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englishmart:
1.Jesus is the only way to God, John 14:6
This invariably means those who don't believe in Jesus have no business in heaven.
Christians worldwide have an estimated population of 2.4billion people
Islam records an estimate of 1.9 billion adherents, Hindu has an estimated 1.1bn adherents. The remaining world's population have their own beliefs which includes atheism.
If Jesus is the only way to God, what happens to those who don't believe in him? Hell? Well, the Bible suggests so.

2. There are a lot of complications and contradictory remarks in the Bible- a verse says don't drink, another says "Drink for your stomach sake", or "Do not drink wherein excess."
Malachi 3:10 a famous Bible verse on tithing speaks about bringing your tithe to the storehouse (church, maybe)
Deuteronomy 14:22-26 says otherwise, it says "you should drink and be merry with your tithe". I'm seriously beginning to doubt the credibility of the Bible. Maybe the translators' fault or God told writers different stories on the same issue. Read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John's account of Jesus and see real contradictions.

3. Does God answer prayers? Well, I'm not really sure about that. Someone might be suffering from malaria, the person takes drugs and still prays, the drugs work, but the person thanks God. Or a successful surgical operation, instead of thanking the doctor, they thank God. Some illnesses that would have been treated led to deaths because a certain congregation who were supposed to take the ill persons to the hospital, circled around praying. Faith without work isn't it still dead?
I remember when I had stomach ulcer, it was really terrible, I prayed and made several promises to God that if He took away the ulcer, I'd drink no more alcohol and will be more devout in worshipping Him. That didn't solve anything though, I stopped drinking and took to taking my drugs more seriously. Weeks later, I was well. I returned to drinking and after a few months, the ulcer resurfaced. That was when I realized I really needed to quit drinking. Prayers wouldn't have solved that issue.
I spent 80% of 2019 at home because of my misgivings about God's existence.
I really wish I could be convinced about God's existence because I'm not even happy to be away from Church because of the views of friends and family.

4. Children of God, or so called children of God tend to suffer more tribulations, hard times and desperate moments, a lot of them scream "Vanity upon Vanity" when secular people live in luxury or spend extravagantly. God tends to turn his back on those who worship Him especially when they need Him most.
The 1933 Holocaust and mass murder of Jews to the tone of 6m was a clear indication that God turns His eyes against His people
Repulsive comments are highly welcome

its not by force to serve God ...he is not even forcing u its a choice...u can decide to serve him or not ....its ur choice he ain't forcing u...leave all did ur long talk

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

fvcking random strangers...please change 2020 is coming

Stevecovey:
Bam teddy was more realistic cos it was obvious teddy had fallen madly for her. Even cried on tv when she was evicted. Bambam is also so emotionally mature.

I don’t trust this gedoni. E don see maga. Gosh sweet khafi, this is a mistake. Not even 4months!

my thoughts exactly I no trust dat gedoni

TonyeBarcanista:
I am sure you saw the apostrophe symbol in the "woman"? Or is it that you don't know what it means?

2. A 15 year old is a teenager, an adolescent and not a child. And 15 year old get pregnant in case you don't know. Also do know that at age 15 some people are already done with secondary school, including some of my siblings.

3. Being a relative of madam is one reason the wife may be suspicious. It would have been different if she was his own relative.

Like I said earlier, a 15 year old is not a CHILD! Yes, OP may not be having affair with her but Madam isn't comfortable with her around anymore. Get the message!

I am a guy but I understand madam's angle!

I 15 year old isnt a child maybe u should marry one...I wonder how some people reason...

sunnychibs:


hustle hard ooo,so that your children will not become house helps.

I dey tell u

Adanairaland:
How are we supposed to know the name?

Na we born am?

babe haba

Dulcinea:
The kind of guys we have in Nairaland are something else. Tufia! You men expect a woman to marry a widower but frowns when a man marries a widow. It's indeed an unequal world!


Op if you really love her and is prepared to accept her kids you can go ahead. The decision all boils down to you.

It's your choice to be happy, you have only one life to live

reasons why I keep saying we have a lot of useless guys on nairaland...

chenzen:
Oops! maybe the accident was caused by her village people.

Nigerians and stupid superstition

jeesprecy:
Mine soon come..
I will marry the love of my life and he'll love me back much more.. Amen..
All my pains right now will vanish and I will rejoice ever more.. Amen

wat ever pain u are going tru will come to past...stay strong dear

SultanOfAbia:
The Sad Truth is That There are Cures For
Cancer
HIV/Aids
But Big Pharma will not make any money from the masses if there is no longer disease.
Think about the trillions made from pharmaceutical companies over decades and you think They want the world to be FREE FROM DISEASE Market go spoil for them..
They will go so far as to create disease in labs and produce drugs that will cure that disease then they target a 3rd world country and infest them with the disease and in turn make billions from selling drugs that will SUBDUE the disease but will not cure you completely.
So the patient will depend on the drugs and the vicious cycle begins.
The Super Elites are hiding the cures of these deadly illnesses. If they release the cure then 6 billion ppl on earth will no longer spend a dime on pharmaceutical drugs thereby making these Super Elites Wealth and Control to Decline..

Pure Fact

dazzlingd:
I knew an idiot of your calibre won't be far fetched in this kind of religiously blinded part of the world....religion has turned majority of you to the mother of all mumu..

U have a reason to praise your yeye god. For what! For making them handicapped or not making u handicapped??

mumu

dazzlingd:
And they said all things created by their god is perfect....biko where's the perfection in this?

Well, we know science runs the world, no god created them but its all genetics....may science continue to grow better to solve human problems, soon or later, science will find a way to grow limbs their pastors/imams and allah/yahweh can never grow.

Abeg shut up

solablings:
This is what happens in sane environment.

Love you both.

If it were to be in a country tagged giant of Africa from outside but we know what we're in house, these jewels would have probably be dead due to environmental reject or even at worst be beggars.

May God just help us in this shithole country.

as in ehn am happy they aren't in Nigeria

chigoizie7:
A mature and sensible woman that knows what she actually wants in a man, will not play hard to get to a man she has no interest in.


If you see a useless guy, the 1st 3 dates with him will tell you the type of person he is.

most naija guys have mastered d act of acting all saint like ...to pretend like they are serious just to get into d gals pant...reasons for d hard to get nature of most ladies...

chigoizie7:
And some will come and tell you, what if he turn you down?


Must everyone you like also like you?

The same way a guy will approach a girl and she turns him down is the same way a guy can turn a lady down too.



But I really know why some girls are scared too. I know that some do have enough liver to ask a guy out. But most times, when they meet the unserious ones, the ones who are still fucklicants. Those type of guys will never say no, even when they do not genuinely like the girl, but because they knew that such scenario comes with a free pusssy to bang, they just accept it, and be treating the girl anyhow. Which is not good.



Girls, let me tell you something, if you like a guy, get close to him, become friends with him first, know the type of guy he is, know if he is truly the type of guy you want apart from the physical appearance and all that, know his level of reasoning, then you can ask him out.


Me, chigozie , I do not believe in love at first sight, I can not be loving you when I have not gotten to know you better. You could be beautiful on the outside with enough curves and all that, but what about your personality? I no go chop your beauty nah. At this stage in my life, I value peace of mind very well, so I cannot use my hand and buy trouble for myself all in the name of beauty and nice curves.


If I approach you and start telling that I love you immediately without getting to know who you are, just know that I am only interested in fuccccking you, that’s all.


So, girls, in as much as the op is right, I also understand your fears too. But you all need to stop that playing hard to get.

Mr chigozie...if we don't still play hard to get na Una go still complain say we are too easy.

Am not surprised most robbers still shoot victims after collecting their valuables...evil and wicked people ...thats how they use cutlass to smash my friends head while she was even begging Dem to collect her bag...jungle justice is still d best for robbers aswear

kestolove95:
No go born..

mum u ode oshi

Yinibixema:
See your big oral mouth

like ur large coconut head

femtex007:
Lets say. Love conquers all. Most of those divorcees are regretting their actions

love oshiii

AwkaetitiBabe:
Now eating ordinary 2 packs of indomie can break people up.

as in ehn dis generation is useless

This shit happened in my state... ...Rip little girl

lilwetdick:
ok.. but she also bought for you

anyway up to you, as they said the nice guys always get the bad girl when she wanna settle down

she wants to settle down thus all these open up stories, so that you will pity her and carry her along

anyway, every man for himself, if i was in your shoe i wouldnt accept her, i have standards and i cant be comfortable with a woman with lot of body count and abortion reason is many women with lot of body count have issues, issues you cant solve, issues of bonding with their future partner, also potential std and sti. that is just my opinion

it is up to you.

lol...wat if u don't know her past at all...wat will happen. To ur standards...remember some people can keep secretes till enternity

rossovu:
Bros if she's changed, straight 100% and her love for you is real...forgive her past and keep her... if we check ourselves kpata kpata nobody innocent.

help me tell am oo

Na wa oo see all d stupid replies am seeing most especially from men...some men ehn

AverageAnnie:
More reason why I like me... I'm good and bad same time..lol

me too

lilmax:
Got tired of wasting her time after 4 years

may. D lord forgive u

DTC2:

Bf and Gf this days looks childish. Breakups has increased.

Children play bf/gf

Real men look for a wife

Do not quote me

aswear....dis bf and gf thing just tire me na just court and marry be d best....I dunno who invented it sef

Blood of jesus

Probably a victim to kidnappers...who was left to die and dropped on d road since she was no longer useful to dem...God bless d actress

jenifer007:
My brother taking in should not be delayed all because you want to enjoy yourselves as couple..The joy of marriage especially in Africa is having children.It is better you start trying immediately after marriage because you will be surprised by the time you are ready,conception might also tell you they are not ready too.

Body differs

Delay is dangerous

story

Simplecity:
SHILOH 2025 CANDIDATE LOADING......GRASS HOPPER SPIRIT
my advice to you please save the dude from yourself by breaking up with him....So that he can find someone tangible to be spending his precious time with.

Aswear her village people are at work with her but she no sabi