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Austine2020:
My brother i don't know what they are doing with peoples passport that causes all these delays,.My wife is in the same situation as yours.She applied on 23rd May,Got "Decision" on 13th of june,but uptill now no news on her passport where about, She even used DHL to deliver her passport in the east because we live in the eastern part of Nigeria,thereby making it difficult for her to easily check at the VAC or the UK embassy unless she comes to lagos again,which we are planning to do if we dont get any news by end of the week,the inconvenience is very huge for people that lives in far away cities. I have never seen this kind of delays since 2009,the year she started obtaining(Schengen & US)Visas,Its very discouraging.

Built2last:
They will run a background check on her since its a first time traveller to UK. This will take up to a month.

Social media gives them a hint these days to making decisions. They must see her to be sane and organised and have a good decent life. Nothing promoting religious extremities on all her time lines. If she is clean, no lies in the application and you have a substantial reason supporting your application that she will return to Nigeria. She will be given.

Thanks man. Me am in Nigeria and thats her tie to Nigeria. She is going to spend 16days holiday with her mums sister who is a British citizen.



All the best.

Built2last:
No need to panic. Visa is not passport to heaven.

Their response time is minimum of two weeks. Meaning it could be more. I renewed my visa in February and it took 21 days. No need to panic.

Again brace up for anything especially if it's a Virgin passport. UK has been bouncing people in the last 2 months. UK immigration took a different turn after the Manchester Bombing.

They are conservatives not like U.S that will make noise about immigration policies.

Whatever it is take it in good faith.

All the best

kennykendo:
1. is she always dry? if yes engage in a longer period of pre-intimacy (if you don't pre-intimacy you are causing more harm) to make her wet from within.

2. if her wetness is short timed, after pre-intimacy engage yourself and her with lubs it is very necessary... To prevent bruises inside her. Look for oils with good viscosity.

3. After all these, penetrate slowly and not in full force.

4. Penetration shouldn't be full (if your dick size is big because of its girth half penetration is advised for a longer time before you go in full, if your dick size is big because of length, try half penetration during missionary DO NOT TRY FULL because her pelvis will suffer the pains.) If you want full penetration (that's if your dick size is long,let her lie down with her chest and butt up by now you must have engaged in pre-intimacy and lubricated her and yourself...then go in from behind not at full length but halfway... until climax and tempo are increased you can proceed to a gradual full penetration.....


this should help.....

but first seat her down and talk to her...

kennykendo:
1. is she always dry? if yes engage in a longer period of pre-intimacy (if you don't pre-intimacy you are causing more harm) to make her wet from within.

2. if her wetness is short timed, after pre-intimacy engage yourself and her with lubs it is very necessary... To prevent bruises inside her. Look for oils with good viscosity.

3. After all these, penetrate slowly and not in full force.

4. Penetration shouldn't be full (if your dick size is big because of its girth half penetration is advised for a longer time before you go in full, if your dick size is big because of length, try half penetration during missionary DO NOT TRY FULL because her pelvis will suffer the pains.) If you want full penetration (that's if your dick size is long,let her lie down with her chest and butt up by now you must have engaged in pre-intimacy and lubricated her and yourself...then go in from behind not at full length but halfway... until climax and tempo are increased you can proceed to a gradual full penetration.....


this should help.....

but first seat her down and talk to her...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
enterpret please.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
enterpret please.

MrCork:
Story....bro I beg,if u no longer wantttto smash..pliss let me smash!!(no oofeense)

uboma:
It is a pity that even with your size of your manhood (as alleged by you) you lack the expertise to make love to your wife.

ashjay001:
If u're lucky to have a wife that loves it big, just enjoy urself n dont criticise d op!

Reading d op, u should realise he was adventurous b4 marriage, u cant be a successful adventurer if u're no good in bed!

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear if you justify masturbatiion, why not just remain N500 from ur daily expenses and branch ashy joint once in 2 or 3 days where u will see different kinda yannsh, stature, color etc. At least its better than extra marital affairs.

You'll just come back home and smile normal..if she don't want you to touch her for months sef, you won't and peace will exist between both of you instead of d cold quarrel of sex.

If I were you that's what I will do. Either my wife understands or I do that. Masturbatiion is an abuse to ur ego especially seeing ur wife's fresh body daily and the pleasure is not same

redarrr:
Guy go ori oke, d wan for ekiti and pray strength den later dat day, travel to bayelsa state and u will see enough of ashawo to sleep with den u won't miss anything at all....

Marioplus:
Pray and seek the help of God on this matter,
Ask God for forgiveness and deliverance from the spirit and sin of masturbation.
Continually plead the BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST on your life, wife and family.
Discuss EXTENSIVELY WITH YOUR WIFE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND WHAT YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH. DO NOT HIDE ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL LIBIDO FROM HER.
SHE IS YOUR WIFE AND BY THE VIRTUE OF MARITAL VOW ON THE ALTAR, SHE IS BOUND TO GIVE IT TO YOU AS MUCH AS YOU WANT IT.
YOU BOTH NEED TO SIT DOWN AND DISCOVER THE BEST SEX METHOD AND STYLE THAT WILL ALWAYS MAKE YOU BOTH WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH NO OTHER PERSON APART FROM BOTH OF YOU AT ANY GIVEN TIME.
The LOVE that made you both TO AGREE and MARRY each other is GREATLY IMPROVED/ENHANCED through sexual intimacy hence non of you should take it for granted lest you both will have to blame yourselves later even prayer and fasting does not INTERRUPT the sexual intimacy between married couple not to mention "SHE IS NOT THE SEX TYPE"
ANYBODY WHO IS NOT THE SEX TYPE
SHOULD GO AND BECOME
CATHOLIC PRIEST
OR
CATHOLIC REVEREND SISTER, if it is YOUR CALL ANYWAY!!!

femi4:
let her know that you masturbate often.....she ll adjust. Mind you, even if you have sex everyday.....you ll still masturbate cos its turning into an addiction already. Your dick is more comfortable with the surface of your hand than the walls of a vagina

martolux:
u have cheated already if she not aware of your act.

Efewestern:
how long have you been married?

Efewestern:
talk to your wife, your are sexually active, nothing wrong here.. just tell her your plight.. make he see tins from your angle.. maybe if you have sex with her 4 times a week the need for masturbation will be no more.

Ruggedfitness:
First you need to learn how to take control and I don't mean take control of yourself and hold the urge, I mean you need to take control of your marriage. What do you mean by she is not the sex kind of person?

You need to also improve on your sex tactics, because they might be turning her off, try watching sex movies (not porn, there are many available for married couples). This way you will make her enjoy sex and even want it more than you will do. It might be that you don't give her pleasure during sex and you just want it for yourself. Try to make her enjoy sex as much as you can and I tell you she will be asking for it a lot.

Secondly, you need to stop running away from your problems and stop seeking the next available option, whenever a situation like this arises look forward to how you can both solve it, because relationships (marriage too) is about give and take. Talk to her and the both of you can understand how to go about it to prevent problems arising in the near future.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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