i no think say u sef wise. u can't tell me that the millions of ladies all over this country non has ever match your intelligent. i put it to you that, you are the cause because of the environment and the kind of people you move with.

where u reside sef and who are the people u associate with.

you see we are talking about feelings here. what gets the man sexually aroused mostly or attract mostly is the beauty and the fitness of what the woman wears forget "i love her". in this regard there is nothing like mutual understanding unless you dont want your husband to be touching you and always being all over you. remember he must admire with his eyes first seeing what he likes, wearing what he doesn't like can not much aroused as supposed.

we are only discussing secretaries here, what about drivers with their madam?

this is true, most secretaries sleep with their male boss. i will give an incident which i am a witness and still faced the problem until i resigned. i worked in a place where we were five in the department including my boss and among us is just a lady who happens to be a secretary to my boss. one day after the close of work, i left forgetting my key in the office, so when i was almost in my house i remembered my key and dashed back to the office lo and behold, my boss and the secretary having sex in his office and when i entered my boss had to extricate from the lady and she quickly covered herself with my boss suit and i quick added sorry sir and went and picked my key and left. since, that very day i began to have problem with my boss and the lady could not give me face anymore. any little thing i did from that very day was always complains from my boss until i resigned. how about this?

cases of this nature are not new. so many couples have had prblems because of this. i think i will try to find out whom that lover girl is before i react. by the way women should start getting used to it that, 70% of the men in the world do have lover girls even when they are married. and i blame those women that dates married men.

i would have subscribed to your request but the only condition left is my ethnicity. i am from the eastern part of nigeria.

i got to identify myself with two girls in my school who happened to be good friends. along the line both started having quarrels over me and each trying to show she cares most. and i like one most and would like to go for her but i dont want to bring problem between them. is just barely three months of knowing these friends. they mostly emphasize on my funny jokes, intelligence and handsomeness. i am confused advice me.

what do u epect when a woman doesn't know fashion? she do not know the kind of cloths that fits her complexion and shape, she do not know what attracts her husband and if she knows refuses to dress that way.