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There are thousands of people out there searching for love or a lifetime partner on a daily basis, you even see them making various post on the internet trying to hook up someone which they saw his/her picture on the internet without even knowing the kind of human being that person is.

Here, i will in my own opinion be explaining to you how you can easily hook up your dream partner for life, someone you will think about and smile.

- Just like in business, the first thing you need to do is to set goals or rules on which you will be able to define and hook that sweet partner of yours. You must be ready to do everything so as to convince that person that you and he/her meant to be together.

- Now, try engaging in discussions probably among your peers, you can even sign up for online dating, socialize on social networks, go to picnics, attend shows, go to nice clubs, church / mosque e.t.c.
Be on the look out for that person you so much desire, and always be of good behavior.

- When you see someone who fit into your description of a lover/partner, try at first to become the persons friend, just an ordinary friend, while doing this, you must act smart by trying to know if the person is engaged or still into the boy/girl friend thing, if the person is not engage, then you can continue with this game.

- After few weeks of meeting this wonderful person, you can start asking the person out to nice places not a beer parlor, local/funky clubs, places like good restaurants, picnics, inviting the person to an event, seminar, marriage ceremony even burial ceremony, just keep on doing things that will make the person fall totally into your hands and showing the person yo.

- Do not try to buy stuffs for this person, just keep the light among you glowing. When the time comes, nobody will tell that partner of your that you guys are already going out. If you play your game right and maturely, you will smile through out your life time, when i asked my old folks how they did it, they told me exactly as i wrote in this blog post.

I hooked that girl of mine through this format, all the party/big guys in school wonder why she likes hanging with a small boy looking slim as in me.

SOCIETY for Reproductive and Family Health (SRFH), on Monday, disclosed that Nigeria’s population now stood at 157million and charged the Planned Parenthood Federation of Nigeria (PPFN), to intensify enlightenment education on family planning.

Director- General of the SRFH, Professor Oladapo Alabi Ladipo, made the disclosure at the commissioning of Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) Resource Centre, at the complex of the National Assembly.

The centre was established by the House Committee on Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) headed by Honourable Saadatu Sani, with assistance from PPFN.

Ladipo, while giving his goodwill message, said Nigeria now has a population figure of 157 million from the 140 million it had in 2006.

According to him, Nigeria has an annual growth rate of five million births with six million pregnancies yearly, even as he warned of the challenges posed by such high growth rate.

Professor Ladipo argued that issues such high maternal mortality, unwanted pregnancies, unemployment, pressure on available resources in hospitals, educational institutions as well environmental degradation, remained part of the challenges of uncontrolled growth in population.

He, therefore, tasked the PPFN to increase its awareness campaign on how and why Nigerians should embrace birth control, just as he noted that birth control was equally in practice in the past through traditional methods by the then forefathers.

Speaking at the commissioning, Speaker ‘Dimeji Bankole, who declared the centre open, noted that the MDGs programmes were targeted at alleviating the plight of the poor in the country.

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Source|Nigerian Tribune
THE Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has claimed that some politicians are holding clandestine meetings within and outside the country to make the country ungovernable.

Besides, the electoral body said the bane of the nation’s democracy was that virtually every political party, be it the ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), the Action Congress (AC), the All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP), the Alliance for Democracy (AC) and even the minor political parties, used thugs to intimidate and kill opponents and electoral officers.

Chairman of INEC, Professor Maurice Iwu, in a document made available to the Senate Committee on INEC, when the chairman of the committee, Alhaji Isiaka Adeleke, led his members on an oversight visit to the commission headquarters in Abuja, said: “If the language of some political actors and their clandestine meetings within and outside the country are anything to go by, the nation may be facing a situation where certain groups of people must win, failing which they are determined to make the country ungovernable.”

Professor Iwu, who briefed the committee, said the commission and its leadership had been maligned and continued to be blackmailed for no other reason than that they insisted on doing the right thing and following the law.

Warning that no electoral process could thrive under desperation and violence, he stated that rather than embarking on political education and mobilisation to build credibility and popularity between one election and the next, “most politicians seem to prefer to run electoral thug incubators and hatch hoodlums that would intimidate and decimate opponents and electoral officers.

“Incidentally, the bane of our democracy too is that virtually every party is involved, but they only go complaining when they are outdone by their opponents,” he said.

He emphasised the need for politicians and political parties to be committed to ethical conduct and denounce violence in the electoral process, saying, “no electoral process can thrive under desperation and violence.”

He said: “The stand of INEC is that those who want power must work and campaign for it legitimately. There is the need for politicians and political parties to commit to ethical conduct and the denouncement of violence in prosecuting elections. We are, therefore, working towards getting political parties to commit to a pact for a violence-free election.”

Professor Iwu, who promised to co-operate with the Senate committee for the good of the country, said however that how the laws were being implemented mattered a lot in the nation’s democracy, lamenting that several laws had been passed in the past and many of them were making little or no impact on the polity.

He said: “Our problem in Nigeria is not necessarily the absence of laws but lack of effective implementation of the existing laws. It is only through the oversight that the National Assembly can monitor the implementation of these laws, identify if there are challenges and whether there is the need for new laws or amendment of existing laws.”

Security forces killed at least 32 Nigerians in northeast Bauchi state on Sunday, July 26, 2009 after an armed gang attacked a police station in retaliation for the arrests of their leaders.
Around 70 Nigerians armed with guns and hand grenades attacked a local police station in the city of Bauchi, the state's capital, early today but retreated after a gunbattle with security forces, the police said.
Security forces responded by raiding the group's neighbourhoods and hideouts, arresting hundreds.
A reporter counted 32 bodies at two Bauchi police stations and said dozens were wounded among the more than 200 arrested.
Bauchi police spokesman Mohammed Barau said the armed gang belonged to Boko Haram, a local group that wants sharia (Islamic law) to be imposed on all of Nigeria.
"The situation is now under control. More members of the organization are being arrested," Mr Barau said.
A member of the gang who was wounded during the initial attack on the police station said the group wanted to "clean the (Nigerian) system which is polluted by western education and uphold sharia all over the country."
"The police has been arresting our leaders that is why we decided to retaliate," said the man, who gave his name only as Abdullah.
Bauchi is one of 12 states in the predominately Muslim north that started a stricter enforcement of sharia in 2000, a decision that alienated sizable Christian minorities and sparked bouts of sectarian violence that killed thousands.

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Although many people use this powerful phrase loosely, there are times when you want to say "I love you" in a meaningful way. Whether you're professing your love to a romantic partner or expressing it to a relative or friend, it can be difficult to convey how much they really mean to you. But by keeping the following suggestions in mind, hopefully your love will not only be understood, but it will also be welcomed and returned

STEPS:

- Define love: The sincerity of the phrase is strengthened by knowing what love is, and what loving someone means to you. Determine the difference between love, infatuation and lust, and make sure it's genuine love that you feel for this person.

-Make it special: For many people, dropping the "I" allows the sentiment to be expressed casually, such as before separating (e.g. "Time to go. Bye! Love you!". Using the full phrase, however, can be reserved for more intimate moments, especially during a special event, such as when a child is just born, or even to reassure someone when bad news has been received or during moments of cherished silence, like after a kiss.

-Make eye contact: If you love this person, hopefully you feel comfortable enough to gaze into their eyes when you express your feelings. Making eye contact shows sincerity and communicates trust.

-Say it at an appropriate tone: If you're at home and there's not much background noise, keep your volume low; don't whisper unless you bring your lips to their ear, which can also be a very intimate way to express your love. If you want to tell them how you feel in public, it's up to you whether you want to pull the person aside, or say it in front of friends or even strangers. It depends on your loved one's personality, and your own personality. Some will find it terribly romantic to be told they're loved across a room full of people; others may find it mortifying.

-Smile: It can be nerve-wracking to tell someone that you love him or her, only to wait anxiously for their response--especially if it's the first time either of you have verbally expressed love. The best way to overcome this fear is to not expect the phrase in return. Your intention can be to tell the person how you feel, with the hope of making them happy and showing them that they are valued. Remember that unconditional love means not demanding anything in return. So smile, and perhaps give your loved one a hug. If they love you, too, they'll say it in their own way and in their own time

Who doesn't like receiving chocolates?Have a special someone in mind? Wish to strengthen a friendship or relationship? Follow these simple steps to show a woman that you care for her.

STEPS:

-Pay attention to her. Every time she is speaking to you, make an effort to look her in the eyes and understand what she is saying. If you do not understand, tell her. This will show her that you are listening and would like to hear what she has to say.

-Be trustworthy. Prove yourself to her daily. If you give her your word that you will be there for her, follow through. How can anyone care for someone they lie to?

-Respect her mind, body, and soul. She is a different individual. There are many paths of life and hers may be differing from yours. Accept her and cherish her for who she is.

-Perform random acts of kindness. Be creative. Call her when you guys are not together and tell her that you are thinking about her. Paste a note on her mirror telling her that you love her. A picture is worth a thousand words, paint her a watercolor. Leave her a flower and a sincere note.

-Spend quality time with her. Turning off the T.V., grabbing a blanket, and lying with her beneath the stars can mean more than expensive jewelry.

-Let her know exactly how you feel. Look within. Exactly what does this woman mean to you? Write it down. Give it to her.

-When you are away, whether it be a business trip, or a vacation with the guys, check in with her. It's just polite! Let her know that although you're having fun, she has crossed your mind.

-Never lose contact for an unreasonable length of time. If you have not seen her for a few days, let her know you are thinking about her. Girls love this.

-Tell her you love her every once in a while. It makes women feel good to know that they are loved.

-Never take her for granted. You'll find you're not making as much of an effort to show her you care, and she WILL notice!

TIPS:

-Showing a woman that you respect and care for the sensual things will go a very long way.

-Always tell her the truth. This will earn you her respect.

-Step in and help her without being asked. Show her that you are there for her.

-Guys are actually very sensitive when it comes down to some things, so some of this may just be common sense.

-Remember that women multitask (i.e. balancing work and family).

-Turn off the TV and turn on the romance!

-Try to take it slow at first to see how she reacts to you and take it from there. Girls like it when you are comfortable around them.

WARNINGS:

-Be sincere in all that you do. Never do something for a woman just because you feel that you are "duty-bound.
"
-Acts of kindness must come from within, never from obligation. You can do it for the right reasons! If you're getting your lady chocolates or food for a special day, be sure to know if she has any allergies.

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For fear that his wealthy wife may divorce him and get hooked to another man, a 42-year-old man has sent hired assassins after the wife. Although, the hired killers got the wife, they only shot her, and the woman is alive today to tell her own side of the story.

Parading the suspects before newsmen in his office, the Kaduna State Police Commissioner, Mohammed Tambai Yabo, said one Rotimi Adesina was arrested at the Nigerian National Petroleum Company (NNPC) staff quarters on July 7, 2009 in the afternoon for attempted murder of his wife, Mrs. Bola Adesina.

Speaking to Daily Sun, in the police Commissioner’s office, Adesina said he was in Lafia, Nassarawa State, for a contract job when he started receiving text messages from his wife that she was no longer interested in their marriage since she was the bread winner of the house.

Bola who was still receiving treatment at the NNPC staff clinic, as at the time of filing this report, following the injuries sustained from the gunshot, was said to be responding to treatment, and as such could not grant any press interview.

Bola who is believed to be in her late 40s is a senior staff at the NNPC, while her irate husband is a petty business contractor, who deals in sachet water and mobile telephone recharge cards. He claimed to be a graduate of Business Administration from Lagos State Polytechnic, Isolo, in 1996.

Daily Sun gathered that few weeks to the incident, Bola had given her husband the sum of N500, 000 to support his job in Nassarawa State .

Both husband and wife, had married for three years in a church in Kaduna without a child. That was after Bola had lost her first husband in a motor accident and Adesina had also lost his first wife in a sleep after given him two kids from the marriage.

Adesina said that in addition to provocative text messages he received from his wife, he was also not comfortable with the number of men that were visiting his wife in the house who according to him, the wife claimed were her colleagues in the office.

He confessed to have engaged the services of one Solomon Moses from Lafia to help him kill his wife because, “she is no longer respecting me, and she is also misbehaving.”

The alleged hired assassin, Moses, 28, told Daily Sun that he was deceived to Kaduna by Adesina to just accompany him to visit his (Adesina) family. He said that as a carpenter he was working for Adesina in Lafia for a fixed amount.

He added that on reaching Kaduna, Adesina lodged him in a hotel. He later took him to his house at the NNPC staff quarters where he allegedly gave him a gun loaded with two bullets to kill his wife as soon as she entered the house.

Moses said he was afraid on sighting the gun and wanted to shout but that Adeshina prevented him from shouting. He alleged that he was locked up in the house while he, (Adesina) took cover nearby to watch how his wife would be shot dead.

The innocent looking Moses confessed that he fired at the woman as soon as she entered the house. He said he couldn’t fire the second shot because the gun fell off his hand. He added that he couldn’t say exactly which part of the woman’s body he aimed the gun at.

However, sources at the NNPC staff clinic said the bullet pierced the upper skin of Bola’s stomach. The sources added that she has been barred by the Corporate Affairs Department of the NNPC from talking to the press.

The husband’s account: “My name is Rotimi Adesina. Police arrested me because I wanted to kill my wife. I wanted to kill my wife because she has been threatening my life saying that she is the only one who has been taking care of me. That she will divorce me, and because of that I was annoyed and carried gun to shoot her.

“We are married for three years now, no child yet. But it is not because of this that I wanted to kill her. I wanted to kill her out of provocation since she said she will divorce me to marry another man. Telling me that why should I abandon her in Kaduna, while I remain in Lafia.

“She normally sent different text messages to me that she can no longer bear it since I cannot come back from Lafia.

“And when I decided to come back, she said, no, I should not come back again because I am not contributing to any thing in her life, and that she is the only person that is taking care of the house.

“The boy I brought from Lafia to help me kill my wife is a carpenter. I just asked him to follow me to Kaduna and on reaching my house in Kaduna, I told him what I wanted him to help me to do and that he should co-operate with me, so that is how I involved him in this case.

“But I didn’t tell him from Lafia that I was going to kill my wife. I only told him when we arrived Kaduna. The gun I gave him. I got it at a spot in Kaduna during the Sharia crisis. But I have never used it until now. I regret every of my actions in this case.”

Moses Solomon gave his own account: “I am a carpenter based in Lafia but my state of origin is Plateau State. Adesina met me in Lafia and he used to give me jobs to fix nets to windows.

“Few weeks ago, Adesina told me that I should follow him to Kaduna to visit his family and that he will pay for my transport. On reaching Kaduna, we went to his house and he said his wife is not around.

“So he now told me that I should escort him to somewhere, and he eventually took me to one hotel which I never knew.

“Adesina discussed with the owner of the hotel and he gave him a key to one of the rooms. Then he gave me the key and one paper that I should keep them with me.

“On getting back to the house, he opened the gate and locked it behind us. He opened the inner door and I entered, then he locked the door, he entered the kitchen and came out with the gun.

“I was afraid on seeing the gun and I asked him what he wanted to do with the gun. He said I should keep quiet, that he wanted to kill his wife because she used to follow other men.

“So Rotimi gave me the gun and showed me where to press, and that I should stay near the bedroom so that if the wife is entering the house I should shoot her.

“I didn’t know anything about this thing, and the gun that he gave me had only two bullets inside. I don’t know where Rotimi hid, then the wife entered and I shot at her I don’t know which part of her body I even arrived at, and the gun fell down with the remaining bullet.

“All of a sudden Rotimi opened the back door for me to run. On my way out, two men grabbed me and started beating me. They carried me to the clinic and showed me to the wife to identify me, and she said, yes, I am the person who shot her.

“Rotimi never promised me any money, and when I asked him why he wanted to kill his wife, he said I should shut up.

“I want the woman to know that it was not my own fault, it was her husband’s fault. I want her to forget and forgive me.”

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No fewer than 100 decomposed corpses at the Osun state Hospital, Asubiaro, Osogbo were, Tuesday, given mass burial due to the dangers odours emanating from them were causing to the health of the people in the state.

According to the state Commissoiner for Health, Mr. Lanre Afolabi , the remains were abandoned in the hospital by friends and families but pointed out that the decomposing bodies were also those of victims of accidents and robbery cases . He said the Government decided to give the mass burial due to the nature of the bodies which has decomposed.

It would be recalled that the premises of the Osun State Hospital, Osogbo, was , over the weekend, taken over by offensive odours following the decomposition of corpses at the hospital's mortuary.

As a result of the situation, palpable fear of epidemic gripped nurses, doctors, staff, patients and residents of the area when it dawned on them that an epidemic was looming in the area. Infact, workers in the hospital had threatened to stay away from work as from Monday if the ugly situation persists.

THISDAY gathered that the cooling system of the mortuary packed up as a result of power outage in the Asubiaro area of the state capital where the hospital is located. A staff who spoke with THISDAY on condition of anonymity disclosed that the hospital would require N250,000 to fix the faulty generator that caused the problems.

The situation in the hospital got worse on Friday when ante-natal patients who usually have their clinic on that day were forced to leave the hospital midway into their exercise when the stench became unbearable.

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