₦airaland Forum

Good day people of nairaland. Let me start by saying i grew up in a christian home where you can't bring a lady home.All i know when growing up was church,school and little play [ football ].I also went to a christian high school,all you're expected to do is read and serve God.
Now am of age living alone and ready to settle down soon.When i was growing up i believed i'm perfectly okay because my joystick size is okay,my joystick rise strong when i woke up in the morning and once in a while when i see beautiful lady i also get erection.Now i notice when ever i tried making love i find it hard getting or sustaining an erection.I do feel some kind of fear in me.When am alone everything seems perfect,i get perfect erection but when am with a lady the wahala starts again.At a point i tried masturbating and i had NO issue,everything was perfect,very strong erection,Then i tried making love again this fear enter again and no or weak erection.Now am losing interest in sex cos. Please what can i do or as anyone pass through this before and what was the way out. THANKS.