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Religion / Re: Catholic Church by Sakir: 11:38am On Jul 11, 2022
Mikee19:


May I ask why you want to switch from being Pentecostal to Catholic tho? undecided

Cos I did the reverse. Born and raised Catholic (hence can tell you about them and why I left), but only if you reply my first. What's wrong with Pentecostal church that you wanna leave? Why the Catholic church, what do u love about them? Did u get born again while a Pentecostal?

Answer these three, and I promise I'll tell you why I left them for Pentecostal church. I'll tell you much about them


Nothing wrong in Pentecostal church, I just developed great love for Catholic Church, I am born again as a Pentecostal church member.

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Religion / Catholic Church by Sakir: 4:38pm On Jul 10, 2022
I am a Christian, and I am born into a Christian home(Pentecostal church) however i want to change to Catholic Church, I love Catholic Church though I don't really know much about them, please nairalanders kindly help me with some advice and please what are the things I need to know about Catholic Church.
Travel / Local Flight by Sakir: 11:39am On Aug 14, 2019
Please everyone, I want travel by plane from Lagos to asaba and this will be my first time traveling by plane, please what's the procedures, how would I buy tickets and fly. Thanks in advance.
Travel / Help Me Direction Please by Sakir: 10:47am On Jul 26, 2019
Please everyone, how do i find my way from Ajah to ikeja using public transport?
Thanks in advance.
Travel / Re: Directions From Ajah To Alaba International Market Please by Sakir: 1:55pm On Jul 06, 2019
saheedbadmus:
from ajah join a bus going to oshodi, from oshodi ask were u would get a bus going to mile 2 and from mile 2 join a bus going to Alaba

Thanks
Travel / Re: Directions From Ajah To Alaba International Market Please by Sakir: 2:20am On Jul 06, 2019
pussyeater:

From Ajah to CMS to Mile 2 to Okoko. Drop off at Alaba. Not suru or rago oh grin


Thanks. I will try that.
Travel / Directions From Ajah To Alaba International Market Please by Sakir: 2:11am On Jul 06, 2019
[b][/b] Please everyone, how can I find my way from ajah to alaba international market using public transport.
Travel / I Need Direction Please by Sakir: 3:19pm On Apr 01, 2019
I'm in Ajah and I need to visit Jakande estate but I haven't been there before, can anyone please tell me how to find my way from ajah to jakande estate through public transport. Thanks in advance.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 1:02pm On Mar 16, 2019
BareFacedLies:
How did she contract the virus?

she contacted it from her close friend's daughter, the baby is one year old, her mom is always busy at work so she help her to babysit her baby, some few months later she travel and left the baby with her mom. She later hear that the baby is dead due to HIV, she rushed to the hospital immediately for text and she realized that she has contacted it already.
That's what she told me.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 12:54pm On Mar 16, 2019
africandictator:
Your babe contracted the virus because of her phobia for condoms!. Op can you remember when you were told that a woman would kill you when you were younger? I know you don’t , but now the prophesy is coming into futility!


She didn't contact the virus through sexual intercourse. I knew how she got it and she is innocent.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 12:51pm On Mar 16, 2019
funmisticqueen:
i insist you use protection till you are ready to have a child. She should take it or leave it. How are you sure she is taking her drugs? When you are ready to bear children, let her go for testing. But there is nothing wrong in marrying her.

Thanks, yeah I'm sure she took the medicine every day cuz we live together. The medicines are all free at the hospital. Her doctor has invited me for advice and she said there is nothing wrong in marrying her as long as she is taking her medication, her viral load is 0
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 12:48pm On Mar 16, 2019
Michelle55:
Kindly do her with protection till you both are ready to start having kids.. This your love na die sha! Kudos to you smiley


I'll do this.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 12:47pm On Mar 16, 2019
omonla10:
Actually, he has near 0% of infection once the lady is fully on antiretovirals.. All these ignorant comments sha.. The best he can do is to make sure she uses it religiously.. Some of my relatives died suddenly recently and I secretly wished their death could be swapped with hiv.. At least, we'll have them with us for much longer..

Hmmm
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 12:47pm On Mar 16, 2019
loyedammy:
op am a doc specialized in hiv program.......many comments here are ignorant, don't listen to them

it is not the end of the world, we have so many clients who av hiv and still living with their family in good health....most cases the woman is the infected and the rest of the family,clean.
I can tell u for a fact that with proper care u might not get the virus. I can't explain much cos I'm tired but follow ur doctors advice.

if she takes her medication regularly.....and the virus is suppressed, she can't infect u. note viral suppression is less than 20. good luck

Thanks man.
Family / Re: I'm Confused, Please Advise Me. by Sakir: 1:34am On Mar 16, 2019
I didn't see any of you guys replies as insult, I know you are all telling me the truth, it's all love but I know what to do now. Thanks
Family / Re: I'm Confused, Please Advise Me. by Sakir: 1:29am On Mar 16, 2019
edoman2016:

Did she tell you she is HIV positive before you started dating two years ago? Did she also explain to you how she contacted HIV? Ask her these valid questions for an answer.


Yes she told me she was positive after 4 months of dating, and she contacted it from her close friend's daughter, the baby is one year old, her mom is always busy at work so she help her to babysit her baby, some few months later she travel and left the baby with her mom. She later hear that the baby is dead due to HIV, she rushed to the hospital immediately for text and she realized that she has contacted it already.
That's what she told me.
Romance / My Fiancee Made A Shocking Confession by Sakir: 5:12pm On Mar 15, 2019
After 4 months of dating my fiancee, she told me that she wants to make a confession and this is where she will know if I truly love her, she made a confession weeping to me that she is HIV positive, I was shocked and I replied her instantly that why didn't you tell me since, we have been having sex without condoms for the past few months, she said I have no problem that she is on medication that no one can contact the virus from her through sex except she stopped taking the medicine, I didn't believe her so she took me to a hospital for HIV test and the results show that I'm negative, I still can't believe her because she might bribe the hospital, I went to 2 different hospitals out of her knowledge, and I realized that I'm negative, we continue having sex without condoms till I decided to visit a doctor for advice, the doctor said I can marry her and still have kids without me and our kids contacting the virus, but he said I must not have sex with her without condoms and when I'm ready to have child with her I should come for advice.
I explained everything to my fiancee but she never want to sex with condoms, she complains she doesn't like it, I tried to let her understand but she didn't agree, we keep on having sex without condoms, we have been dating for two years now but I'm still scared of contacting that deadly disease, my biggest fear is my family must not hear about it, they all love her but I'm sure they will never allow me to marry her if they knew she is HIV positive.
Please advise me everyone, should I marry her or I should quit now, because I don't want the situation where I will contact the virus and we will still break up later, I may commit suicide.

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Family / I'm Confused, Please Advise Me. by Sakir: 4:55pm On Mar 15, 2019
After 4 months of dating my fiancee, she told me that she wants to make a confession and this is where she will know if I truly love her, she made a confession weeping to me that she is HIV positive, I was shocked and I replied her instantly that why didn't you tell me since, we have been having sex without condoms for the past few months, she said I have no problem that she is on medication that no one can contact the virus from her through sex except she stopped taking the medicine, I didn't believe her so she took me to a hospital for HIV test and the results show that I'm negative, I still can't believe her because she might bribe the hospital, I went to 2 different hospitals out of her knowledge, and I realized that I'm negative, we continue having sex without condoms till I decided to visit a doctor for advice, the doctor said I can marry her and still have kids without me and our kids contacting the virus, but he said I must not have sex with her without condoms and when I'm ready to have child with her I should come for advice.
I explained everything to my fiancee but she never want to sex with condoms, she complains she doesn't like it, I tried to let her understand but she didn't agree, we keep on having sex without condoms, we have been dating for two years now but I'm still scared of contacting that deadly disease, my biggest fear is my family must not hear about it, they all love her but I'm sure they will never allow me to marry her if they knew she is HIV positive.
Please advise me everyone, should I marry her or I should quit now, because I don't want the situation where I will contact the virus and we will still break up later, I may commit suicide.

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