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Distribution will be the issue here.....

dancok:
This is my first salary though but debt was already on ground before the salary showed, so am clearing the debt now and the situation of corona virus now.

I don't how long this will last, so am cautious of my spending.

Have I not sinned? Can I shift my tithe till next payment? Pastors in the house.

Pay your title

Osibanjo will be a better President....if he runs in 2023 I will vote and campaign for him


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Regardless of what's happening now heavens has the final say. I wish him grace

Well-done sir

Mumu people....simply social distancing they can't practice and they want to chase away Uncle Corona!

Amanda4life:
Na Sit don dey look work

Lolz

What work exactly?

The one that has put us in this mess

The one that has protected our soldiers in the frontline
Or what?

Look at the pic, does he even know where he's?

Is he aware of his environment?

The real President is in quarantine this one na just figure head

mnconcept:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8150503/amp/Italian-nurse-34-kills-testing-positive-coronavirus.html

Who willl take care of the Dog now

....?

UnaToto:
Yes, Corona virus has affected the way we greet our loved ones.

On a serious note,i wonder what a lady at that age is still looking for in her parents' house.

And i also wonder the kind of work she does.

Evening newspaper...





-- UnaToto, 2020

Who ask you?.....Go and marry her nah

Meedon:
Death Around The Corner


What If I Die Tonight



Only The Fear Of Death



Cradle To The Grave





God Bless The Dead





........ 2Pac Amaru Shakur

And death later came for PAC....

Safety first ...they have more sense than those goats inside Aso villa

NextD18:
Common sense should tell you the need to appreciate other people's efforts without disregarding and discarding your own by tagging it "Audio".

What stopped you from appreciating their efforts and move on?

But NO! You had to discredit our own just to sound woke!

Rubbish! Must everything about Nigeria be fake and audio to you?

C'mon get out of here!!!

Take care

NextD18:
Just shurrup!

You lots are quick to value efforts of other countries than that of your country.

Same reason you lots value foreigners than citizens here.

Be quiet!

Shut up if you don't have anything meaningful to say just shut up...

I never place any country above mine ...schooling abroad and bn to other countries both withing Africa never made me place them above my nation...

When you see a more practical effort and approach you have to acknowledge and appreciate.it...

All we being doing here since this virus break is pure Audio...

Of course you won't know this until you're in need of any of the agencies fighting this virus....

Good one

Society that works....all we do here na Audio

Jesus....who did we offend in this God forsaken country? Who?

2023 things

Untainted007:
Are u daft, or did u read in my post that I wrote anything against him. Mr asslicker.
If your sense of reasoning is working, u ought to have known that I simply interpreted all he said. "Watch and Pray" means as u pray be watchful of the disease.
Obedience is better than sacrifice means u must do d needful so that u won't av to regret your action. And lastly work without faith is don't just pray ensure u stay away from been infected, dn't say it can catch becos I av faith, stay away from any means of been infected.

You only wasted your parents' to enrol you in a school.

Thanks and God Bless You

Untainted007:
Even Bible said "Watch and pray".
Bible also said "Obedience is better than sacrifice".
So also, "Faith without work is dead"
I rest my case Sir. May God continue to strengthen you and the entire nations of the world.
Corona Virus will soon vanish.

Everything you have said is captured in His prayer...so what's your problem

I'm Igbo....he could have ranted without mentioning Yoruba...or any tribe...

The truth some of the movies featured in the awards are good....case close

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.

If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

Too long dear....u can write a book with this

Oyinlomobambam:
Did you have problems with him handling APC affaires?

He's not the only capable but he was tested okay

Time willl tell

danot1030:
How does it concerned you if Oshiomole is the only one that can handle APC affairs.

You are only desperate that Oshiomole be removed because he makes things difficult for PDP.

Saw how he made things difficult for PDP IN Bayelss

allthingsgood:
pdp still stands no chance of 2023

Time anwereth all things

back2sender:
WHY ARE PDP DIG N PIG WAILERS RYING MORE THAN THE BEREAVED?
IT SHOWS OSHIOMOLE IS A THORN N CHUKUCHUKU IN UNA BUMBUM

You have your say....But the laws of divided house will have its way eventually

allthingsgood:
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why is PDP drinking panadol for APC headache
u say u be wailer, oga abeg face ya wailing biko

It's just a matter of time...

This house is divided...

The center can no longer hold....it's those that laugh last , that laughs best

So our judiciary now reads the magic body language of the executive before doing its job?

Too bad....

But then is Oshomole the only one capable of handling iAPC affairs!

Can't they see that their house is divided already and it will only get worst if Osho remains..


What do I know.

I wish them luck

May the Good Lord bless her soul

After tomorrow thete won't be need for the Appeal again

wE need to read the whole thing

jezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz what sort of nonsensical gossipitic material is this? I mean this is pure trash i expected to read an intelligent write up on her learnings in the bar and anything she has done on the job in the past to warrant the article headline....But all i see is bear parlour gossips of how she's or was a lover or side chick of some guys.....

Bloody shit this is