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Kobicove:
You may not get caught the first time but you will eventually get caught, it's only a matter of time!

They always get caught in the end, then they start crying crocodile tears and claiming it's their first time

I can definitely swear on oath that you are physical cyber security or some sort of agent

dre11:
ActionAid knocks FG over partial remittance of subsidy removal gains




https://guardian.ng/news/nigeria-begins-export-of-obodo-crude-to-germany/

It's well with nigeria

[quote author=fergie001 post=135289917][/quote]New era

malali:
Not Every Relationship Was Toxic From Day One — But Mental Illness Was Ignored.

Desperation for companionship often blinds people to what should be non-negotiable: mental health stability.

When dating, most people only see each other a few hours a week, or for sleepovers with sex, food, and surface-level bonding. It’s incredibly easy for someone with untreated or masked psychiatric conditions to appear “normal” in those time windows. Some even overcompensate socially, building a false image through charm, sex, or gifts.

But live with them for 12 months — then the reality peels open.

Suddenly, the quirks become chaos. The moods become meltdowns. You’re not arguing with logic — you’re negotiating with an unstable psyche. By then, you’re in too deep: finances tied, emotions invested, families entangled.

Don’t ignore red flags. They won’t magically improve.
Many have simply learned to mask, not heal.
And when they unravel, they don’t just damage themselves — they can endanger others.

A person with a poorly managed mental disorder can function in public and implode behind closed doors.
They aren’t “crazy” — but they’re one breakdown away from violence, from disappearances, or from psychological warfare that drains your soul.

Choose with clarity, not pity.

I can swear that you talk from experience. Wow so true, tou got your share. I mean that's all I can do, mental health is the reason for alot of brakedown in marraiges but it's always ignored. " they aren't crazy" but they are one brakedow away from violence. Woop, you so right. Family history is very important before marraige so you can take up on what you can handle because patience brings success just like persistence. So it is in marraige, nothing is perfect in life but some people are hard to work with. Pride is a symptom to this mental health. Check the pride level of your spouse and her family.

malali:
Not Every Relationship Was Toxic From Day One — But Mental Illness Was Ignored.

Desperation for companionship often blinds people to what should be non-negotiable: mental health stability.

When dating, most people only see each other a few hours a week, or for sleepovers with sex, food, and surface-level bonding. It’s incredibly easy for someone with untreated or masked psychiatric conditions to appear “normal” in those time windows. Some even overcompensate socially, building a false image through charm, sex, or gifts.

But live with them for 12 months — then the reality peels open.

Suddenly, the quirks become chaos. The moods become meltdowns. You’re not arguing with logic — you’re negotiating with an unstable psyche. By then, you’re in too deep: finances tied, emotions invested, families entangled.

Don’t ignore red flags. They won’t magically improve.
Many have simply learned to mask, not heal.
And when they unravel, they don’t just damage themselves — they can endanger others.

A person with a poorly managed mental disorder can function in public and implode behind closed doors.
They aren’t “crazy” — but they’re one breakdown away from violence, from disappearances, or from psychological warfare that drains your soul.

Choose with clarity, not pity.

Your first statement gave you the likes, I will go back to read the rest, hoping it would be apt for the rest part. Then you get a share. Many people truly are suffering from mental health. The truth is, they know that they are. The sufferers of this mental health are the toxic people but play the victim. God help children raised In this dynamics

Thundafireseun:
End time wedding 😆😆

We need to go back to the beginning when people check histories of families and peculiar attributes of a family before getting married. This idea that we are okay together then get married is causing problems. Some families are trouble without end. If the family is good, the last you must not ignore is the pride level of the family. Families with pride don't resolve issues.

TechBaron:
I go learn wetin?

Ogbeni, I have been happily married for 10 years now.

You go still learn.. nor worry. You will one day have to oder your kids to be brought back like a cheap laptop. Oder indeed. Oga rest, na ur own u know.

TechBaron:
Go and prepare for Jamb. We're talking about marriage and parenthood here not DLS.

Hmm who nor go nor know..indeed, marriage and parenthood. Okay o. I wish you well. Men like you is the reason why this women lack coordination. Simple clear explanation that the op gave, you are twisting and wanting to give your baseless assumptions like you know 1 tin. Oga nor worry, u go learn.

TechBaron:
Empire basket full of fruits... You haven't seen the typical Akwa Ibom marriage list yet..

Anyway, Chairman, You need to work on your finances.

If you had a solid means of catering for yourself and those kids, you would have ordered for them to be brought over to stay with you.

You can't send your children to Afghanistan to live with Talibans, and expect them not to learn how to make bombs.

You weren't married to the lady in the first place, so why seek divorce?

And meanwhile.. Stop this habit of calling women names after years of bliss. She wasn't DESTRUCTIVE when she was birthing children for you.

Learn to accept your mistakes and take responsibility!

Who is this woke wanabi, wow clap for your self, you have spoken well

edlion57:
What is the essence of making money if not for my family....nothing will ever make me to lock up my brother

If wife can lock up husband, who be brother

advanceDNA:
What I want to hear is how the woman's infidelity is the husband's fault and how he's childish and toxic for locking the shop

You are a smart person in a world full with enablers. Carry go.

Link please I am I the village,make una help me

God help men

harsysky:

She may be wrong and may have goofed but there is always an atom of truth in some accusations. Omokri that I know would have taken that matter to any length unless there is something hidden therein.

Woman never accuse you before. Hmm. The truth is they know that fellow men will join in thier lie song. I was once told by one that she will use her woman stance and people will go against me, I thought it was a joke because I was doing everything possible to keep my hands clean but when the aligatiions came. Omo truth is no one till today believes me. I just dey look say one day, she wld with her own mouth say the truth. People say that's never going to happen but I just look upto God. There was no atom of truth, me nd her knows the truth and sometimes I think she just looks at me and laff seeing how I suffer in pain and as other join her in this lies. Evil dey this world o. The full story can make a movie, now I know why they say the truth us stranger than a fiction movie. I am more of a documentation person because of this experience, crazily documentation.

Hueyreckless0007:
Equalizer 2000
American Ninja
The last dragon
The golden child
Predator
Big trouble in little china
Enter the dragon
Friday

You were born in 1980 to 84. Hmm equaliser 2000.. you be sabi man. I go lie for you?

AImiron:
Mf, i don't live in the shith0le, get a life lil boy and stay away from international politics, you're too slow and it's way beyond your IQ, hunger go blind your eyes laslas

Can you imagine this faceless, oh you don't live in the sithole? What has that got to do with this? Come on you want to paint a picture of yourself, please try painting youras first. How you stay in your dirty shitty bed and know who is slowi and who lives in the shithole or not. You continue to define yourself. Wannabe. .. lol you have no idea.

AImiron:
Obvioulsy, dem still dey feed your little asss, there won't be any history in the event of a nuclear war, na wetin Trump dey avoid be that, you're too slow to understand and a full retarrrd...

You have just defined yourself with your own words. Nuclear war indeed. Who is going to start the nuclear war? Russia or Ukraine? Please educate yourself, it will do you good and also learn some manners. You hear trump shouting nuclear war like his friend like to, you too is running here to say nuclear war.. my friend, we not on the same level, next time you reply my statement with your classless word, you will know the meaning of spiritual nuclear. Please just expire, faceless

tctrills:
Wait oh, is it that you want this war to continue?
How has the fighting benefited Ukraine?
The problem with you is id that you choose every position that is against the Trump position.

Do you truly prefer the Biden method where by the war would go on endlessly and Ukraine will continue to be a mess?
Zeelensky was the guest of the white house but he chose to make a spectacle in front of the cameras. He is not ready for peace. He wants the war to go on forever so let him go and continue his war.
At least, he had your blessings and support.

Living room analysis. If this is what you think about handling issues in the international system Palestine would have been wiped out long ago, Israel would not be in existence today and many other countries would not exist.. peace only comes from the truth and fairness.

smokinloud:
He must bully Zelensky for peace to reign na. his goal is peace.

So a bully bullies gor peace? Why are things truly upside down these days. If I go by bible interpretation, this world is really coming to an end. Normalcy is now the new abnormal. Humans, what's going on?

fortunez1:
what matters is let the war end . After then reconstruction starts on a new page , or you didn't hear Ukraine is forcing conscript to fight .
While Russia is producing more weapons of destruction , Europe is sleeping , China and other Russian Allies are spending heavily on mass production of weapons. Trump is only doing the right thing which is called HUMILITY
and Putin likes it because him Putin is tired of the war also. As lessons have been learnt

Truly let the war end but on what terms? Russia too is forcing her people to fight and have even brought north Koreans to fight in the war, all of this is normal in war times. Nations have been producing weapons massively before the war. Trump is acting like a bully

franchasng:
Honestly Trump is making America lose strength, supporters, allies and everything.


Trump shouldn't have been reelected the second time, it was a big mistake.


Trump's action is portraying America as a weak nation scared of Russia and this is what Putin wants. How can the great American President be the one talking cowardly about world war? America became the great and powerful nation they are today through show of strength and might even in most difficult times, but Trump think running a country is like running a business where you must make profit and save cost all the time.


This video made me feel so bad


Zelensky is truly a brave guy, he should be made hero of modern Europe. I admire his courage and position, God help Ukraine, really sad

You are truly a decent human. Most character identification is gotten from off topics. God bless you.

Mrexcell:
So u want trump to continue with the war until it finally leads to a nuclear ww3?

No I don't want him to continue but he should intervene as an independent entity. His bias interest is obvious. It's like settlement with a rich man and a poor man in nigeria. There is no integrity in this meeting. It was all a show.

YeyeGbami:
Lmao. Nothing personal just common sense and politics. Biden spent 200B on the war, what did american get in return? Nothing!

Zelensky was coming to use his rare earth minerals to bring trump on his side, lol i just dey laugh as dem dey talk am down like kiddo

Trump has been in the game for ag

They talked him down nor be small, trump is giving credence to Americas enemies about how she cannot be trusted. 200b was a trap, we all now agree, nor borrow money for wicked lenders o cos you nor go pay finish

Tjra:
Pushing to join NATO knowing fully that's their neighbor's greatest enemy.

Ukraine is a sovereign nation. But because she is not America she must work in line with Russian terms. I mean if Russia and Ukraine were truly neighbours there would have been a better way to go about this but no her neighbour is too strong and she has no say, what a world we live in

Tjra:
Zelensky is not a coward but he is a certified fool.

Fighting a senseless war he can never win even in 100 years to come.

You think he is wise to keep wasting the lives of his people?

Maybe when Putin bombs his family, hin head go correct.

Oppressor, because you are strong, I should fold my hands and watch you kill my people and take my land, I rather die fighting. This life nor really ballance. What has Ukraine done?

Tjra:
Zelensky is not a coward but he is a certified fool.

Fighting a senseless war he can never win even in 100 years to come.

You think he is wise to keep wasting the lives of his people?

Maybe when Putin bombs his family, hin head go correct.

Sometimes you have to fight even in the face of obvious death. Sometimes war is not about wining, you fight even if you know you will loose,but for dignity and humanity you stand your ground. God bless America God bless Ukraine and this war is not about America. Peace comes from the truth not oppression manipulation and lies

Why? The Ukraine president is a president, I wonder how the true Ukrainians feel now seeing thier head talked to like this. Can Russian president be talked to like this by Vance, what ever you do in this life, depend on God and yourself, this really hurts, trump is trying to stop a 3rd world war, its there something that is not being said about thus issue. Great America is defending Russia for what exactly, trump and his folks just made it look like they are scared of Russia or they are Russian friends. In my layman opinion zelensky has shown strength and resilience. History will remember this. I pray trump reconsider this issue because most countries will loose trust for America after this. I am for peace but not on this oppressive terms. Is diplomacy about the truth or manipulation.

LegacyB:
Can JD Vance speak to Putin the way he spoke to Zelenskyy? Only those with low IQ would not know that trump has no respect for Ukraine 🇺🇦. But he can’t mess with Russia. You are 100 percent correct Trump is just a bully…

I laff seriously.. God, this world needs healing. God will one day help the weak. Its painful to watch that video.. what has Ukraine done to deserve the war in the first place. He was even told he is trying to start a world war, wow

slim75d:
The news I get on daily basis about women make me scared of getting married. I wonder how many good women are out there.

Don't be scared but be watchful, there are very few good women out there but surely with their short Cummings even as good men out there have theirs. Certainly, we have more good men now, pray you find your eve, cos though eve gave Adam the forbidden fruit, it was never stated that they divorced. So pick your eve "evil " wisely. Most certainly there are very very less than few good women in nigeria. Most nigerian hypocritical nigerian men are responsible for this. Nigerian problem in all areas of life is lack of standards, call it what ever kind of name. God help the good men out there please.

Jennyclay:
Wonders shall never end

Probably, he learnt it from his father. Like father, like son

The police should please apprehend the father too.

Useless men!!

Who do you like this? Please heal naa

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