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relationship502:
We have gone past mid-January and things are beginning to take shape. It really looks like this year 2018 is going to be a good one (well, I pray it is). Today, I’d like to share a little of things that’s been going down with me and it’s about my ex girlfriend calling my phone. It’s been a while we’ve been apart from each other.



I’m sharing this so you (readers) can be the judge and give me some good advice. Like I mentioned in the first paragraph above that my ex girlfriend have been calling me recently. Yes! My Ex. I won’t be going into some personal details in this post but I can assure you it will be plain enough just so you get the gist. I’ve been involved in series of dating. While some were meant to be a very serious relationship, others were meant to be ‘just a relationship’.

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

So about my ex girlfriend calling my phone a lot recently. Just before the ending of the year 2017, on a faithful Friday evening, I got a call from my ex girlfriend named ‘S’ (permit me to represent her name with alphabet for personal reasons). My phone ringtone is in default tone of its brand. Hearing my phone ring, I approached to look who the caller was but it’s a strange number. I picked up and to my hearing is a swift voice of a female saying:

“Hello SAY”.

Immediately I heard that voice, I knew of whose it was. I can tell it’s ‘S’’ voice. Of all my ex girlfriends, hers was a very unique voice so I’d know even when I’m deep asleep. I greeted her and she reciprocated my greetings. She didn’t waste time to ask if I’d be available the next day so we can hookup because she’s missed me a lot.

Miss me a lot? I asked. She replied Yes!

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

I was happy but not for long before that question of ‘why would she be missing me’ popped up in my mind.

I told her that I’m available even though I wasn’t. I had traveled to a nearby town and was supposed to be back on Saturday afternoon but I fast tracked my coming back to morning.



It’s Saturday morning already. My small baggage is well arranged since last night and I was set to return home so I can make myself available for my date. Looking at my phone ringing, twas ‘S’ calling to confirm our date, if it’s still going to happen.



I had a second thought and I said to her that “I’m sorry we won’t be hooking up today”.

She asked “why”?

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

I told her I have other things to attend to so I can’t make it again. Now with a lower voice, she said “okay”. I could feel the disappointment in her voice...continue

relationship502:
It is no news that long distance relationship is not easy in contrast to its traditional counterparts. Most folks out there do think that at the start of that romantic journey things will keep getting rosy, but the reality falls on them when they are less groomed, and in the long-haul their long distance relationship fails and leads to a shipwreck.


The good news is that there are a few couples in this romantic part that are not only taking pleasure in the long distance relationship, but are also making it work. For others they are left destabilized, dumbfounded and confused. They wonder why their long distance relationship failed. If you also find yourself in this horizon, now is the time to pick up and peer into the reasons why most long distance relationship fails, and if you are currently in the long distance relationship, it makes more sense to learn from others’ mistakes.

8 Reason Why Most Long Distance Relationship Fails



Although, this article is directed to those who seeks for why their Long distance romance does not work out, yet other who is in another form of romance can pick lessons from here; because truth is, traits that leads to failure of long distance relationship are also found in other form of romance.


Negative Thinking

Negative thinking can highly lead to the reason why long distance relationship fails. Couples in a long distance relationship can be seen thinking whether things will work out eventually. Thoughts like “will I be able to cope,” “what if someone else’s come his/her way,” “do I have good reasons to wait” and more. When they are immersed in these thoughts and many others, they are digging their graves gradually. And in most cases, “impatient” can be traced to negative thinking. Rather than being filled with negative thoughts, be confident that good things do not elude those who wait.



Lack of True Love

Absence of true love alters long distance relationship. For some partners, they are opportunist. They only stay simply because of what they see to achieve and not because of the true love they have towards their partners. You lack true love when all you think of is the complexity of long distance relationship instead of piling focus on how it can work. Now is the time to cultivate qualities that will build your true love. Do not forget telling your spouse that you truly love them, and make sure that your attitude reveals that truth.


Financial Implications

Reunion dates cost some considerable amount of money, and that is another reason why long distance relationship fails. You will have to travel distances to visit your boyfriend or girlfriend. That is fine, but those travelings will drain your purse. And many people will end up deciding that they can not just keep up with the expenses, before you get to know, things falls apart. It is then vital that couple prepare for this journey and discuss how much fund will be saved for meeting at the planned date.



No Future

Most people in a long distance relationship just do not have plan for the future. Plan about what they set to achieve at the end of the journey. When they will finally settle, where, and many more why questions. This kills the relationship steadily. And then you discover that the energy, time, and money invested on the relationship have nothing to show for it. Instead of waiting for when you will discuss what you hope to accomplish in the near future, do it now; it will not get easier and better than now.



Failure to Apologize

Many couples in a long distance relationship just do not buy the idea of admitting their wrongs. This is far from low self-esteem, but shows a high level of immaturity. Couples in a long distance relationship tends to fight often, and in most cases it has to be about petty issues; something so minute. And when one of the party who is wrong cannot just say sorry and seek peace, breakup comes to live...continue

relationship502:
We have gone past mid-January and things are beginning to take shape. It really looks like this year 2018 is going to be a good one (well, I pray it is). Today, I’d like to share a little of things that’s been going down with me and it’s about my ex girlfriend calling my phone. It’s been a while we’ve been apart from each other.



I’m sharing this so you (readers) can be the judge and give me some good advice. Like I mentioned in the first paragraph above that my ex girlfriend have been calling me recently. Yes! My Ex. I won’t be going into some personal details in this post but I can assure you it will be plain enough just so you get the gist. I’ve been involved in series of dating. While some were meant to be a very serious relationship, others were meant to be ‘just a relationship’.

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

So about my ex girlfriend calling my phone a lot recently. Just before the ending of the year 2017, on a faithful Friday evening, I got a call from my ex girlfriend named ‘S’ (permit me to represent her name with alphabet for personal reasons). My phone ringtone is in default tone of its brand. Hearing my phone ring, I approached to look who the caller was but it’s a strange number. I picked up and to my hearing is a swift voice of a female saying:

“Hello SAY”.

Immediately I heard that voice, I knew of whose it was. I can tell it’s ‘S’’ voice. Of all my ex girlfriends, hers was a very unique voice so I’d know even when I’m deep asleep. I greeted her and she reciprocated my greetings. She didn’t waste time to ask if I’d be available the next day so we can hookup because she’s missed me a lot.

Miss me a lot? I asked. She replied Yes!

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

I was happy but not for long before that question of ‘why would she be missing me’ popped up in my mind.

I told her that I’m available even though I wasn’t. I had traveled to a nearby town and was supposed to be back on Saturday afternoon but I fast tracked my coming back to morning.



It’s Saturday morning already. My small baggage is well arranged since last night and I was set to return home so I can make myself available for my date. Looking at my phone ringing, twas ‘S’ calling to confirm our date, if it’s still going to happen.



I had a second thought and I said to her that “I’m sorry we won’t be hooking up today”.

She asked “why”?

My Ex Girlfriend Calling My Phone

I told her I have other things to attend to so I can’t make it again. Now with a lower voice, she said “okay”. I could feel the disappointment in her voice...continue

relationship502:
Virginity as a word, is known by many teenager girls but many do not know what it really means. Most girls must have received sex education in one way or the other. Many sex educator do not emphasize on ‘virginity’ and those that does may not really care if the students understand. Virginity and virginity questions is a broad topic that may not be covered fully in a post. (Expect more on ‘virginity’). However, I will make sure I make some really simple points in this post. Let’s get started!

To really make some good points in this post, there are many questions to ask and answers to be given but these answers are strictly subjective and can not be termed ‘standard’ for every school of thought. As a person, you may have asked yourself many questions pertaining to this subject. Questions out of which you may have asked; what is virginity? or Who is a virgin? To answer these virginity questions, I want you to know that many writers have different answers according to their school of thought.

WHAT IS VIRGINITY?

Virginity is a state of being a virgin. Like I said earlier, answering one virginity question on the subject virginity will only lead to other virginity questions and it could go on and on like that. I have said “virginity is a state being a virgin”. One may now ask, out of curiosity, then who’s a virgin?

WHO IS A VIRGIN?

A virgin can be said to be any person that has never had sexual intercourse before. When you carefully look into this definition of a virgin and digest it, you’ll realize it’s even complex. It’s complex because you want to ask what particular type of sexual intercourse? As we know we have MouthAction and anal sex that doesn’t involve penile penetration into a female vagina. Questions may be asked that can a girl that has never had penile penetration into her vagina but has had MouthAction be a virgin? Well! If you continue reading this, you may be able to answer that yourself.

WHAT MAKES A GIRL A VIRGIN?

Here’s a tricky question that would fail thousands of people or better I say here is a scam question that all answers can be wrong. What makes a girl a virgin? Some will say a girl that has never had sexual intercourse, others will say a girl that still have her hymen intact. Both can be right or wrong depending on who’s asking the question. A girl may have never had sexual intercourse and yet have ruptured hymen. A girl may have had sex and still have her hymen intact (yes it’s possible).

WHAT IS HYMEN?
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makydebbie:
Nice to meet you.
May God bless us for keeping our virginity.

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