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okrikaboi:
What if the husband poisoned them?

Shhhh. Too much imagination is not reality

LittleBigDick:
Rest afônja

If only u know

Seun try wella. I went through this tread that would have gbas gbos and it was civil. Nigeria fit better last last oh. Though me self don give up. I pray sha

Be kind to people no matter what, people are suffering in silence. There is a reason I want to stupidly rich. Not for me but for the sake of helping people. With this money I will dig deep to find people who truly needs this help. God these are my sincere prayer. Only 30 percent of the wealth u give me will I use fir myself. The world is truly wicked

africandollar:
I wouldn’t pay any attention to the words of a coward who couldn’t even commit suicide properly! Las las na mouth you get, person wey wan jump enter lagoon no dey call him friends to come rescue am, e go just jump fiam and dem go hear the news later, that’s why I know you’re spineless and nothing more than an attention seeker.

Shhh.

Leave David out of this, I bet u, ur wife started it all. Shameless woman. Anyways, just spill the beans nd insult him and that's all. Don't stress yourself.

I like this, God bless all the good women out there.

Jeon:
Incoherent.

Okay sir

Jeon:
This ur narration no go be lik this if na woman dy for sick bed.

Men don't neglect htier wives on thier sick bed. That's not to say I does not happen but check the percentage to which that happens u will be amazed. Bro u need to check. Most men will be by thier side despite what do woman may have done but a woman will never overlook a man's fault to be by his side. My little cent though.

FireUpNow:
I am not supporting the woman but some men do not treat their wives well. What I told you is not a lie buddy.

Majority of the time it's the woman who is careless with thier husband and from the little information we have now, the woman us doing same. A man will provide all that he xan and everything he has yet he us still looked down on. From obvious online facts and life experiences only few men treat women badly but the man's own will be more public nd known trust me

FireUpNow:
Things dey happen. When I was in the hospital doctors and nurses always it is when a woman's husband is sick that's when you will know if the man was really taking care of the woman when he was okay. I wait to hear the other side of the story.

That's a lie, most women are careless with thier husband regardless. U don't need a reason to be good or bad. Trust me. We are judgemental and cold hearted in nigeria

Jeon:
Men don't give a fvck when their wives are very sick. Some can fuvk another woman during the late wife's funeral.

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This maybe the second/the most loved wife he abandoned his first family for . They don't tolerate nonsense, unlike the first wife.

Why are we like this in this country. God help us all o. Imagine the insunations, sickening I swear. What if u are wrong. Let's look for the facts of the story bottom line help in the end. Nigerians are so cold hearted

ijustdey:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/01/05/wife-takes-sick-husband-nigerian-hospital-abandons-him-there-over-six-months-edo

How do I help please, let's verify the story and help, this is a call to all men in nigeria. I am crying as I type this.

alpharoyalty:
This guy is too childish I swear

Shhhhhh.. u av no idea. Everyone is not living on ur rules

Giftedhand47:
I have a chronic anger problem I've tried not to get angry and overlook things but this demonic spirit will just do his thing
Pls help me i really need tips from Nairaland family.don't know I may get help here . Thanks

Always walk away. U may be the type that's truthful and always want the truth to prevail, I sense even when u display this anger, u were right but anger makes us all look guilty, walk away at all cost. That's the only remedy, with time this spirit will also walk away. Trust me this is the solution, never wait around when u angry. Ask benin boys.

papyjaypaul:
Men should start setting standards by protecting women. Real men stand up for women who their brothas will wife, they protect them when they go rogue because they are sistas. Standard is NOT impregnating a girl you are not married to. It's not leaving kids as b@$$tards and orphans while you are alive. That's a deadbeat man who gat no standard

What if the woman use her mouth to say the kids are not for the man and leaves with the kids. It's the man still a deadbeat by staying low to first understand things.?

BabaHenry:
Don't judge that way....
I have a very close friend of mine that behave exactly as what the op is describing right there...
He is also an Arsenal fan, his wife and kids has complained several times about his irrational behavior anytime his team loses...
There was a time he took out his aggression on one of his friends, Sir, we had to gang up to beat the hell out of him that day and it took the intervention of his elderly family members before we could settle the case because we had to tell him to go his way because he can't move with us....
Things are happening

Well said and understood.. either way u guys be wan beat the guy b4. Nor b that day matter. Lol the guy should grow up. Football is deep o.. it's more powerful than music for some. But fir this lady. It's not the ball that wants to make her brake up. They are not even married. She is just talking her own. I perceive a person with a bad mouth. So when the guy came back he was angry about the match ok... the next thing like she said was to trow a padlock because arsenal lost. No something was said things happened nd the passionate fan who has no control now allowed himself to be belittled.

dkidd:
This is the best decision u can take on the matter.... Arsenal fan with anger issues omor na disaster dey wait fir corner jejelly

Ahh arsenal with anger issues. These guys are gentle men naaa. When did u start watching football?

jumokeadele:
Its a red flag my sister, he probably gambles even , you should check that too. Run as far as you can, if a man truly loves a woman , we are always ready to change and bend our rules , if he's not changing for you , then he doesn't love you well enough. Run o

Passionate fans to the extent she portrayed it hardly gambles. Only a few

FeliciaOja:
How can someone lock door refuse to talk or eat his food just because of a football match??
Even threaten to throw padlock at me for disturbing him because his team lost
I'm done!! Can't be dealing with a child that calls himself a man. Very childish attitude

Please go o. U want to chop where u did not sow. Time will take care of him. One tin u don't know. The guy loves Arsenal more than u. U cld not even make him love u more than his club. U d 1 with the problem. As far as I am concerned u exaggerated the situation.

placeofallure:
I am a staunch Arsenal fan. I've been following Arsenal since the time of Dennis Bergkamp, Ray Parlor, Jeremie Aladiere, Julio Baptista, Antonio Reyes, Kanu Nwakwo and the likes and by now, I've gotten used to Arsenal's inconsistency. How old is he? He should get a hold of himself and get a life outside of football. There will be good days and awful days like last night. Why should he take out his frustration on you? As a man, he should have a grasp over his emotions and treat you right. You're not responsible for his woes. Sit him down and tell him all these, if he's unflinchingly adamant, dump him! He cannot head a home! He's a disaster waiting to erupt.

Wrong, this girl is wrong for him simple. Stop that talk. We seem to come from same Era. She exaggerated the story. Please people should learn to read BTW the lines. She said bullshit. She never loved the guy nd the guy nor get bar like that if she wld b ordering an arsenal jearsy

FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

He needs to leave you. You are not a good person period. No too much talk wow. Even u also need help 4 ur thought patterns please

Birdbyrde440:
Lol emeka ike need to be in rehab

Woman never paint u, just wait. Ur weakness will be used like billions on u. Drug addict on the street u mean. Guy Bleep that line. Ike was frustrated.

This Ike picking na mumu o. Abeg nor vex but my opinion. See as u resemble ur papa finish. U never see pain from a woman. Ur brain had been washed. Believe me, ur father was never perfect. One thing is sure the woman is as restless as ur ur dad. Ur dad only needed a cool soul and he thought he found one in her. Verdict. Ur mum oversabi spoil everything. Go nd rest boy, if u can't positively impact, stay low

ZIMDRILL:
its a very complex issue, first of all
we need to know the dynamics in her marriage, remember a men can be the head of the house, but might be a poor person in creating a future for the kids

Shhh. Too much sense is nonsense

Ms202309:
Assualt should never be tolerated by any gender, any age or anyone

You have no right to hit, slap or physically attack any adult

So it is that no gender should by way of mouth abuse the leaving daylight out of the other. By so doing u maybe calling for slap. Some people use thier hands instead of mouth

Nazgul:
Sometimes the best way to avoid conflict with your spouse from getting out of hand, is to leave the house for a while.

I know some men can be jerks, but women should learn how to control their mouths. Escalating a quarrel to the extent where she was literally nakéd just to prove a point to her husband isn't wise.

The rule of the thumb is never fight anyone whom you know is physically stronger than you. You might end up in the morgue.

In a situation where u leave the house under the unwarranted abuse, and still come back and it continues, u run to a hotel nd come back after several days the abuse continues until u lock urself in a room only to cry and pray the abuse stops. Some women call for these things but the truth is u must try to avoid if not u will kill someone and Noone will even understand. Do u know that after running sleeping in hotels without touching her. When u still try to report the issue Noone will believe u.

Na beg them beg them nor force her naa. Abeg everywhere hard

socialmediaman:
ChatGPT version, for those who struggled to understand like I did

CC: royalfly

I appreciate this thanks. Wrote in a hurry

Hotice085:
People are talking from experience you are talking " this is Nigeria', do you know how many numbers of lawyers like this case especially on the woman side?
Ogbeni, Nigeria or no Nigeria case pass case;

With a good lawyer, the guy is good except there us bias like u have now cos she is a woman. Even if she takes the kids. Karma will catch up. We have also seen cases this is nigeria.

madone:
Don't judge marriage matter from outside ooo. Hear the side of the woman first not them say them say

The woman has arrested or called the police for this guy more than three times, the last time she used soldiers to pack her things. She claims she was always beaten, the guy claims to never have beaten thus girl, but in the course of the 5 year marraige has only smacked lightly 3 times due to constant abuse and insult but never hit her to be called a beating in African context lol. But I believe this is the truth. He has called the parents even b4 she left for weeks they did not answer and after she left they did not answer, she even went to the guys work place to embarrass him and he called them they did not answer. The father claims as someone told the man that he is doing what any father would do. According to the guy the father has ones come to help the girl pack her load out because of a quarrel they had. They was no smacking self involved all because she stole money from the guy

yrhuhfy113:
please NEXT time, write in a way that is easy for us to understand if you truly want counsel

It was actually in a rush, heard the full story and felt for the guy. U need to see this guy to understand.