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House pls i need

your help.

For me, Here goes mom.

This issue have been

tough with me.and i decide

to seek the house opinion.

Im tired of staying at home.

i want to go back to class

for studies.

kind help me out

God bless you.

In the automatic, quick side-step to avoid mistakes, people forget that we learn the most from making them. We remember the lesson more if we get hurt from it. Ever stuck a fork in an electric socket when you were young? Ever did it again? The memory of pain stuck the lesson home when you were a kid.

As an adult, it's the fear of pain that can drive us away from learning more about ourselves, about the world and about the good we can make in it if we dared to acknowledge our true capacity for inciting change.

Fear controls us by asking difficult questions. Mistakes can strengthen us if we muster the courage to answer them honestly.

What if I'm not good enough? What if I am? You'll never know unless you test yourself repeatedly. That's how you can earn self-confidence-- you trust yourself more with every thing you overcome, every thing you learned to handle, the good, the bad, the unexpected. If you're afraid to find out if you're good enough (or not) for sure,that fear prevents you from trying to grow, because you don't want definitive proof that you're as bad as you thought you were ("See, they were right all along.", or as good as you're afraid you could be ("All that time, wasted."

What now? What next? Self-reliance is self-confidence's twin. It's hard to grow one and not the other. You learn to handle things better the more things you handle, and to do that, you need to be able to make mistakes and build from them, not just learn. Building something involves action, learning something usually means memorization.

To answer these questions, you need experience to be able to anticipate what happens next, and to have experience, well, you still have to make mistakes. See?

So, how do you make better mistakes?

Acknowledge the incident. If you choose to ignore it, you pass up the lesson. Think, "There must be a pony here somewhere, " If the mistake is especially memorable, you need to understand why it is so, and what about it makes the incident so heartfelt for you.

Recognize the emotions that the mistake sparked in you. As stated before, it's the emotions that paralyzes us into inaction that we need to deal with. Fear is also an emotion. Acknowledge the emotions, and move on. Also, emotions fade in time, so keep a record. See, it isn't in the exact details of what happened that truly sticks with us, it the how we deal with it that lingers.

To be contiunue

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in peace.

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The guy is a fulfil one.
he has fought a good
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a rest.he is a legend
indeed.

OBOY This is fabulous.

I know one day i will
have this figures in my
account.

In a situation like this
we dont really know
who to blame.

The answer to this
question have been bothering
my mind so much and I decided
to post it to the house.please
i need intelligent answer.God
bless you.

You must tell us why you need
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give it out.

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you the fulfilment you desire.

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He is right,i ve had such challenge b/4

Life is a matter of choice.
that is up to you.

But all men can't be
the same.dont you
thing so?for me I know
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I think in a situation
like this,its difficult to
come out with the right
answer because both
parties are trying to protect
their own interest.But I will
say that the FEDERAL GOV.
is the one to be held responsible.

they should try and give value
to our Higher institutions.

And this can be done by
setttling the ASUU BODY.