₦airaland Forum

You might have your reservations about government, justifiably so considering the way politicians steal mercilessly and do things with a hidden agenda however it's not all the time the government is wrong.lets be objective here.sometimes they mean well and forget o, governor jide sanwoolu is someone I like and I like his leadership style.he identifies a problem and he doesn't waste time in fixing it.same with governor seyi makinde

chynergy1:
folly in great dignity.
it is one thing to commit evil,
an another thing to glorify it with pride.

sometimes i blame the men for this type of stupidity.you will see a decent working class girl, you go say no na baddies you want.at least you heard when she said the man's wife Is a church girl and the innocent wife will be somewhere wasting her time praying for a useless man that doesn't even know the value of good women.i think many of these married men deserve oloshos as wives because if he really loved and valued his wife will he be with his wife and not an untrained girl to the extent of the girl subbing the wife.tuehhhh

obiekunie01:
Stupid and dumb generation!

NOT LIKE HE BOUGHT THE HOUSE FOR YOU!
He rented it for you!
wait na make we see if him go renew am for you whn the rent expires!

Ezi ofia!


and one SIMPle guy go carry this one put for house one day and call her his wife!

internet never forgets.until she wan Marry, travel out of the country or occupy a position she go know whatsup

Franzinni:
Terry g was once in your position... Lil Wayne was once in your position


But today ... They are hardly in any conversations.

Pride is a double edged sword

lol don't mind the small rat

E never reach anywhere he dey carry shoulder

Save for inflation or criminals working in the bank?

You and you minions laid the bed so it's time to lie on it.why are you even complaining? Those who have become homeless,widows,widowers and orphans because of the demons you groomed what should they should do?

You never see anything.

Shall a man heap coals of fire and not get burnt?
Shebi you don't want your youths to be educated,you want to keep pushing for children to be marrying old and rotten pedophiles,you want almajari to continue for your selfish agenda,you want to keep arming criminals with weapons while your people are dying of poverty,fanatism,terrorism and ignorance.continue

MrBrownJay1:
sista, now you are touching another subject of depression and what come after pregnancy...and yes, many women suffer afterwards but let us be honest here: women AND men suffer together (unless this woman is a single mother), you may not understand it but WE MEN GO THROUGH THESE PREGNANCIES WITH YOU. we suffer with you, we hurt just like you do, we go through these body changes with you, you are never alone through these pregnancies (unless you have an inconsiderate partner)... but to claim that this is the hardest task on earth is far fetched.
again, the part about complicated pregnancies that you are talking above is around 10% of all pregnancies.

having a cardiac arrest/stroke is a near death experience not to be compared with having a child. what you should say IS: having a child is a near death experience for a few women out there (who are part of the 10% complicated pregnancies i mentioned earlier).

as for all the hormonal imbalance, beauty fading, weight gain and loss of hair issues you talked about, it does happen but shouldnt make child birth the hardest task on earth. is it? its an unfortunate moment, YES, just like the stress that men go through to provide for their family day in and day out for decades... pot belly, stress, baldness, erectile dysfunction, some even go mad and/or turn to crime to provide for their family.



BWAAAAAAAAAAH! no women ever "gave" me a child, we CREATED CHILDREN TOGETHER!!! women having children is no sacrifice, its a LIFE DECISION and certainly not a gift towards men... its a gift towards BOTH OF THEM, its a gift towards their family. this child is just as yours as it is mine (and some of you women like to remind men that this child is more yours than ours, because the child came out of your loin). let us not be hypocrites here.



again, there is nothing special about getting pregnant... this is an act that we've been doing for thousands of years, when human beings were still walking like monkeys. whats actually special about giving life is what happens after that child comes out of your loin. there are tons of women who get pregnant and HAVE ABORTIONS. does it make such pregnancy special? there are lots of women who get pregnant and throw the baby away in garbage bins. does it make such pregnancy special? a 5yr old child can get pregnant (ask Lina Marcela Medina de Jurado the youngest mother ever), was that pregnancy special? again, any clueless donkey and his clueless gf can get pregnant because the act of getting someone pregnant is such a SIMPLE ACT, any donkey can be successful at it... whats important and valuable about a pregnancy is what happens when that child comes to term and out of a woman's loin.
now pls, dont misunderstand me, giving birth can be a traumatic experience to some, but let us all not falsely claim that this is what all women go through. for majority of women, a pregnancy is a walk in the park. FACT!



In Nigeria/Africa, the majority of marriages are about MEN providing for the basic needs of the family (even if wifey is gainfully employed). who are we kidding here? a man who cant provide for his family is considered less than a man (by mostly women).



you are one of the lucky ones... aka a two income family where wife is willing to put her own fair share of her salary to the benefit of your family. now out of the thousands of women around you, how many can you vouch are doing the same? better yet, thanks to African culture/society, if your husband wasnt able to provide for the family, do you know how he would feel? again women (like yourself) are quick to look down and emasculate a man who cant provide for his family. cant you see how difficult being a man is?!



again, i understand that my opinion may offend a few of you women, but it is nevertheless MY OPINION. no woman can come here and claim that being pregnant is the hardest task on earth BECAUSE WOMEN DONT KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO BE A MAN. if you guys aint men, how dare you come on NL and claim whatever you desire about men, as if you knew what it takes to be a man? and if you guys believe that you can have an opinion about what it takes to be a man (and claim that women have the "hardest task on earth" ), then i guess it is equally ok for a man to believe otherwise and say his own opinion on the subject.

but here is the best part out of this whole discussion: you can be pregnant today and if you dont succeed, you can try again next year and the year after that, until you eventually succeed. to be a family man and provide for your family, there are NO SECOND CHANCES.

oyinbo says a picture says a picture says a thousand words.i hope you realize these are some women's everyday reality.come do this one for One week maybe body no go tell you

Ishilove:
As in. I am shocked, and with all the crap floating around on the internet, I have become a bit immune to rubbish comments so for this one to shock me, it really enter. See as he said it with so much confidence.

it's part of the toxic masculinity and all that rubbish narcissistic contents they consume from the internet by people like mewolaka, barrister Rita etc so I don't really blame him

Ori re tiburu lorun re.shoro leroboya enso?

Kleptomaniacs defending their Kind

I suspect it's some students in her institution or cultists riffraffs who she might have unknowingly offended

As a lecturer male or female, particularly if you are a female please avoid students in general,give them space.theres no telling what they can do when they're high on drugs or looking for money.many of these students are untrained.they lack parental training and care.avoid them as much as you can because I wonder how someone will have the audacity to sneak into someone else's home and perpetuate that evil if it's not an insider job (possibly a student) who has been Keeping track of her movement and felt she has money

Connected1:
Being Born into a wealthy family, you have easy access to a lot of things in life therefore a lot is expected from you.

Many people get angry when they see her behaving as she does, it's same way they tell Davido it's his father's money he is using.

As a woman, you can't be jumping from relationships to relationships and expect praises, the men all aren't the problem.

ok so being born into a wealthy family and being promiscuous is why Nigerians are angry with her, right?

NovusHomo:
I still cannot help you. Your written expression is so elementary and juvenile. No wonder you can't understand. And then you had to add jesus. Maybe you should ask it for help. Please do NOT respond. I can do without the headache from a semi-illiterate.

no need to play victim.you are just hateful and envious

It's narcissistic to hate someone who hasn't done anything to you yet you can't explain why you hate that person.you are clearly salty and a psychopath and you cannot even hide it you better fix yourself because hatred and bile causes cancer

NovusHomo:

Sorry, but I can't help you. Bye.

then you're clearly envious, bitter and pained.what kind of demonic hatred is that.you just hate someone and you can't explain it.you need Jesus and therapy

hilaryCU:
It is not okay to send a child to the bank especially for financial transactions

a 15 year old is knowledgeable enough to handle financial transactions except the 15 year old has physical disability or an slowpoke

15 year old girl for Nigeria no dey fvck 40 year old preek? Abeg leave that thing.its interesting how men don't see a 15 year old as a child when preek don stand but to run financial errands for her family she's suddenly a child.

NovusHomo:

The answer is in your own comment. But more seriously, they hold her to a higher standard. Please don't ask me why.

I don't understand exactly what you mean.

mukthar2000:
a modern day man



That exactly what make u to be jumping from one dick to another.


U better settle down with one responsible poor guy and stop deceving urself.

how will she be able to identify and Know a responsible poor man besides the girl still strikes me as childish.i am not sure she's ready for marriage.i might be wrong though.im just surprised why a lot of Nigerians hate her

MikeofKd:
Dis one is desperately looking for a perfect relationship at all cost , blaming everything on every man she has ever dated but she hasn't really realized that she herself is the problem not the men shes been dating , she probably want every relationship to go her way, now she's indirectly blaming her dad ,sorry dear you can't have it all.

yes I understand she is attention seeking and immature but why do Nigerians hate her and troll her so much? That part I don't understand

Whenever you go to the bank its not safe to tell anyone.nigerians are usually careless with a lot of things.its ok to send your child to the bank but whenever visitors come in and they ask out of courtesy what about your daughter, just say fine instead of saying I sent her to the bank.times are evil and people are getting more wicked.

Secondly whenever you are going to bank or returning back from the bank,stop having money conversations in public or on the streets over the phone e.g I am just going to fcmb bank o.i went to withdraw 20k from fidelity because fcmb didn't have network.its risky.passers by who are criminals (them no dey write kidnapper for face) might hear and start planning something wicked.dont underate any Nigerian on the streets because he's wearing suit or t-shirt and jeans

Namaster:
What is this one saying?

What should they wear to the gym?

Jalabia and hijab?

Most women wear clothes that are specifically designed for mobility to gym.

This is the kind of guy that'll say a woman deserved to be raped because of the clothes she was wearing.

Focus on why you are in the gym. Do your reps and sets and geddifok!

abegii let me hear word.what the guy said was spot on.if you see a woman dressed to the gym for mobility and comfort to be able to gym you will know.similarly if you see a woman dressed to the gym for attention, you will also know.

Even Me as a woman I get irritated and embarrassed on behalf of some women when I see some women's clothes at the gym.some will even wear heavy makeup so you don't need any prophet to tell you this one come sell market.gym is where you workout and sweat heavily so person wey dey there to gym and keep fit go get time for make-up.

My gender when Will you stop deceiving yourself?

Lineress.continue

MrBrownJay1:
so you saw that MISANDRIST comment, yet decided to ignore it and now when i call that comment for what it is (aka belittle men's task on earth), you wanna claim victim?

you wanna claim that women have the moral justification to say that having a child is the hardest task on earth...? are you a man? do you know how hard it is to be a man in a world where men have to singlehandedly support their family (women included)? do you know how hard life is for good men out there that are simply broke and therefore ignored by women (Or that simply cant support their family) FOR YEARS? do you know how hard life is for good men out there that are dismissed solely because they aint got a fancy house/car/job FOR YEARS? you think carrying a child for 9months is difficult, when some men have been suffering for decades with hunger/poverty/dismissal by women because they couldnt buy them fancy gifts etc... do you think its easy for a man to see his child being hungry and not able to feed that child, while mama blames him for their misfortune (because he is suppose to be the "provider" and cant provide) instead of helping him?!
do you even remotely understand the type of PRESSURE any family man goes through, to cater for his family?! calling pregnancy the hardest task on earth is an insult to men and what we have to do to cater for family/women/children etc.

i have been through enough pregnancy, and apart from the labor pain that mothers felt (roughly between 6 to 18hs), being pregnant was a walk in the park. now yes, some women have complicated pregnancies but the percentage is very low.

here is a fact for you: two complete clueless ignoramus under the sun can have/make a baby... there is no science/fantastic act behind it. since the beginning of time, human beings have had babies, even when there was no electricity and/or no medicine (aka epidural). lets stop play victims because a man tells you the simple truth about life.

o really? You think it's just as straightforward as getting pregnant and having a baby.do you know the Post partum depression that follows, hormonal changes,body changes,loss of physical beauty,loss of hair and even the potential of loss of life.let me educate you because it seems you don't know.are you aware that some women's blood pressure go up,some become blind,I even had a friend that even had her first child and started using wheel chair.the way you casualize child birth it's clear that you don't know that it is a near death experience.some women give birth they cannot sit down comfortably again without pain in the vagina, some start experiencing loss in sexual arousal and vaginismus,yeast infections etc.

For your information child birth is a HUGE SACRIFICE WOMEN give to the men they love but because of the UNGRATEFUL, OVERLY INDULGENT AND ENTITLED MEN out there they cannot see it

MrBrownJay1:
sista... although there are many complicated pregnancies out there, let us not fool ourselves with WRONG FACTS.... A) being pregnant is not the most difficult task on earth AND/OR B) out of all pregnancies, only 10% are complicated pregnancies.




choose any of the links below (thank me later)...
complicated pregnancies around the world:
https://www.forbes.com/health/womens-health/pregnancy/pregnancy-statistics/

maternal death rate around the world:
https://ourworldindata.org/maternal-mortality

you are not a woman so you have no moral justification to say that.you have never carried a child in your womb or giving birth before so how can you tell if it's complicated or not? Let's be kind to women.enough of the misogynistic comments

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
giving birth is actually very easy to do, and the amount of people with complicated pregnancies around the world is less than 10%. you dont even need a state of the art facility to give birth, thats why majority of people in villages and remote places can easily give birth without going to a hospital OR BETTER YET, thats why many women give birth (by themselves) to unwanted children and can throw the healthy baby away undetected.

this is an insensitive and unempathethic thing to say.you think it's every woman that has it easy with pregnancy and child birth? You think All women's bodies are the same?

Ehya.may God console him

Chukwuka319:
Lol! Jim Iyke really served the thing,wotoporious breakfast, lunch and dinner in one plate.He should have given the idiot more bashing.
Obviously frustration, bitterness and jealousy made realhonour or realdishonour lash out like an angry wild cat at a Nollywood legend who is a billion times better and more comfortable than him.
What's his business with Jim's career and marital life?
Some people are more stupid than a cow.
Jim Iyke already has children with boys among them from a failed marriage which he chose to keep off the media dissection table.
He is very rich and comfortable.
Talking about "failed career" the idiot doesn't know because of his stupidity that Jim took a break from Nollywood.
Should he signal readiness for the screen, roles would fly in droves to his feet.
Jim Iyke was and still remains a Nollywood legend and so many directors would give anything to work with him, just like they would do if Omotola Jalade gives the greenlight.
In this life, most people who criticize others for no just cause are those who know that they can never get to the peak of success the other achieved.

exactly.too many uncouth people on social media space

Zonefree:
Jim Iyke is pained, obviously.

another troll defending his kind.why do people think bullying others is ok and when you are given a tàste of your medicine you begin to guilt trip.

Greenfaces:
they don't care about tongue lashing. Some are already even rich.

that means you don't have a caustic tongue.you need a caustic/acidic ruthless tongue to deal with this kids.trust me they'll care

easzypeaszy:
He no matter..I see it from the side of many young girls she has lead astray..u see it from the side of Money is everytin even if it wl cust the life of ....mk i leave am lik dat

just admit that you're just either paiñed, bitter, envious or an outright misogynist

MILLERMannn:
You get it. Infact as school is about to resume next week, I have been thinking whether to quit my job as a teacher or continue. This is because of what I am going to experience in the next three months from the spoilt kids.

yes I understand that teachers are not allowed to beat the stupidity out of them because of the abusive nature of some teachers (justifiably so) some teachers fir beat pikin make the pikin collapse however there are other ways to beat untrained/narcissistic kids without touching them.one one of which is tongue lashing them and letting them know daddy/mummy will not always be with them for the rest of their lives.trust me it will make them be careful of you however you will not be in their good books.those spoilt kids like only the teachers that allow them to disrespect them so they can be in the kids good books and they can recommend them to their parents for jobs, networks or money so choose your poison wisely

jahsharon:
Upcoming Oloshos especially the cursed youths of Nigeria, come and hear what your grandma Olosho who has mad billions from Oloshoism is saying ooooo

bitter leaf.she made money from music and owning a lingerie/Make up brand.she is not like your mom and sisters

easzypeaszy:
U nvr see anytin..yeye person

Pele dear.you go dey alright.shes a musician, billionaire,wife and mom,who you be?

At least you are not living or operating in a judgemental society that will label you so you owe no one explanations for your regrets.they are your personal baggages.learn from them and move on