For those who have been able to successfully use this website, what exactly is the payment procedure?

As in what are the steps required to make a payment?, What forms of payment are accepted? And do the payment options handle foreign currency?, How does the NIS get notification that a payment from overseas has been made and processed?

Why I ask all these questions is that the guidance from the Nigerian High Commision in the UK indicates that the current fees for the e-Passport is $65 + £20, The $65 is to be paid to the NIS via their website / portal, But their website does not indicate how this is to be done, The website does not even have provision for an overseas permanent home address [just nigerian], Same situation as regards the next of kin address as well,

Please this is kinda urgent, so a quick response would be well appreciated,

Cheers,

So,

Should one marry only for religous reasons

Why do peeps always associate negative thots with night clubs?

What's wrong with anyone going to a night club??

It's not a brothel after all,

If I may ask,

Why isn't a muslim woman allowed to marry from other religions? ?? .. Could you please enlighten us??

kismat:

Islam allows a man to marry a christian/jew woman but not vice versa. Man is given the responsibility of leading a house and is responsible of his wife/kids well-being. If he fails to sufficiently provide for them, then he becomes accountable during the day of accoutability.judgement day. But as mentioned in several replies, most of such marriages sooner or later suffer greatly hence it's recommended for all muslims to try and marry someone who shares his/her faith.

hot-angel:

here we go again with pick-up lines.

... And since when has socializing become a crime..

You want to have a conversation with a lady, and all of a sudden.. you're trying to pick-her up [I believe that's also called soliciting]...

The point here..

Nairaland is for socializing... and that's all we're trying to do here..
Can you ladies please give us the benefit of the doubt before stringing us men up and hanging us high... 

well... not bad... what is ur day job?... aside from looking beautiful.. that is..

I take it that Naijalife is ur creation then.. Is this ur regular job, or more like a hobbie that u're trying to blow-up... [make big..]
Where do u go surfing ?? Haven't heard of surfing in NY/NJ..

Naijalife:

i am a reporter oh
did it for a newspaper for two year
started my own 3yrs later sha...

..surfing is my thingie too

..my gym is da club
it's the only workout i know
..

@ Naijalife..

So.. what do you do in general.. and what do you do in ur spare time.. any hobbies aside from modelling?.. any sports catch ur interest.. [not the ones u watch, but the ones u participate in.. ]

Hi Linda...

It's a pleasure to finally meet u...

And you still haven't told us what your real name is...

tell us more about ur magazine...

What's ur real name?

she is young...

You want to know why she didn't win...

It's because she's too innocent..  [Innocent-looking anyway...]

Seun:

What's the purpose of going through all the trouble of voting for people on TV when at the end of the day the winning girl is just ok in looks? I could pick a better "Face" for them for free; I could pick one of our Nairaland ladies!

And how come those two are the winners and the girl in the picture below isn't one?
(she was one of the contestants)
[img]http://faceofeva.tv.nyud.net:8090/images/contestants/tn/tn134.jpg[/img]

Ramon_Baba:


On the other hand I ask myself why go into something that seems so risky .....

The reason why??

It's simple...

It's LOVE...

It's quite interesting to note that while most of the male responders have open views about it, most of the female responders are adamantly against it...

I actually know of a couple who are in this precise situation..

I respect the couple, because it takes quite a lot of understanding for a marriage of this nature to work..

The husband is a Muslim, and the wife a Christian.. The couple in question have 3 kids.. the eldest of them is a boy of say 6, and the second is another boy of say 4.. they are some of the most wonderful kids I've ever met, but why I highlight this because of the innocence of children involved.. In this kind of environment, their very innocence leads to a lot of confusion in them, because of the problems they usually have wrapping their heads around the most fundamental of concepts..

There was a particular day when one of them was very disraught, and on enquiry I found that it was as a result of his inability to go and see "Father Christmas" like the rest of his school mates.. For a kid of 4 not to be allowed to do what all his friends are doing must be quite disturbing to the kid..

And this is just one example of many.. the kind of questions these kids ask, one has to be very careful in giving answers, so as not to prejudice their minds or implant the wrong thoughts or ideas..

Unions of this nature require lots of love, compromise, understanding and patience..