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when i put it i'll tell u not tonite. thank u

yes but cannot show. it doesnt look good

thank you unleashed. i know death is not solution, i will try and have hope. thank you all

thank you acid drop

i did not come 4 pity but advice so some of u people saying bad things should think about if u r in my condition.

SeanT21:
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CUT THE CRAP!!

which crap

springss:
@ Poster, you have to learn to build your self esteem. Everyone, no matter how pretty, wealthy, healthy, educated, stupid, you name it, have something about them they would like to change. In order words, we all have insecurities. I find that, no matter where you are on the "self assurance meter", you can find yourself in a mindset of doubt. Self confidence is a conscious choice that you have to make despite all the things 'you think' you lack.

Don't overvalue what you are not and undervalue what you are. God gave you those scars for a good purpose and unless you learn to accept them and stop wishing they are not there, you will never be free and truly happy.

So what if your ex is "successful"? The fact that he is(in your view) has nothing to do with whether you can be successful or not.

Everyone I know has gone or will go through a heartbreak. Who says every relationship must work out? Every breakup is an opportunity for you to learn. Time will heal the pain from the beakup no doubt, but you must first learn to accept yourself if you 'ever' want another to accept you.

Enough of the self pity for heaven sake. Dig up the fountain of goodness inside you. Let it bubble out and you will be amazed at how easily people will be attracted to you. No one wants to be near someone who would whin all the time. It wears everyone out eventually. Even if you are not confident, pretend you are and no one will notice that you are not.

Will you meet people who would attempt to exploit your insecurities? you betcha! But remember that no one can hurt you unless you let them.

Good luck and get a hold of yourself!

u are sayin d truth but it just makes me feel dat god is looking out 4 him raher than me and still after he did bad things, that is why.

topup:
[color=#008855]It is not about becoming like the other women you see. It is about becoming different, making yourself indispensible, you are sticking around, and irreplacable.

Personality and confidence are the key points and I believe that over time you can master it. You don't have an expiry date, and once you focus on God, you realise that earthly time is a distraction. Focusing on your age or looks and other wordly things are superficial and it doesn't seem to me that you're looking for a superficial guy.

I pray that God brings you to a new level, guy or no guy, where you will be complete.

I believe you can do it.

Once you forgive him, you can leave him, and start anew. Please do.
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how can i learn to forgive him topup for the way he treat me and still dumped me d worst way?

wat can one do to get over a heartbreak when u have no friends, u dont know how to make friends or like being on ur own, u r not attractive or beautiful enough, ur ex is doing much better and more successful than you are, u have no job, just by urself. how can. pls

can one stop k leg and make it straight

thanks all of you. i am feeling better with all your words.

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thank everybody. i will think of my life. i also want to love again like i loved my boyfriend but he left me. how can i love again?

pls i want some people to tell me their stories.

thank you all of you for your words of courage and encouragement.

edogram it is everywhere on my body especially legsm my left thigh, large scar. i saw d pic still water but the next top model contestant looks much more better than my own scar. my own is covering my entire left thigh, then scars from childhood too on both legs, then my right ankle, a deep scar, then close to my belly button burns, then some other scars on my hands and everywhere else so can i still model? and what advice do u have for me edogram?

also how can i really b happy on my own when i hav no talents, nothing special about me i can do. chaircover, i cannot do hats, nothing, i cannot do anything. i am just here

Chaircover, ur words really touched me. thank you. as 4 keeping busy, i feel ashamed to say mayb i have no talents, nothing. i could have modelled but my scars on my body are too much, everywhere. i dont kno wat i can do or wat i am good at. i really love my boyfriend and he treated me dis way but like you mayb there is hope.

thank you touchmeder, amebo no1, Diva1, top up 4 your advices. diva1 dat is wat i want me 2 b higher than him, but it looks hopeless.

guseman but u t d1 dat broke up wit her and how did she overreact?

platinum k, love u too

am alone, i read ur story and it touched me much. i can believe there is hope since after passing thru all dat, u r still here. thank you 4 sharing wit me.

Thank u romeo4real, yes i invested a whole lot and loved him too much for him to do what he did to me. sometimes i just want to curse him for causing me pain and sometimes i believe he will pay for it but it doesnt look like he is paying for it. he is working, has money, has beautiful girls i cannot compete, top friends, he is living life and even if i want to live life too it is harder because of my own condition.

to igwe- thank you. i checked some cosmetologists on line even scar creams but nothin is working and i do not have that money for real cosmetic surgery.

sissy thank you for your words of encouragement

thank you boy1, but i feel he will always win me because he is more successful with everything goin on in his life now and pc guru, it is nice to hear some1 has felt the same way with me too and still here. i feel bad when i think of dying but still i ask him y i hav to pass through all dis while the person dat was horrible and bad to me is living a good life.

thank you everybody so much. nothinmeg, i will write down those Bible verses. platinum k u r really a good person and so nice,when i open my yim, i will tell u. i will copy ur yim now. my spirit is a bit lifted wit dis words from everybody.

Thank u platinum k, you r very nice. When i open my yim, ill let u know. thanks 2 posakosa and babe.

im trying to straighten myself platinum k  but it is hard. He is in lagos. i dont have a yim yet but i will open one and let you know.

djakarta that was wicked of you. you r not in my shoes so you will not understand

posakosa i am a good person, i help people but look at myself, look at me

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Dis is my first post above, forgot my password so i changed my name. i just want to die. i am not happy. if u read my story above, that is sad enuf, then other life problems. hearbreak, job loss, family issues, tell me what to do.
I lost my job and no money. Boyfriend of 1 year break up with me after doing me bad and he is enjoying life out there. i see all d beautiful girls with him that i cannot compete with. i did well to dis man and he did this to me for no reason after 1 yr. he has money, doing well, friends of high places, beautiful fine girls and me, nothing. i cannot even wear short skirt or go 2d beach or model to make me feel good because of my scars on my body. it is unfair. i feel i am all alone in dis world. my family r not even making things easy for me and making me even feel worst.