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they both look good at 40....i pray to remain young beautiful and energetic Wen I get to dat age

number 8 got me laughing

KellyKertz:
Stop castigating sombori whose lifestyle is 10x better than yours...
She dies today, African will mourn her.
But you, Not even NL wii notice.. Go GET A LIFE BRO.

this one Na straight bullet Oo.. lols

Okoroawusa:
Some ppl think say Baba no sabi enjoy life...

We ve all been there as young ppl.

My own worse set.

my dear no be only u.... lol... may d lord help us

some naija parents and choosy choosy... on whom to marry.... Mtcheeeeew

paddybrown:
Just recently got an appointment with an insurance company as a marketer and after the training and everything we hit the road looking for a client to buy some of our policy and I meant a guy who I introduced myself and told him about our policy and he just collect my number that he will get back to me and ever since then I was expecting his call and lo and behold he called today and asked me to meet him in one of the hotel in festac, on reaching there he bought a lot of drinks and suya of which he offered me and I declined because what was ringing in my head was Lord let him just pick one of this policy so that I can at least laugh this December. on seeing my curiosity and after a long talk about the policy that suit him best to pick, he brought out a cheque of 6 million naira I was like I don hammer at last (base on d commission d company will give me oooo). he then told me straight ahead that he will only sign the cheque and give me tomorrow morning only if I keep him company till tomorrow morning, and I was like how? and he started narrating how he love me from the very first day and so on and I just be like. ...oga u d see well so? I be guy like you ooooo and he said he knows that and I suppose understand what he meant and he is even ready to introduce me to some one that will give me a better job only if I accept his proposal and I was like I don suffer for this my life so because I want u to buy policy that will favour u at the end the bring this type of talk? I tried to be professional so that my anger should not take d business out but after much talk without a definite way forward this young man slapped me and started shouting that look at this 419 and so on, so person even rush me and shouting 419 up nd down until I showed them the companies insurance proposal forms and narrate my own side of the story but as it is the rich always have their way..
I was really traumatised today but I still believe God that one day my hustle will surely pay.

pls if you are a marketer out there becareful when meeting your prospects because some of them are some thing else...

it really a bitter experience

chai....@op... Pele.... it's not easy to be a marketer... u might experience some crazy shiit... thank God u didn't keep him company....hmmmm if not.... it may be another story dat touch.... him for tear ur ass up scatter.... hmmm

insurance marketing Na big error...

Jupxter:
Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

exactly

I smell lies

Onyiido:
Why do u always derive pleasure in being a sadist. When u keep on with this unruly manner, u'll reap all u've sown.

he is lonely and depressed... dis his only way of seeking attention....

greatdave:
Wow...NwaAmaikpe has found a bride. The craziness is now amplified!

their 2 be confirm igboo.... smokers

Magnifik18:
Rape is now a thing of joke to you.

See how recession has made you stupid.

NwaAmaikpe.....dat is under ojuelegba bridge smoking...... Indian hemp.... how will he ever have sense.... lol

itsik:
This NwaAmaikpe guy is a cattle rearer.

Not on such matters nau.
People are still grieving here nau. Lives are at stake here.
Where is your human sympathy mr nwaAmaikpe?

Pray you dont have a serious case like this In real life and report to nairaland.com for help.
cos then you will understand that its not everything you cajole or make jest of.

NwaAmaikpe.....dat is under ojuelegba bridge smoking...... Indian hemp.... how will he ever have sense.... lol

YelloweWest:
Sick and demented you are.
I hope u get the help u need

i heard he take Indian hemp.... so don't be surprised

jauntty:
Are you okay? Must you exhibit your stupidity every time?

That's someone wife, daughter and mum dead , atleast shut your hole if you don't have something reasonable to say

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R I P....my Condolences to the family.

I hope that picture was published online with permission from the family

u get time to dey reply nwaamaikpe

Aadibros:
While I agree with some of what you have written. However, I have the following responses to share.

1. Men should be patient to truly understand why their wives give those excuses about sex. She could be stressed out or have hormonal issues. Also, women's urge for sex isn't same as men's - medically explained. Husband go do all the romantic stuff to him GF to arouse her but e go just command him wife like sacrificial lamb wey suppose just spread for bed. The question is, how sincerely has he tried to communicate with her to understand why there is a change in how she responds to sex compared to the early times of their marriage? She may be unhappy with the man or certain situations. Also, why wont she lose her urge if her husband only comes to her or becomes nice to her when he needs sex? All your yarns no be excuse for the man to begin go outside him marriage. Like someone correctly said, even when the wife give am daily, man wey go go outside still dey go.

2. I understand and have experienced that behavior but trust me, she is not happy about a lot of things. So if you know how you were so loving before you married her to get the best of her, do same and more to find out why she is happier when you are not around. You annoy her and don't genuinely repent and you think settling an issue ends in love making. Then look for a prostitute not a wife. Nothing justifies a man staying out to drink. It is not in a man's DNA!!!

3. Your third point no even clear.

4. Reactions are effects of earlier actions.

5. The man should learn to love his wife and family the way he need from day 1. I am against either of the parents taking out their anger on innocent children, but this doesn't apply to females alone so don't make it a female thing.

Bottom line, it is not a man's world!!! I don't know where that bull crap came from. Why should a husband treat his wife like he is doing her a favor to be married to him? What the heck do you think you give her or do for her that she cant get more outside too if she decides to go out the way men stupidly justify their reasons for going out? Some men annoyingly say it is to answer a man's name. which dirty name? you be Dangote or Jeff Bezos? How much you even pay for bride price or dowry? How much your best wedding even cost?
The earlier we start treating our wives as wives, the better. Happy wife, happy home!!! Why because they are the support. Nothing lasts long without good support system. Shikina!!!

i just love dis write up.....infact u said all.... thumbs up to u.... wonderful men are indeed out there.... . please sir tell it to all does.... childish fvck boys on NL... who think women are tools... dat can be tossed around

Blessograo:
Things men do that are not mistakes
1. Cheating on their wives
2. Taking them for granted and not appreciating their little efforts
3: expecting them to do anything that involves the house, children and taking care of them like kids.
4. Leaving everywhere dirty and waiting for their wife to come back from work to clean and cook even when they've been home all day or earlier and ask for sex from the tired woman
5. Taking care of everyone when they are sick including inlaws but even her husband is not home he's with side chick.
Infact men have begin to define wifes as
W: wife
I: incubators
F: food tunnels
E: excessive
S: sex
Next time someone complains about ladies again think twic.

tell dem ooo

pocohantas:
When will you guys start having logical counters, instead of singing feminism. Is it so difficult to think and come up with a civil argument? Nawa for this generation of men o!

OP, nice list.

stewpid set of men

emmie14:
feminist sighted

she is right married men too have a lot of work to do

youngreezy:
Using the term weaker sex to dia advantage... Dis one na em dey reign now dem use am dey kill men..

lolzzz

MrHistorian:
6.)Total disregard for body/beauty maintenance.

I don't know if this is peculiar to Nigeria but once a woman is married,she pays little attention to her looks with the ridiculous belief that "Who is looking at me?".. Though a married woman is not expected to portray herself as a slut but at the same time must make herself presentable at home and in the public.

good point I agree with u

she is a confirm ode.... why screw around because one stupid nigga fvcked u up?..... some gals Sef.... Mtcheeeeew...

webbro007:
aromateee, believe we are kings,make no BST or 48 comment rubbish here o, overboard & drillings awaits, lebisco Odin kebiscontra inamilitus inatrayon, ayitia.

cultist oshii

IamLaura:
The sadness in this little boys' eyes. You can tell he has seen horror.

my dear.... I almost cried cried

awwwwwwn

I believe d op is battling with fornication... cus dats d major sin of we youth dis days.... may God save us

tayooluwole:
I don't know if any body here is in my shoe... Since I was born I have attended many crusade and church services. During any of the services, any time the instruction is prescribed that all who wish to denounce sin and become born again should come out to receive prayers, me no they carry last to follow go out to be born again at that moment. The issue is, my being born again at any point in time doesn't take much time before it expires. Just at the moment I decide to be born again the holyholy will be there but by the time the holyholy run into 2 to 3 days it begins to desolve till I go back to the status quo. The logic behind this is that, if Jesus is to come withing the shortest time that follows the moment of my being born again that means heaven sure me die but if na after it has expired OYO is my case but Jesus will surely consider my seriousness by looking at the number of times I have come to him...

Pls how can someone be permanently born again without much sin ?

Note: he get some things wey Christians go count as sin and wey if ah no do na hunger go kill me...

Christian brothers over to you...

my dear it's just by d grace God

frosbel2:
I was a Deeper Life member and worker and almost a Pastor for about 20 years.

Initially when you join it appears to be one great club of humble believers, but afterwards you notice the following traits of their organisation ;

• They are beholden to one man, Pastor Kumuyi

• Anything Pastor Kumuiyi says is truth and if you do not like it you must leave or start your own church

• They are so spiritually arrogant, and portray their church as the next best thing to holiness while other churches are either further away from holiness or fake altogether

• They separate families, husbands and wives, children and parents, siblings, co-workers etc .

• If you are in a second marriage and become born again (so called), you must go back to your first wife and reconcile to her, assuming she is unmarried because your second wife is not recognized by God. Imagine the confusion this will cause especially with children involved.

• They lack true compassion and love for everyone else other than their own members

• They use hell fire to threaten their members into paying tithes and to abide by church rules and regulations.

• If you are not careful, the church will take over your individuality and you will become another zombie minion without a mind of your own

• The church also has to tendency to preach against wine or alcohol intake, something that was never commanded in the bible, rather the bible says we should do everything in moderation

• It is difficult to be truly happy in Deeper Life because you are always fighting one sin or the other or chasing one demon or the other

• Their focus is strongly selfish, it is all about your own salvation and escaping hell to make heaven.

• They will often tell off young women for certain styles of dressing, the problem is many of these same women have the heart of Jezebel, very similar to a modest radical Muslim woman who despite dressing modestly with the Hijab will easily blow up innocent civilians in the name of her god.

• They preach the fables and myths of a fictitious rapture (started by a charlatan called Scholfield ) , Trinity and Hell fire


Young ones, do not be enticed to join. God has called you to express your individuality and make choices in favour of righteousness and peace. God does not want any man to rule over you or force his own belief on you. You are answerable only to God and not Man.

Enjoy this life and all that goes with you, don’t live a life of misery in the name or religion.

ode...rapture,heaven and hell... is real... u better go and repent....

oluangelkay:
Publicly fighting your husband's lover will never solve the problem. because whats ur assurance that he will leave d girl for u？ when some of the girls will take that advantage and gain entrance into ur husband heart. I remember an incident that happened in my place of work some 2yrs ago. I worked as an accountant in this hotel, so on dat sat morning, i arrived at d office and met dis woman with her 2kids waiting at d front office, i greeted and passed them and went to my office, some minutes later, I started hearing voices, I came down stairs only to met with the woman and another younger girl fighting. From wat i gathered, the woman was informed that her husband slept in d hotel with the girl, so she went to fight her, the young girl was able to disengage herself and ran back to their room, without insulting or even replying to d woman, and that attitude alone, made this woman husband shout at his wife, and start siding d girl, long story short, after much pleading, the man gave his first daughter who was around 10yrs old money and warned her to make sure they leave d hotel with the mother after threatening the wife that he will marry d girl since she had d gut to fight her. the girl later came down to d execuive bar after she changed to d man tshirt and a bumb short, d man was busy pampering her, promising her heaven on earth just to make sure she wasnt angry again. Then i began to wonder, wat will become d faith of the woman when d husband gets home. Fighting ur husband lover, is that really the best way to protect ur home

to be honest with u.... it's of no use fighting d side chick.... it's d husband dats to blame... most married men can't just control demselves.....most men are just confused beings

benzene00:
Nigerian ladies don't deserve this kind of date

but why naa

see as she be Sef..... Mtcheeeeew

Randy91:
d blezzz is looking virgin

na only blezz.... u sabi..