₦airaland Forum

Zionmdde:
They should stop lying to us
There is no need for it anymore
The entire country have decamped to APC, and come 2027, we will all line up to give tinubu 100% vote.

With that in mind
1. They should tell us the truth about some of these fake achievements. As zombies we are we won't mind, it's still tinubu all the way

2. They should allow us show tinubu how much we love him in 2027. No inec rigging, no go to your state and vote, no changing people's vote, no ballot snatching, IREV working fully. Let the people show our jagaban the purest of love with their votes

I'll rather vote for the ballot box or the NYSC staff that would be coming to organize the election, than placing my hand on that LOGO of APC

GOFRONT:
Me I want to donor.......Will they give me a sweet girl??

I want to donor

If them like make them launch missiles hunt no be manhunt

Ok

Always backward. News that happened since last week's Tuesday abi Monday sef.

Jesus fit come 18 days before Nairaland go report the coming

Bonswah

Arrowhead71:
Fact ! Israeli are the behind weapons manufacturing in most Europe’s countries, little wonder they cannot stop support for Israel

I told one mumu called Helinus this thing but e no want hear me.
I told him that if America had their way, they'll give up on supporting Israel but they cannot. Israel literally plays a vital role in their intelligence and securing many European embassies in the Middle East. Even Russia is being careful of being engaged in a war with Israel, because, deep down, they don't truth many nations aside Israel in the Middle East.

PigTormentor:
Zionist genocide. A day will come when Zionist children will pay for the crimes of their fathers.
Nothing lasts forever.

Even Islamic countries deh do Security operation with Israel, Saudi Arabia....

Everyone will soon give up on Gaza. Even those that support them only do it online

eepeepook:
The white man steals our resources and gives us bibles. The same white man who preached to turn the other cheek brought a huge stick to eliminate his opponents. Africans will forever remain slaves.

Not everyone whiteman gave black man Bible, not every black man is a slave. Blame your government or ask Niger and Burkina Faso

agulion:
Since their sure name is sinwar, they will see war, no islam no teror

They'll seing-war 🤣🤣

omojeesu:
People don't know history nor the Bible!
Thanks for your contribution...

Keep Bible Record aside, an average historian knows that Palestinians are not originally owners of that land. khalif Othoman came with his army and outnumbered Israel and pursued them. After world war II, Israelis returned and bad to buy their own lands back, fortunately for them, they brought as many as they could, and now, they have become stronger than others thought they would.

During Pro Palestinians protest in the US, I think one historian said something that, those who claimed Israel is only grabbing land are those who don't read history.

mrvitalis:
For me we don't have the capacity to jail them
Making laws you can't enforce is how u look weak

1) fine them 200k
2) if you miss 3 straight election without voting you would be deregistered

I'm in my late 20s, had issues with my card and try to redo it during last election, they kept telling me come back tomorrow until I was frustrated. I refused and have determined never to do it again after seeing how the election went .

Make one ideot reach my house say e want fine me 200k because I no do election. They are mad, how much are they being fine for rigging elections please ?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

helinues:
Finance VDM for Nigeria president in 2027

Not everyone is willing to be a president... If he wants to, finance wouldn't be an issue

helinues:
Who is VDM in the scheme of things? Has VDM said more than Sowore or Peter Obi? Why are those not arrested?

A day without some of you blaming FG for all the life's woes is an incomplete day

So VDM'S case is no longer about GTB. So what would happen to those who emotionally closed their accounts with the GTB?

VDM have done twice what this Government have done and would probably do.

I guarantee you, if one of these politicians in today's government die, only hypocrites like them would mourn. If VDM falls sick, lots of Nigerians and masses would go into fasting to see him heal.
That's how you know impact.
I'm not really his fans based on how he do things, but you can overlook his impact on the poor, someone FG should be doing but won't do.

jmoore:
Stop converting to naira.

They don't spend in naira.

To be more funny but real, they spend less than you here.
You pay for children school fees, you pay for any drug you buy, very soon we may pay for air we breathe, and yet, we pay some some taxes one way or another.

For them, they pay tax and insurance and instantly some loads are shouldered by the government or companies.

E.g, child education, health, and even cars....

Racoon:
Great take home there but the taxation and deductions in the UK is not beans.

The post clearly said " take home after tax, insurance and the rest."

ReacherSaidNoth:
He has that Drogba and Costa vibe about him, would be a perfect buy for Chelsea.

Those strikers played under coaches that believes in fast football. Maresca is playing a very very slow ball, worst of it all is Backwards football.

njokuuche77:
If Chelsea are serious about rebuilding, Osimhen is exactly the kind of striker we need. Pay the man what he's worth or risk losing a world-class talent again!
33 goals and 8 assists no be jokes!
Make Chelsea no fumble this one, Osimhen is the real deal

Am a Chelsea fan, but I won't advise Oshimeh to go to Chelsea.
He won't strive in a team that plays Maresca's kind of football; Backline football.

I love Chelsea, but I love my country man better.

Appletek:
WTF!

That highlighted part is funny, amazing and wawwawahwah

Become a real Jesus follower

YorubaLord:
Useless Nigerian Government killed the innocent poor boy.

Boy

helinues:
India and Israel, they always trespass because they are regarded as top countries which can't be questioned.

India started the oppression in Kashmir

comments like this highlights why this nation may never get better anymore... SMH 🤢

press9jatv:
be enlighten joor

He's a content creator. I personally reached out to him

Toymax88:
Previous posts:

https://www.nairaland.com/8408230/mother-inlaw-selling-ogogoro-dry

https://www.nairaland.com/8416437/update-mother-in-law-selling-ogogoro


Good evening and happy new week, nlders

I called the officer in charge at the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, IBADAN and she asked me to come this morning, so I set out for the journey around 8:30am.

It's quasi 1:00pm when I got to the ministry which Is located beside the NDLEA office. Immediately I introduced myself, the woman (officer in charge) called the MIL that she should make herself, wife and children available at her office (the phone was on speaker) and I was asked to go and stay outside while she's attending to other people with similar issues. They demanded for #4k i.e. 1k for the letter and 3k for the delivery of the letter at BARIKA

When it's half past 3:00pm, they didn't show up as promised and the woman had to call the mother in-law again and this time around her phone number was switched off, my babies Mama's phone number was not available too.

The officer in charge then told me that there's nothing they could do, she then advised to visit the office of the NSCDC office around Mokola roundabout or SANGO police station. I opted for SANGO police station and she directed me to a policewoman.


I got to the police station and explained my predicament to the policewoman, who demanded for a mobilization fee, I left the police station with the promise to come back. Initially the policewoman was reluctant, saying they don't normally meddle in a matter being handled by the Social Welfare office but she later agreed to assist

My instinct told me to quickly rushed down to their family house at BARIKA, UI second gate, just to check if the MIL was at home or not. The MIL, babies mama and the kids were no where to be found, the door was under lock and key.

Somebody directed me to other family members who are mainly women (the husbands are dead). I explained everything to them with anger and frustration written all over my face. The eldest of the 3 women told that they would see to it. I told them my request that all I wanted is the enrollment of the children in schools and I took my leave

The cost of transportation within Ibadan (town service) is very high plus other expenses at the welfare office, all these gulped my money. I got to the bus terminal at OJOO and I was told that the transport fare to ILORIN is #6,500. I only had 4k left left in my pocket and this was y I was asking for a financial help on NAIRALAND but nobody came to my aid

I opted for ONE CHANCE (4k with AC) and while on the transit, a man bought 3 sachet water and gave me 1, when we alighted and had no means of getting home, I approached the man again and he gave me #500.. The man is working with a research institute in IBADAN but he's from Ilorin, his younger brother married my ex ( the girl is hails Agbaluku -Arigidi, Ikare -Akoko Ondo state). She's also a resident of IBADAN.


UPDATE

I just received a call from NSCDC office at Agodi, Ibadan. They asked me to come but I told them the complainant should give them to bring the letter of invitation to me in ILORIN. I want her feel what I'm feeling, I have to Ibadan 5 times and now they want me to come again. The NSCDC official was telling me that I shouldn't do that.

I told her I was stranded yesterday when I came.

Update

Who's to blame for the communication gap

I called the officer in charge in Sunday to confirm, affirm and reaffirm before embarking on the journey on Monday morning (5th May,2025). She asked to come and I obliged

My wife gave a copy of the letter to NSCDC Agodi and I was called yesterday. The date on the letter as confirmed by the NSCDC is 6th May, 2025 ( Tuesday ) and not 5th May, 2025 (Monday)

While at the welfare office, they asked for money both for the letter and the delivery of the letter ( 1k for the letter and 3k for the delivery at BARIKA). I paid for the letter and promised to send the 3k to the UBA account provided. But when I heard that date is 6th and not 5th I decided not pay the 3k for the delivery.

The officer in charge have been disturbing me with calls to pay the money.

They want me to pay for the service poorly rendered, they are asking me to pay for a job not well done.

I was supposed to travel to IBADAN on Tuesday and not Monday 5th

Can you drop your WhatsApp contact for me please?

AguluLiar:
These pastors are just ordinary human beings, nothing spiritual about them.
They only strive on people's gullibility.

Stop worshipping your fellow humans.

The money Adeboye spent to put up those facilities was taken from his followers.
He doesn't have any job.

Ok, any other thing to say? Or we can now move to the next important things?

Capernum:
Daddy freeze how far?

Them no Deh see this kind news, na the bad onees them deh see....

Remember, the goal for them is to trend, by using either the success or mistakes of others

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

Personally, I don't support because of my faith. But then, you seems to be going through a lot and need clarity of mind.

While considering divorce, I'll advice you speak to God, seek counsel from a genuine preacher you believed in his calling (if you are a Christian). If you are not a Christian, seek counsel from an elderly person you trust and respect, and also find out who she holds in high esteem and speaks to him or her so they can talk to her.

Next is, while considering divorce, remember your children are in line. You've showed yourself to be a good father who desire disciplined children. With their mum being alive although you are guys are no more, marrying another woman to be their mom will be one of the last thing you'll want to do, especially if it turns out they don't respect her and she don't like them as her own kids when she gives birth.

Lastly I'll say, we all have wounds that comes from expectations and desire that the other person fail to meet up. But, instead of separation, find out why they behave the way they behave. And ask them what do they really want (this should usually be the basis even before marriage though).

While you sound innocent and I kind of believe you, I still think your wife may have her own narration which differs from this one whether she's right or lying.
I have judged my Dad faithful sometimes whenever he reports my mum, but hearing her own side i end up realising my dad was wrong because of the kind of paint and brush he used in painting the story.

Deep within you, there's this yearning for your wife, reason you are angry. If you really don't care about her, believe me you, it won't hurt you ar all...... Fight a little.

As a pastor, I honestly feel bad when a man marries a woman whose sole ideology is "the man is the provider while all I do is cook, born, watch TV and go for vacations."

AVECDEO:
Oga leave the place already and go to a city to make a living. E.g Abuja.
When you balance send for your wife and children.
Your eyes never see anything.
If you have money for data then you can have money to move ahead.

E sure me say you no read the whole post

UrPapa:
what does traveling by flight has to do with swimming
Just curious

Many things. A lot of planes do land on water, especially when there's an emergency issues and the plane cannot get to any airport. At best, they look for a nearby ocean, river or water as the alternative because the plane may likely not catch fire after falling. At times, it floats after diving it, or at least, it goes down slowly. If you can manage to come out, staying on the water surface will demand swimming skills.

Thelannister:
message not for me

I stopped going to church since 2016 and with lots of peace of mind

Alright, more peace of mind as you continue to to leave the church.

oluwaseunamos33:
Hmmm. Nathaniel my boy.

Una no get respect ooo you still deh call this legend boy

Well, man is so humble he won't bother answering you.

Happy Easter