Hello peepx......
If anyone can help, please do.
I'm approaching eight weeks of pregnancy but I'm always terribly sick. I don't know what's wrong. I've been to several hospitals on emergency and I've done all the tests.
I don't even feel like my body is mine again, I feel like I'm dying.
I spit like three litres if not more of saliva and thick phlegm from the throat which I cough out daily. I'm so frustrated.
I've chewed heaven and earth. I just want to feel better even a little.
God forgive me but I've even thought of terminating it.
I've never been pregnant before and I don't think this is how it's supposed to be. I've stopped work long ago because I can't even get up from bed.
Please if you know anything that can help in anyway.......

Please does anyone know what can help me??
I'm approaching 8 weeks of pregnancy and I'm always sick. I've been to several clinics, I've run all the tests there is. I always feel like dying.
This is my first pregnancy and just two months in marriage, my husband is so scared that I had to come to my mum's place to ease him up a little.
I'm always rushed to the emergency unit, yet nothing. God forgive me, I've even thought of terminating it.
I spit like two to three litres of not more of saliva and thick phlegm from the throat daily and I've chewed practically everything.
Anyone that knows something that can help please do, my sanity is almost up.

gideonite98:
I think you should be patient
He said he wants to set and be well loaded before marriage and I think that's a good idea
Also are you working?
Or you want him to take care of everything relating to finance in the house?
Anyways since he's not cheating or hurting you then I see no red flag
But if you're in an hurry then maybe you should leave him then
You're 24 so age is on your side

Ok, I appreciate. Maybe I should just talk to him about how I feel not having met his family.

ZIINI:

The guy in question is not ready for her. even there's probability that in the next 10 years he may not get married to her. The other guy who is serious and want to marry her she has blocked him.
That's why I said earlier on that she has blocked her husband.she use husband as boyfriend and she want to use boyfriend has husband.
These creatures called women are sometimes funny

Take it easy nah, you're scaring the shit out of me

NobleDeSage001:
At 24, your are still young to be desperate for marriage. Most persons who got married very early wish they can leave their partners for someone they presume to be better.

In any case, 5 years is more than enough for your guy to introduce you to his family. After 5 years and both of you are not known to each others family members, simply points to the fact that he may not want to marry you. 5 years of relationship without commitment towards marriage is an error.

Don't be in a haste to get married. You can wait for him if your patience threshold will allow you.
If not, develop yourself, add value to yourself and tread carefully. Wait for the right guy who is willing to commit to marriage.

Very thoughtful, thanks

mosdii:


He means well, any man who puts his future and well being first means well for himself and his would be family.

He doesn't want a scenario where he will be having difficulty in managing his immediate home.

The guy is highly responsible, sensible and compatible.

He wants to run his home affairs by himself without third party influencing hence his hustling to foot the marriage bills.

Do you want a situation where his mom and sister will contribute to the marriage and be dictating for him since he is the only son?

That guy is rare.

Thanks

mosdii:


if you can't wait for him to be fully prepared for marriage then you can tell him or break up with him and marry the other guy.

Ok, thank you. So do you think he means well? Am just so scared you know. You can never be too sure.

mosdii:


Go and marry the other guy and leave him alone to better his life and that of his family.

Since it is marriage you want, there's another proposing it to you, accept and leave this brother to build his life and future.

I wouldn't be in this quagmire if it were that easy mister. It seems you're bringing your personal problem into this post. Please need advice, not your biased opinion.

HRHQueenPhil:
He will marry you one day but not now
Remain with him and be patient
U are young, focus on making money and be independent

Thanks

ZIINI:
Op You've block your husband

Thank you. It's quite not funny to be hidden like a bad egg

mosdii:
so because you guys have dated for 5 years, he should marry you hastily?

You are 24 years and he is in his mid thirties and you want him to marry you because to you, he is due for marriage age wise?

You know he is the only son and he has properties that's why you are with him because you see his future prospects but cannot wait because you already have someone whispering marriage to you?

The guy is a real man, he wants to better the life of his mother and sister and also better his life which is the most important thing to do. Those women cannot be replaced but you can because you already have another man in your head.

He wants to be financially comfortable and independent before starting a family hence the reason why he is taking his time and working towards it.

He doesn't want to introduce you to his mom and family and likewise see yours because he knows how desperate you are. All what is inside your head is marriage because someone is sounding it to your ears.

Leave him and go get married to the other man and allow him develop and better his family life.


You want to dictate, Manipulate and push him into something he isn't prepared for.

You say this because you're not a lady, you don't know how hurtful it is to date for five years without meeting even a sibling. It's not about the properties mind you, I only referred to that because he has assets and income yet using finance as an excuse. I do have properties in my name given me by my father. If I wait and it doesn't work out, you sure will hastily call me stupid.

Hi everyone! Thanks for your advices! Case closed!