Sagamaje:
I am married but still masturbates because my wife is not the sex kind of person. At times I masturbates at night when I feel the urge. I haven't been with another woman since we got married. How can I stop masturbating?

Ruggedfitness:


First you need to learn how to take control and I don't mean take control of yourself and hold the urge, I mean you need to take control of your marriage. What do you mean by she is not the sex kind of person?

You need to also improve on your sex tactics, because they might be turning her off

Safiaa:
umm some people just have a low libido. Sex is more like a chore for them, no matter how satisfying it may be. This is why you need to understand your sexual compatibility before marriage.

Safiaa:
umm some people just have a low libido. Sex is more like a chore for them, no matter how satisfying it may be. This is why you need to understand your sexual compatibility before marriage.

Ruggedfitness:


I just modified my comment, try and read it...

Great sex is never a chore for anyone (I hope you understand what great sex means, it is when the man gives the woman all the pleasure and stop focusing on himself like the way most Nigerian men do).

Although, I am thinking the both of you might be old fashioned.

Am I right?

tossie101:


She meant some people(women) especially
See it as chores.. i kno a friend who always says she hate sex despite dat shez married.

Baasebaa0570:
oro jade ase tele gbogbo ogun masturbation ninu aye ee ki o pora

Ruggedfitness:


First you need to learn how to take control and I don't mean take control of yourself and hold the urge, I mean you need to take control of your marriage. What do you mean by she is not the sex kind of person?

You need to also improve on your sex tactics, because they might be turning her off, try watching sex movies (not porn, there are many available for married couples). This way you will make her enjoy sex and even want it more than you will do. It might be that you don't give her pleasure during sex and you just want it for yourself. Try to make her enjoy sex as much as you can and I tell you she will be asking for it a lot.

Secondly, you need to stop running away from your problems and stop seeking the next available option, whenever a situation like this arises look forward to how you can both solve it, because relationships (marriage too) is about give and take. Talk to her and the both of you can understand how to go about it to prevent problems arising in the near future.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I remain your favorite health blogger Paul Samuel FitnessDoctor

Sagamaje:
I am married but still masturbates because my wife is not the sex kind of person. At times I masturbates at night when I feel the urge. I haven't been with another woman since we got married. How can I stop masturbating?

Efewestern:


talk to your wife, your are sexually active, nothing wrong here.. just tell her your plight.. make he see tins from your angle.. maybe if you have sex with her 4 times a week the need for masturbation will be no more.

Ruggedfitness:


First you need to learn how to take control and I don't mean take control of yourself and hold the urge, I mean you need to take control of your marriage. What do you mean by she is not the sex kind of person?

You need to also improve on your sex tactics, because they might be turning her off, try watching sex movies (not porn, there are many available for married couples). This way you will make her enjoy sex and even want it more than you will do. It might be that you don't give her pleasure during sex and you just want it for yourself. Try to make her enjoy sex as much as you can and I tell you she will be asking for it a lot.

Secondly, you need to stop running away from your problems and stop seeking the next available option, whenever a situation like this arises look forward to how you can both solve it, because relationships (marriage too) is about give and take. Talk to her and the both of you can understand how to go about it to prevent problems arising in the near future.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I remain your favorite health blogger Paul Samuel FitnessDoctor

Sagamaje:
Thanks bro

Efewestern:


how long have you been married?

martolux:
u have cheated already if she not aware of your act.

Sagamaje:
I am married but still masturbates because my wife is not the sex kind of person. At times I masturbates at night when I feel the urge. I haven't been with another woman since we got married. How can I stop masturbating?

Garrirevenge:
Talk to your wife.

femi4:
let her know that you masturbate often.....she ll adjust. Mind you, even if you have sex everyday.....you ll still masturbate cos its turning into an addiction already. Your dick is more comfortable with the surface of your hand than the walls of a vagina

Marioplus:
Pray and seek the help of God on this matter,
Ask God for forgiveness and deliverance from the spirit and sin of masturbation.
Continually plead the BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST on your life, wife and family.
Discuss EXTENSIVELY WITH YOUR WIFE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND WHAT YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH. DO NOT HIDE ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL LIBIDO FROM HER.
SHE IS YOUR WIFE AND BY THE VIRTUE OF MARITAL VOW ON THE ALTAR, SHE IS BOUND TO GIVE IT TO YOU AS MUCH AS YOU WANT IT.
YOU BOTH NEED TO SIT DOWN AND DISCOVER THE BEST SEX METHOD AND STYLE THAT WILL ALWAYS MAKE YOU BOTH WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH NO OTHER PERSON APART FROM BOTH OF YOU AT ANY GIVEN TIME.
The LOVE that made you both TO AGREE and MARRY each other is GREATLY IMPROVED/ENHANCED through sexual intimacy hence non of you should take it for granted lest you both will have to blame yourselves later even prayer and fasting does not INTERRUPT the sexual intimacy between married couple not to mention "SHE IS NOT THE SEX TYPE"
ANYBODY WHO IS NOT THE SEX TYPE
SHOULD GO AND BECOME
CATHOLIC PRIEST
OR
CATHOLIC REVEREND SISTER, if it is YOUR CALL ANYWAY!!!

redarrr:
Guy go ori oke, d wan for ekiti and pray strength den later dat day, travel to bayelsa state and u will see enough of ashawo to sleep with den u won't miss anything at all....