Let me reserve my comments

Oyindidi:
Na who get this pikin?

the same question I wanted to ask... Is he serious?

op am a doc specialized in hiv program.......many comments here are ignorant, don't listen to them

it is not the end of the world, we have so many clients who av hiv and still living with their family in good health....most cases the woman is the infected and the rest of the family,clean.
I can tell u for a fact that with proper care u might not get the virus. I can't explain much cos I'm tired but follow ur doctors advice.

if she takes her medication regularly.....and the virus is suppressed, she can't infect u. note viral suppression is less than 20. good luck

Desperate NGO fake story

Sakir:
After 4 months of dating my fiancee, she told me that she wants to make a confession and this is where she will know if I truly love her, she made a confession weeping to me that she is HIV positive, I was shocked and I replied her instantly that why didn't you tell me since, we have been having sex without condoms for the past few months, she said I have no problem that she is on medication that no one can contact the virus from her through sex except she stopped taking the medicine, I didn't believe her so she took me to a hospital for HIV test and the results show that I'm negative, I still can't believe her because she might bribe the hospital, I went to 2 different hospitals out of her knowledge, and I realized that I'm negative, we continue having sex without condoms till I decided to visit a doctor for advice, the doctor said I can marry her and still have kids without me and our kids contacting the virus, but he said I must not have sex with her without condoms and when I'm ready to have child with her I should come for advice.
I explained everything to my fiancee but she never want to sex with condoms, she complains she doesn't like it, I tried to let her understand but she didn't agree, we keep on having sex without condoms, we have been dating for two years now but I'm still scared of contacting that deadly disease, my biggest fear is my family must not hear about it, they all love her but I'm sure they will never allow me to marry her if they knew she is HIV positive.
Please advise me everyone, should I marry her or I should quit now, because I don't want the situation where I will contact the virus and we will still break up later, I may commit suicide.

i insist you use protection till you are ready to have a child. She should take it or leave it. How are you sure she is taking her drugs? When you are ready to bear children, let her go for testing. But there is nothing wrong in marrying her.

ceeroh:
Lol.. this OP is playing with death.

Will he live forever? Dude shouting suicide might just get hit by a trailer while crossing d street. What I'm trying to say is, he can marry her cos I see no reason why he shouldn't.

Chai

This op get mind

You still dey sex the girl raw even tho she's HIV positive

Haba


So here's what you should do

Tell her to stop taking the drugs, after a week of no drugs then sex am, so you go fit catch the virus

After all there's love in sharing

Check my signature for gifts to buy your girl

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Will he live forever? Dude shouting suicide might just get hit by a trailer while crossing d street. What I'm trying to say is, he can marry her cos I see no reason why he shouldn't.

HIV.. You mean you are chooking prick inside death.

Oyindidi:
Saucybenks why you no reply?

can't find it on my email... Tried over and over but nah

You wanted the hoes time for 2years before u regain consciousness. U deserve slap

But where is dominique sef?

You are drinking sniper and you're telling yourself it has been sterilized!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Will he live forever? Dude shouting suicide might just get hit by a trailer while crossing d street. What I'm trying to say is, he can marry her cos I see no reason why he shouldn't.

Lol.. of course no one will live forever. But this is different, any mistake from the guy, the lady stops her medication for that period and then have unprotected sex with him. BOOM!!! You know the rest

It's just a risky adventure.

How did she contract the virus?

Your babe contracted the virus because of her phobia for condoms!. Op can you remember when you were told that a woman would kill you when you were younger? I know you don’t , but now the prophesy is coming into futility!

I don't even believe she's HIV positive.

Hausubilaih

Greet Hitler for me[

SaucyBenks:
can't find it on my email... Tried over and over but nah

Sure?

Op it's like you are mad sir

Oyindidi:
Sure?

very...

See where death dey blow whistle for your ear.

You see death you still dey ask weather make you die?

Sakir:
After 4 months of dating my fiancee, she told me that she wants to make a confession and this is where she will know if I truly love her, she made a confession weeping to me that she is HIV positive, I was shocked and I replied her instantly that why didn't you tell me since, we have been having sex without condoms for the past few months, she said I have no problem that she is on medication that no one can contact the virus from her through sex except she stopped taking the medicine, I didn't believe her so she took me to a hospital for HIV test and the results show that I'm negative, I still can't believe her because she might bribe the hospital, I went to 2 different hospitals out of her knowledge, and I realized that I'm negative, we continue having sex without condoms till I decided to visit a doctor for advice, the doctor said I can marry her and still have kids without me and our kids contacting the virus, but he said I must not have sex with her without condoms and when I'm ready to have child with her I should come for advice.
I explained everything to my fiancee but she never want to sex with condoms, she complains she doesn't like it, I tried to let her understand but she didn't agree, we keep on having sex without condoms, we have been dating for two years now but I'm still scared of contacting that deadly disease, my biggest fear is my family must not hear about it, they all love her but I'm sure they will never allow me to marry her if they knew she is HIV positive.
Please advise me everyone, should I marry her or I should quit now, because I don't want the situation where I will contact the virus and we will still break up later, I may commit suicide.

Bro. IMO you are her confirmed husband. Pls marry her. You have won my heart for someone who can risk it all for love even in the face of death

loyedammy:
op am a doc specialized in hiv program.......many comments here are ignorant, don't listen to them

it is not the end of the world, we have so many clients who av hiv and still living with their family in good health....most cases the woman is the infected and the rest of the family,clean.
I can tell u for a fact that with proper care u might not get the virus. I can't explain much cos I'm tired but follow ur doctors advice.

if she takes her medication regularly.....and the virus is suppressed, she can't infect u. note viral suppression is less than 20. good luck

Take this advice and rest in peace. We have too many problems in the country to be busy with.

U can't catch it as long as she is on the anti retovirals...

her viral load is zero and you can't contract it.

We are so backward with info and science in this country.

There are books and articles to read and research.

You can continue your love making with condom or not and help her with reassuring her

Do u know how she got it

What if there is cure tomorrow

Will u now start looking for her

....or don't you love her?

Most bachelors are not Real Men IMO.

Now, if u feel she lied all this while to you and you want out cos of that,that's up to you... I just had to give you the facts.

Instead of dying in vain
Can I use u for rituals.
Pls its the same thing

Kindly do her with protection till you both are ready to start having kids.. This your love na die sha! Kudos to you

Actually, he has near 0% of infection once the lady is fully on antiretovirals.. All these ignorant comments sha.. The best he can do is to make sure she uses it religiously.. Some of my relatives died suddenly recently and I secretly wished their death could be swapped with hiv.. At least, we'll have them with us for much longer..

Oyo lo wa

loyedammy:
op am a doc specialized in hiv program.......many comments here are ignorant, don't listen to them

it is not the end of the world, we have so many clients who av hiv and still living with their family in good health....most cases the woman is the infected and the rest of the family,clean.
I can tell u for a fact that with proper care u might not get the virus. I can't explain much cos I'm tired but follow ur doctors advice.

if she takes her medication regularly.....and the virus is suppressed, she can't infect u. note viral suppression is less than 20. good luck

Thanks man.

omonla10:
Actually, he has near 0% of infection once the lady is fully on antiretovirals.. All these ignorant comments sha.. The best he can do is to make sure she uses it religiously.. Some of my relatives died suddenly recently and I secretly wished their death could be swapped with hiv.. At least, we'll have them with us for much longer..

Hmmm