₦airaland Forum

osazsky:
E nor get waiting u want tell me this guy na cultist ..how him take gather this types of friends..show me ur friends I will tell u who u are..this guy is definitely not clean but nigerians don turn the matter to something else as if he is a good person..what are u doing with a gun...though wat the police did was wrong the guy na confirmed criminal who used music to hide his shaddy deals

Criminals or cultist like him are those fighting for him no sane person who has been robbed will cry, what are you doing with berreta pistol for God sake is it bible?

ceejay80s:
some work but too Stingy to assist their husbands ,
remembered what my $tupid father in-law told me when I complained her daughter doesn't assist me financially at home,
I wasn't broke, only took a loan from my work place which I must pay back,
my father in-law open mouth dey tell me say na my duty to provide not hers,
I replied him immediately, if I die, I will see if my dead body will provide, oga Ur daughter is to stingy

When he says support does it mean it's only you that owns the family? Anyway you answered him well , may we not marry our enemy. You can't love someone then watch him suffer alone when you have the means to make life easier for him.

Kaego4:
Okoroemeka, Please I intend marrying from Njoku Ndi Uno in arondizuogu the list they gave to me is over 1.1m as at today. A list where you will see 24 carton of Amstel and guniess malt, 4 carton of baby and me soap, carton of lux soap etc in marriage list. This is model day slivery. Except yours is different

Do you mean everything is 1.1m ? To me that's reasonable

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Dappy007:
It's the natural order
Men provide women submit
The Bible says if you cannot provide for your household you are worse than an infidel

You don't read proverbs 31: 10 down enough that's why you're saying all this things

pansophist:
………….

One of the advantages of getting married is that If you intend to raise Godly children, then marriage is the best system to achieve that.

I’ll give you more advantages.

Another one is companionship. The older you become, the more you realise that this life is truly a lonely place. Hedonism and money will not fill that void.

If you marry a good person, then that automatically makes life enjoyable.

If you intend to be wealthy, then being married helps you achieve that. With a partner holding it down for you in different areas while you pursue something else.

Please don’t underscore marriage, it’s bad.

Underscoring the importance of marriage only means one thing, and it’s that the underscorer didn’t come from a healthy home:


Where the work is, is to marry a genuinely good person. This is where most people make mistake hence they hate marriage.

That loneliness you're running away from is waiting for you at old age when your wife will be going for omogwo, Do you have an instrument to know a woman that'd make a good spouse or bad spouse?

Focusmind:
Please, if you are not ready to foot the family responsibilities, 100%, don't bother getting married. It is better you establish full control as a man and take full responsibility of raising your family, including bearing all the associated costs. Ignore whatever your wife or the would-be wife is earning and concentrate towards building your home. Your wife would see your hardwork, dedication and commitment to the well-being of the family. As your wife sees your efforts, you won't even need to ask her for any contribution before she starts, willingly doing lots without you asking for it or imposing the expenses on her.

You are there as the provider, protector and defender of your "territory ". As time progresses, willingly, without compulsion, your wife would start taking care of certain bills. Just pray that you continue to do well and make progress in your career and trade so that you continue to discharge your obligations to your wife and children. Your wife would always be moved to support you and this would earn you more respect and your dignity, intact.

If your respect depends on your ability to provide then what happens when you're not capable because life happens.

how much does it cost o write a will estimate will be appreciated thank you.

Kobojunkie:
How were your parents able to live comfortably? Tell us the truth!

Trading and farming on large scale so food wasn't a problem

my parents were not graduates but lived comfortably better find your own path in life and stop complaining.

givedemwotowoto:
A will becomes necessary once you start acquiring properties and starting a family. However, a Will is not enough especially for Nigerians who live abroad. Put your assets in a Trust so that when you go, your debt won’t be transferred to your family.

how can someone put his properties on TRUST please? though i dont have plans of having a family but i want to will my inherited properties to my Nephew

Vision101:
The crude is priced at international rate. So all over the world the price will increase even in producing countries except those subsiding.

The only benefit is that without local refining importers and marketers would have started hoarding and there would have been scarcity. This is gone in Nigeria.

Price is dropping again and we're going to see drop in fuel prices if they won't cheat us

cucumbar:
😁😁😁 Wahala for who Dey groom girl from small Pikin to marry.

Now dem don leave you.

Woman no go follow you if you no fit pay their bills.

Forget the talk about love.

I hope you have learnt your lesson.

YES lessons learnt but she was 19 and working with FG so i didnt groom her or you mean 19 cant give consent? or doesnt know when she agreed to marrry immediately after graduation?

Saviola86:
Sorry. For me all through 5yrs she spent in school I used that period to build my finances.

Same here bought 2 lands though I end up selling one so I could gather money for the rite only for the girl to disappoint me

Saviola86:
My situation right now

I am 32yrs old and I am faced with a strong pressure to go and marry.

The worse culprits are my secondary school classmates. I am always a topic of discussion, every now and then in our WhatsApp group, on Facebook, in social gatherings these classmates of mine throw all sorts of shades to me.

They think I am a sorry loser. They even think that I am single without a girlfriend.

I don't even get offended, I laugh it off and even joke with them about my being single. Sometimes I crack jokes about their marriages and how marriage is eating them up

The thing is that, I come from a family where nobody mounts any sorts of pressure on anybody. My mom doesn't even have that time, I have never heard my mom tell me to marry neither has any of my siblings.

My mom's own is that you live a decent life.

My classmates making jests of me, what they do not know is that I have a fiancée whom I have been with for 7yrs.

I do not rush marriage because I waited her to be done with school, a lady my parents are aware of, my siblings so love and while I also love her.... See ehhh when you see a good woman, wait for her, build her and wife her and that's what we've done for the past 7yrs but kept on low key and privacy.

While she schooled, I took time to build my finances and make meaningful investments. I am comfortable and doing well for myself.

October is my wedding and yet my classmates do not know that I am in a relationship, while they throw their mockery, I look at them and sigh.

They think being married alone is an achievement. I know how many of them run to my DM every now and then seeking help of 10k, 6k to buy food for the home. I know how many have called to beg for house rent but these same classmates come to general group to make mockery of singles. I look at them and marvel at their ignorance. Rushing into marriage without a stable finance but thinking you've arrived

I share almost same story, same 7yrs relationship and she's graduating by the end of the year so I did the consultation last year and wanted to pay the rite this year but she broke up cos I couldn't pay everything at once 😆. I'm down but I'd be back up

Samuelthemanli:
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DeLaRue:
Actually, the past dry season has been the first time in several years that there has not been any marked reduction in the power availability in my area compared to the preceeding rainy season.

That is a good improvement, though it may well be that some other people's experiences are different.

The challenges in electricity generation and distribution in this country are multi decade old. The country needs to spend tens of billions of dollars every year for the next 10 years or more.

Nigeria simply don't have that sort of money.

So whatever improvements there is in that sector is going to be inadequate.

If the political class cut 70% of their salaries and stop wasteful spending and stealing we'd realise enough money to fix power issue in 4years

Kwet:
Wide Range of tablets available.

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Soukiss:
Sometimes I wonder how I find myself in this con3 Nigeria
Hell on earth
U ppl pay areas and salary all together just to deserve works not to no the amount of their salaries
Sometimes I go just the think like after death there's nothing like judgment

It's terrible never seen it before, if you don't know your salary how do you tell if you've been overpaid or underpaid total evil strategy

COMPAQ:
Show us the math. A 5kva inverter with 5kwh lithium battery and solar will be about N4mln to N5mln

If his band A bill is 100k, it will take 4 years to break even.

My course mate gave me 3.9m quotation for 5KVA

Stakekay1:
If you depend on FG job you are subscribing to life poverty and slavery, except you are in a juice agency where things are happening.

I don't have the mind, looking for main hustle so fg can serve as side hustle

ogaemma:
Tears of Joy and achievement will be our portion this Year 2025.

Nobody use clear eye join police, na poverty cause am

Mikkyjay17:
Like I said, your payslip will best clear the uncertainty. Request for it.

Arrears of some kind were paid during the festive period.

I wish I could request for the pay slip though , I saw that money but didn't know it was the 25% arrears I've spent all sha. Thanks for replying

Mikkyjay17:
No federal government workers have been paid minimum wages. FG is yet to implement it on federal level. The only increment received was 25% and 35% implementation.

If you ever doubt this, request for your payslip.

I think it has been implemented, because 25% of my salary initially isn't upto that 45k that was added ps I'm on level 4

Is it in Nigeria or UK? Sir

lexy2014:
to who exactly?

they left the issue of rape and are punishing a supposed extortionist

the issue of rape will be forwarded to the court since he has been dismissed just read to understand

ObiaboAdoka:
The man is now in labour market due to wat konji has caused him.

Someone who's being prosecuted at the court of law because his immunity has been removed, he can't escape jail

Pat081:
hmmmmm not everything we hear on news are true sir import duty is remove on paper but they still pay it and some of our people too are wicker too just day before yesterday I forgt to buy eggs at 200 hundred naira as d woman was selling it someone just call her next thing the woman is now telling me that egg is now 250 naira not that this woman just gt it ooo she has it in shop since not everything is government ,our government are bad same to our people too

If she sales at old price how do you expect her to restock or you want her to go outa biz?

Quelme:
Just the other day we saw a video of a police man in uniform who was alleged to have rape a minor in the police station.

Going by that, all police men should just face the firing squad.

If your father is alleged to have commit an offence, does it mean you and your siblings should be charged for the offence?

anonymouxnash:
Please guys I need help in getting POCO X3 PRO.. Does anyone have it for sale?

Brand New or fairly used? If fairly used I have but it's not powering on again

Earthstorms:
The fingerprints of the kidnappers will be on the recovered guns and in the vehicle.

The police can identify the kidnappers easily if they want to work.

We need state police, local government police and city police. Let everyone have their own police and recruit the best people that can secure them.

Why not equipp the one you have properly before creating new one