties.

Recently,I found out that one of the sisters is messing around with our church member whos wife and children are abroad. From my findings,this affair started almost two months ago. When I confronted my sister in-law,she said she does not mind being a second wife or mistress as age is not on her side. According to her,the man likes her and his wife not being around,he is needs someone to keep him company.

Over this Christmas,this man traveled to the US to see his family. I wanted to use this time to encourage my sister in-law to break the affair but she wont listen. saying that I am married thats why I dont understand what it means to be single and without a man.

My husband too has told me to mind my business that the two people involved are grown adults. ...Read More




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A Ugandan lady who seemed to be tired of waiting for her much older white lover to propose to her has done the needful!

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My dear Brother,

Somethings dont need explanation . No matter what you write , people will still misunderstand you.

Do not stress yourself trying to explain to anyone.

People who give are not complaining.

They forgot that the poor you will always have with us as Jesus said.

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Any little thing they keep calling names on churches in Nigeria.
American has millions of Churches and their economy is improving daily. Churches in America pay tithes and their economy is improving daily.
Most of Nigerian pastors have members across the globe without any criticism and still yet they are prospering .
If they can do what Nigerian Churches/members are doing and economy is still good ,then its not the problem of the Church.
We know that there are men out their who are after their pocket , merchandisers but its not new, its even all over the world, USA and co.

The problem of Africa is not about the Church or religion.

Nigerian Muslims dont practice islam more than the Arabs or UAE. Here if you urinate near a mosque for example, you only get a fine but in Nigeria ,they kill you instantly. Whose fault ,you cant blame religion.
They should stop generalizing Nigerian Churches. If your view is different ,doesn't make you to start abusing people. We all must not have same belief.

asuustrike2009:
Blame the government for not doing it's best to help Nigerians.many people attend church prograein different parts of the world yet the economy still stand strong because their government are working. Whether we don't attend or attend night vilgils, Nigeria problem will still remain where it is because many of us have bad mindset in doing things that are right. The youths are the leaders of tomorrow yet same youths can not stand to vote for their own like what happened in Kenya. Imagine many youths refusing to vote for the likes of Yul Edochie yet we want change. If many youths get to the top, they would do worst than our politicians because of bad seed

Very deep question though.

It depends on how people view it.

Love could mean deep emotional feelings towards someone which stirred by some traits exhibited by the person you claim to love.

There are times when you dont see such traits , you have no option than to continue loving.

Others may have their own definition too.

Homeboiy:
what's luv?

Everyone had always told me that unconditional love between two adults was impossible. As much as I thought I might love my future husband, they told me the moment I had children I would realize that the love I have for them is true unconditional love.

I remember asking myself: What makes marriage so special if......

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As much as I would say forget about the gym girl and focus on the girl you made a promise to marry because this maybe a test of your love for her
But I will not kid you,you need to sit down and discuss with your fiancee about your sexual concerns. Talk more ,talk deep. She should be able to compromise a little if she loves you.
You are right,sex is a bug deal in marriage…but so also is communication. Talk to your girl..if she is not cooperating..then you can both go your separate ways peacefully
Note,that gym girl may be lying for all you know,,,be careful…the grass is not always greener on the other side.

Romanic:
Admin,

Help a guy here. I am not a player by any means but I have a situation I would like your help to sort out.

So I have a girl,we been together for a while,almost like three years. A year ago,she a job in Lagos and it was too good an offer to turn down. We agreed she should take the offer and see how it goes...

http://livelystones.com.ng/destiny-just-carried-away-lust/

But there are cases where bad girls have turned to good after seeing that there is no gain in what ever it is were involved in.

So would you advice this poster to do , stick to his good girl or go for the gym , assumed bad girl

RadicallyBlunt:
I hear of good girls gone bad. I never see bad girl gone good before o. Except na pretence.

Admin,

Help a guy here. I am not a player by any means but I have a situation I would like your help to sort out.

So I have a girl,we been together for a while,almost like three years. A year ago,she a job in Lagos and it was too good an offer to turn down. We agreed she should take the offer and see how it goes...

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For the past couple of weeks, letoya luckett-walker has regaled us with beautiful images from her wedding day, the munaluchi bridal shoot, her honeymoon and so much more. But in a recent instagram post, she said ...

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Hello,

I read your stories and articles daily and sometimes, I wonder and ask if these stories are actually real.
Behold, the evil I fear has dread so much has met with me. In short, am almost running mad at my discovery.

I asked can men be so heartless? Does it mean we don’t have honest men anymore? How could Segun do this to us after all these years and all we have been through? I have given him a male & female children! I stood by him when things where hard! I have been faithful!What else should I do? I feel useless! I feel like falling down and dying!!

We have been happily married for 15 years before now. I have never had cause to suspect my husband. He is loving, caring and everything. Seven years earlier, when things look a bit tough for him, i supported with all my savings to ensure he didn’t feel the financial burden his out of job was putting on him.I tried everything I could to ensure he was happy always until….
When the offer came from Lagos, I was not bothered, all I wanted was for I’m to have a job, cos that would make him happy.In fact, when he hesitated I encouraged him to take the offer. Had I known the devil was right there at the corner waiting to put an end to my joy. Had i known i was sowing my husband to the demons in Lagos I would not have allow him.One year after he got the offer, he was promoted to a senior manager with an official car, driver and so many other benefit.
Meanwhile, sequel to his promotion, he visits us every weekend in Abeokuta, and ensures ...................

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Truth .

Ray360:
A disgusting norm really. We are in an age where men and women have fabricated slang and rubbish sayings just to justify their actions. You see posts like "variety is the spice of life.." "Men were naturally made to cheat.." and all other stupid posts. Cheating is wrong and
never be justified by any standard. If you don't love your partner anymore, call it quit rather than misbehaving.

Ask google.

Smiles.

anitapreeti:
If you ask me... Na who I go ask?

Thank God my boyfriend is not cheating and cannot cheat on me

“Nobody wins when the family feuds”

JAY-Z is set to release yet another music video off his “4:44” album. This one is for “Family Feud” and .......

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Does it really mean is all men that cheat ?

tstx:
its not our fault... we were biologically programmed to be polygamous...

Super cute stars and Newly Wedded Couple Banky w and Adesua Has Break the internet Again and this time it is something Great to talk about Banky W & Adesua.........

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The 31-year-old beautiful Ghanaian screen diva took to her IG to ask the question while writing on relationships.

She wrote ;

‘Cheating on your “loved one”… why has it become such a common act now-a-days? People claim to love their partner, but realistically, how much do you really love your partner........

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Hello,

It depends on her intention.
Aside from that ,its cool.

ORAGBON:
Tonto Dikeh’s sister celebrates Churchill Olakunle on his birthday, addresses those criticizing her for it

Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh’s sister, Tatiana Dikeh came under fire yesterday after she wished her ex husband, Olakunle Churchill a happy birthday.....

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Well, I don't see anything wrong in wishing the ex in-law birthday wish except she has a negative agenda. If it is on neutral ground. Don't see anything wrong.

MightySparrow:
Honestly,, her sister could be the wrong person in that broken marriage.

I concur to your suggestions too.

ekensi01:
Didn't you read that the husband takes the brother as all in all?

@poster you use your head.
Lock the room when you guys are in.

Also give him areas to occupy.
Don't just allow him to enter everywhere.

This is how you will do it, always be attentive to him and always be setting the rules.

Don't ask permission from your husband.

Do everything in love and humility.
It's the solution

Dear Poster,
This require wisdom so you don't cause rift between your hubby and brother.
As someone rightly said, lock the door each time you are in your bed room with your husband.
You should have shouted to his hearing.
This is what you ought to have spoken to your hubby in a calm manner.
Just act wisely.

ORAGBON:
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Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

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Little things that keep marriages.

ORAGBON:
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Considering how important s*x seems to be for marriage; it is amazing how afraid people are to engage in honest adult conversations about s*x. But for a component that’s such a major part of marriage, it’s foolish to not discuss it.

There are three very distinct s*x conversations that need to be had regardless; and all three need to be discussed before crossing that bridge.

Consider these discussions a part of getting to know each other and communicating...Read More


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True word.

The lady is not ready to divorce her husband.

LivelyStones:
Wow! You took it off exactly the way it's on my lips

Exactly!
Thats the question here.

ashjay001:
She's probably tired of marriage as a whole! What stops u from being worse than where she's coming from?

To start with , what went wrong in your previous marriage?
Secondly, you referred this new lady as your ‘ idea of a perfect wife’, does it mean ,your ex wife wasnt your idea of a perfect wife? If she wasnt , my question will be what you saw in her that made you marry her.
What makes you think what happened before with your ex wife wont repeat itself ?
Its obvious the lady doesn’t want to divorce her husband. Its better you let her be Sir and work on reconciling with your ex wife.

ORAGBON:
Dear Lively Stones,

I am a divorcee of 48 years old. I have been divorced for almost five years now and I am thinking of moving on to finally settle down with another woman.

I have been dating a few ladies but non of them catch my fancy. There is a lady however,whom I have been very friendly with. Her name is Constance and she is married to a man that treats her very badly. The man beats her,sleeps with other women and does not sleep with her. She has moved out of the man’s house but they are yet to start the divorce proceedings.

Constance is a very beautiful lady whom I find very attractive. Shes been responding to me since we met and we have actually made love once but I said we wont do that again until shes divorced properly. Now,every time I ask her what is delaying her divorce,her response is not always satisfactory. She will say things like,I am praying to God to direct me on the right decision. I have asked her if she wants the man again and she denies that every time. She keeps asking me to be patient with her. That if I want s*x,she is ready anytime. I know she loves me,we spend quite a lot of time together. She is my idea of a perfect wife but this her indecisiveness to finalize her divorce is giving me cause for worry.

I would like to get married soon,should I wait for her or move on?Secondly,is it okay to keep smashing her after all......Read More

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For the wife to raise alarm, definitely ,it will be the video with fellow man.

ebonflexy:
By gay porn do you mean with men or trannies?
If it's the latter, then no he's not gay, but very deep in pornographic addiction...very deep.

To be candid,if your husband does not want to talk about it,then you better not get high blood pressure on the matter.
Its something he needs to deal with. My only concern is: is it affecting your marriage in any way?
Your husband has an addiction,its until he realises it,he is the only one who can decide he needs help to overcome the addiction\
You…you just love him all the same…same way you over a sick spouse and pray that they get the help they need soonest
Get on your knees too and start praying for him

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Dear Admin,

I dont know if I should be worried but recently I discovered my husband has a huge load of gay porn videos on his phone.

I usually do not go through my husband of eight months phone but a few day ago,he left his phone when he went to the Mechanic. The phone is passworded but he called me from the Mechanic to get a buyer’s no from the phone he forgot so he gave me his password.
After I gave him the number,I was just curious and began to go through his phone gallery,I just wanted to see pictures he has. I saw quite a few pictures that I know of,but then,I saw one picture of a naked guy. I was like,maybe he downloaded it by mistake. It was when I clicked on his video collection that I discovered he has quite a number of porn videos and all of them are gay videos.
I was so shocked. I was alarmed and as soon as he got home,i asked him why he has all these videos. To my surprise...Read More

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Merry Christmas too.

LivelyStones:
Dear Fans,Friends and ambassadors of Lively Stones,we wish you all a very Merry Christmas.

Here’s praying that you will continue to stand with us to change the narrative on marriages and relationships. Marriage and healthy relationships requires faith,love,patience and hard work…thank you for believing with us.


Merry Christmas from our Team to all of you,we love you!



Jzhane.