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naija4life247:
After being dumped by the Yahoo Yahoo boy who impregnated her leading to the birth of her bastard children, and after being passed around by the members of Yoruba and Igbo Demons Association (YIDA) like a common intimacy gadget which she is, why won't she be drained hearing or speaking Nigeria's traditional languages.

yes she misyarned but the insults are not necessary

EleventhWeirdo:
I've always suspected that she's senseless. I have been right all along. The same Yoruba that fed and blossomed her acting career

she would have looked wiser if she kept her mouth shut.she used her left hand to point her papa house,to impress who exactly? No idea.

I trust some Yoruba actors and actresses to come for her

sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.

if your Mama a woman says she's not fine.imagine how she will look when she's pregnant or after 1 or 2 kids

Imagine how you will feel looking at her face when fvking her

I'm not saying beauty is the only standard to make a marriage work o but if you marry an unattractive woman there are chances that you might cheat on her with a more beautiful babe

Your mom sees what you can't see.i suggest you listen to her.women never finish.at least there are still good women even though the lousy Instagram baddies and disgraceful girls are the ones all over the place walking naked on and off social media

Honesty still pays.i remember how some criminally minded clowns on NL were mocking and insulting him calling him stupid and wishing it was them WHO saw the money and what they could have done with the money.now Na another song they'll be prrtentiously singing.awon alabosi oshi

franugo:
How old is the child first of all...
The parents teally should be glad that he/she was not taken to an enclave

12 years old

Namaster:
Rubbish dressed in jargons is still RUBBISH!

He trained his bandit-identifying ai with AI generated images and says he has a solution. MAD man!

The guy is trying to scam investors.

Some of this "tech bros" need to be jailed.

Na them.enemies of nigeria are at it.those who get an abnormal joy from the pain and destruction of families are at it again

If not Why are you angry someone is making an attempt to put an end to what the security agencies have been unable to do because you are sounding like those people gaining from violence and insurgency Abi are you part of the sponsors of those terrorists?

I hope the enemies and kleptomaniacs of nigeria camouflaging as leaders will not sabotage his efforts because of its clear some wicked and unreasonable political elites are making money from this insanity called banditry

UDOKABESTLUV:
What Is Really Happening Inside This LAGOS?

recklessness of lagosians, people who themselves need therapy, character development and mental evaluation birthing and raising children, lagosians living and functioning like they're barbarians with no respect, patience or consideration for each other, mental degeneration e.g eating and pooing in the same place in public etc too long to mention

hisgrace090:
They've always sees Mr IBU as ATM machine period.

that is one of the deadly mistakes you can make as a man or woman.takr care of your family,be good to them,love and respect them BUT DRAW CLEAR BOUNDARIES THAT NOBODY MUST CROSS.DONT LET ANYONE SEE YOU AS THEIR ATM CARD OR MEAL TICKET.MR IBU IS AN EXAMPLE.the moment you need their help that is when you will know they're only there for your money

And this is one of the reasons yorubas say eniafe lamo,aomo enitofeni.imagine one of his family members coming to ask him for money for iPhone on his sick bed when he was at the point of life and death

Meanwhile the only time you can know the true colour of your family as a man or woman is when you are sick,have lost a job, parents or you're having delay in child birth.their actions and words during those seasons of your life will tell you who they are and what exactly they feel about you

You can never know or see the true colours of your family members when the grass is green

Example is mohbad.he was surrounded by sociopathic family members and same with Mr IBU

Men chop your money,women chop your sweat.no let anyone je emaye.if you don't enjoy your labour and all you do is labor to satisfy family members so they don't complain or Insult you,if you die,the money you dey chop small small dey bite once once,them go dey rush am chop in a reckless way that even you sef cannot eat your money that way

Besides before that man you had a life, before that woman you were independently ok.if you die without enjoying the best of life because of family,you die for nothing because the level of narcissism and ingratitude of this generation dey fear me

Nice

EreluRoz:
I don't just like the guy and I don't know why, I don't feel he's holy as he's trying to portray.

I feel the same way too.dude looks like a f**k boy hiding under gospel music to portray him as a prude Christian

There's a Yoruba addage that says if you don't go to another person's farm,you will think your father's farm is the best

This girl is a psychopath.no regards for her father when he was sick and even after he died

meobizy:
Wetin kill the man?

family betrayal.from wife to daughter

There's a Yoruba addage that says a promiscuous married woman will either kill herself or her husband inevitably or eventually and from your story the tell tale signs of either of such possibility is glaring.you have married a narcissistic woman and if you don't want to die young you better chase her away.i am a woman but I will never support the irresponsibility and foolishness of some women

teeshet:
I'm looking a decent gal but am afraid of meeting a hookup gal

there's an addage that says likes attract.meaning you attract who you are.so if you want a decent last,be a decent man,be respectful, clean and be committed to your work.dont also give f*k boy vibes.f*CK boy vibes scares and turns off decent women away.

f*k boy vibes will only attract baddies and these female clowns always naked on social media but not homely girls.love will find you

Dyfynezz12:
The babe fine abeg
Brown skin beauty

the girl is basic abeg

Ori re tiburu lorun re.ori re otie wa pemo.so what of the people that the Fulani criminals have killed nko


It's the audacity of criminals in this era for me

MrBrownJay1:
lol, i know you do....

yes o, thats a true story, although very unfortunate. could you imagine giving your kidney to save a loved one who was dying, only for that person to turn around and stabbing you in the back like that?

that's really traumatizing for the man and the law too worked against him.however your location determines where you get justice.when you are in western countries the law tends to work in favour of women regardless of whether they are right or wrong but in 3rd world countries or African countries it's different.the laws and cultures work in favour of men regardless of whether they are wrong or not

Haaaaa

Rip

SyrusdeHansome:
Sex is also as important as anything u can think of. If it`s not important, Napoleon Hill wouldn`t have dedicated a whole chapter to write about The Mystery of Sex Transmutation. The issue is that u nairalanders are hypocrites. Ur offline character is different frm ur online way of life.

we know sex is a natural process of being a living thing but the over emphasis on sex has retarded many youths, turned them into sexual deviants that some people now see sex as an achievement or something worth boasting about on sm.you will be hearing rubbish like "I was the first woman to sleep with Buhar"i

Some will even be boasting about the number of body counts they have

MrBrownJay1:
you dis girl!!!! yes o, decades ago when i was young dumb and full of cuum, there was no Tinder/IG etc, undercover hookup babes were everywhere. for educational purposes (lol) i may been with a few.



yeah i remember the above story....when his wife supposedly cheated and wanted to divorce him, he sued her demanding his kidney back or the value of the kidney ($1.5m) as divorce settlement, and sadly he lost.... simply because he is a doctor and would have knon that in the US, giving an organ for money is forbidden, so technically the kidney had no monetary value. the funny part is that if you give engagement ring, and the marriage doesnt happen then you can ask for your ring back.

lol just teasing you

I know you are a decent man going by your opinions on nairaland on a lot of threads/issues.by the way the way that story you dey talk about Na film?

MrBrownJay1:
unless you give these lazy good for nothing useless undercover oloshoes an alternative, they wont stop!

you no dey patronise hook up girls? Swear say you never give money for sex?

Ejo egbenu buruku soun.always talking like a fool


Sex sex sex all over sm.are there not better and more inspiring topics to talk about than sex.sex has clouded this generation in Nigeria so much that they have no innnovation other than lousily talking about sex

Kay25:
5 years time bursen burner will know the truth.. everything in life na seasonal

exactly

Ekakamba:

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Someone must pave 'a way for you', no matter who/what you are.

the ingratitude and disrespect for pioneers in different fields is outstanding and I blame the older generation for tolerating the excesses and disrespect of the genz generation.anyway I don't expect too much from Burna because like many youths of his generation he's a narcissist and the earlier you identify and treat people like him the way you should do with a Narcissist,the better for everyone

Meanwhile I love his craft and stage personae but his attitude is a total turn off.he exudes traits of a typical f**k boy

Ejo egbenu buruku soun jare

We have been hearing this for a long time.what we want is results not ejo wewe

Marvieduke:
Ogun lo ma pa e, a tun fi eje re we,
Sincerely you are just a foolish individual, you are a disgrace to we Yoruba's as a nation and man kind and even to manhood... What a shame, because if you are not ashamed, I am, trading words with who is supposed to be a brother is enough but your foolishness won't make you see clearly that your response is highly senseless...

my blood is too poisonous for ogun to use baff

Na acid e go be for him Body

Alorire kope rara.you use 13 years to watch film,so for 13 years you didn't achieve anything Na film you use am Watch

Ago lomapa e

AntiChristian:
Okay!

Most of those coming for the 6 days burial would be the elites and not the less privileged!

Even those payments above will be enjoyed more by the elites! Only a paltry will trickle down to the masses!
Why not focus on the poor directly?

Just saying!

let the poor breev

Na poor them poor,them no kill anybody shey the employment opportunities or money the low income earners dey make dey vex you? At least there'll be a trickle down effect in the food chain when people spend money on burial ceremonies

AntiChristian:
Waste of funds!

1. Mortuary services: Millions!
2. Transport Services! Millions!
3. Burial Services: Millions!
4. Even Caskets: Millions!

All will turn to dust!

Modified!

What about doing a low-key burial and sending the funds to a particular orphanage or feeding prisoners, etc.!

As someone just said..is it my funds?

Una Don start.them no go pay mortuary staff salary? Transportation worker no get Family he go feed? Casket traders no get bills for house?