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Sincerely speaking..condoms reduce the pleasure driven from sex and most ladies ,even guys desire it.Also.naturally, condoms were not designed for sex ,we use them just as a preventive measure.
Coming to your question, the answer is yes.Penetrating her without a condom even for seconds can leave deposits of sperm which may get her pregnant.It is also possible to have sex with her for hours without condoms and yet not get her pregnant.
My advice is that you stand your ground .If you eventually penetrate without condoms and she comes up tomorrow that she is pregnant,even if it's for another guy, you wil go in for it.secondly,STI no dey show for face.

Tnx alot ..very helpful @Ubunja & 2dice01
No @ madriguy
We r not fighthing sir...we all make mistakes.@IamPlato

Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

Hello fellow nairalanders,I am a bit confused over my dad's health state.it all began about a month ago after his usual sports.He came home,was so dizzy and could hardly move his left leg.this made him fall severally as he could hardly maintain his balance.Within the period, we also noticed blood in his stool but after a stool culture analysis ..nothing was discovered(i.e. negative result).this made him loose so much blood and had to go for a transfusion.the point now is that the stooling just resurfaced and this time no blood in stool instead he feels this sudden urge to stool but ends up passing out nothing..he has also complained of serious pains down behind his waist and just above his p3nis .he is 78yrs old and I have never experienced such symptoms.please I need your advice especially the mdical practitioners amongst us.I intend taking him to the hospital tomorrow but kind of scared on what it could be.

Hi friends, need your openion on something that has been eating me up.i am 28 and in love with a 20 year old lady,in 200L who happens to be living in the same compound with me.we are both stil living with our parents except for her who stays mostly in school.its our second year into the relationship.at first, things were rosy,sweet and enjoying.her mother likes me and aceepts our being together as i excplained my intentions to her.she takes me as her own son and even inlolves me in their family affairs.the problem is that she can be aggressive at time and shout on top of her voice and this has made her quarrel sevrally with my mum,make faces and all that.we also learnt that she was sent out of her husbands home for about 8years,thought they are back now,for spilling hot water on her inlaw out of anger.so when my mother learnt i was goin out with the girl,she was mad and started giving my girl this cold treatment,not wanting her around the house like before,refusing to return her greetings. My mum went as far as teeling my girl to stay away from me.this has made her scared as she feels her mother in law to be hates her soo much.we are on the verge of breaking up,not our desire but she cant handle it anymore.she is an only child and has this attachment with her mother who hapens not to be in good terms with my mother. She pleaded with me not to confront my mum so as not to heighten the treatments she recieves and that gets me confused.i know i am not ready to sattle now pending when i have a bettter job,i only earn about 30k monthly,but cant imagine a life without her.please i need your help friends.should i let go or go against my family to have the woman of my dream?

Mehn..dis one s much.its cool wen moderate n sexy too.