Purvan:
Nlders with toxic parents, how long did you take you to realize the only solution is to cut contact?


For me , I had a desire to cut contact since my teens but I could never understand why and stayed in denial. I moved out in my early 20s and kept contact to minimum. It was only when I turned 30 that I had the courage to examine the past and accept that my parents used me as a punching bag for their personal failures in life.

Now I'm working on fixing it because I understand that they will not be around forever and I don't want to end our relationship on a bad note.

My advice is that you talk with them about it and explain how it harmed you. They might understand

saliubello:
south west states only

ajoyeleke:
Still needed in large quantity

TheRealProphet:
Genesis 1 vs 1: Ye Men, Fear Women more than Ye Fear Poverty and Ye Shall Live Long.

E get why Bible talk like dat...

Men, make una use una head...Vagina ppl are dangerous.

PAGAN9JA:
The Lord's Prayer

Our father
Who hides in heaven
Useless is thy name
Thy kingdom is fake
Thy will be enslaved on earth as they are in their minds
Keep Giving us this daily joke
And forgive robots
And those who robotise against us You need Christ and may God forgive you for your ignorant. Confess and forsake your sins so as to be at peace with God and finally make that great Heaven.
Deliver us from you
For thy is the bible which causes brain cancer
Forever and ever.. Aaah man

Vexedkid:
At the end of the day, we're all sinners and I ain't gonna judge someone for sinning in a different way. As long as you're not hurting another person I have nothing against you. I just puff my AZ and mind my business.

ggirl4real:


"Once saved, always saved"

Go ahead and live your life

Even if you sin, you have been saved already so you will still make heaven

Henrymorre:
Upwork is stingy, me sef I hate them for that. But since I started making money, I now subscribe to their monthly plan and get 70 connect and other premium stuffs.
I'll help out.
In every job there is a hire rate, don't apply for jobs less that 70 percent higher rate.

Full your portfolio with your work. I mean invest I. Your work and make it standout..

Look for jobs from this country's they have higher chance to employ you
Dubai, India, Philippines. Most country's that are Muslim. Stop looking for Canada and America

Verify your account to get that blue mark of confidence to any client

I'll continue when people comment..
I will be typing in red from now to stand out

ndindiatu:
I dey crase to move to Nigeria

JewelStone:
I'm not gonna lie...I miss Nigeria sometimes which makes me flirt with the idea of splitting my time there when my kids are older. I miss my family, my friends and the sense of community.

But then I remember lack of internet and electricity, horrific healthcare system, bad roads, bigotry, lack of value for human life, insecurity, police brutality, immense corruption, tribalism, crumbling or non-existent economy and a million other horrible things. This quickly resets my mind.

My solution which I'm currently working on is to bring my sisters and my best friend over to live in Sydney with me and make good living for themselves. Then I won't have any business with Nigeria anymore except to visit my parents every two years.

So to answer your question: no, nein, never!!!

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

Rozz:
The primary responsibility of an envagelist is to preach God's words, telling people simply and clearly what God says about his messengers and what He has done for us all. It is the duty of an envangelist to deliver God's message and be faithful to every word.

However it is a difficult task for single ladies who have passion for evangelism. Most of the opposite sex do not really have interest in your message but romance and believe me some can go to any length for this.

No doubt I have passion for evangelism but my pastor has advised me against it as it brings everything controversial for all the moves I have made towards it, even online is not left out.

Pastors in the house, do you think I should give up this passion? Am I going against God's passion in me if I stop?

CAPSLOCKED:
YES.
IT'S THE ONLY TIME OF THE DAY WHEN GOD IS LESS BUSY AND AVAILABLE TO LISTEN TO YOUR PRAYERS AND WHININGS, AND HOW YOU TRY TO CONVINCE THE MOST-HIGH MOST-WISE GOD TO ABANDON HIS DIVINE PLANS AND MAKE ROOM FOR YOUR PERSONAL WISHES AND DEMANDS.

richidinho:


The vegetable is no where to be found

His vice, Abba Kyari is nowhere to be found

Our military are busy killing civilians in Warri

Chad is a tiny country, smaller than Imo state in Nigeria

Nigeria millitary is 10x bigger than chad's in size

dukeprince50:
RIP, I wonder what lies after this life?
I really find it hard to believe there is hell and heaven.
I wan know but there is one way to find out and that is a way I didn't want to choose right now

GamalNasser:
Some sickness na only better alert fit cure am ..Just one visit from Governors wife and this man is up and moving again