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Crime / Re: Police ‘Arrest’ Cow Meant For Cult Day Celebration In Osun (pic) by Sandralight(f): 8:34am On Jul 09, 2023
They didn't arrest the Cow na, they took for evidence
Romance / Re: Why Ladies No Dey Give Fake Numbers Again? by Sandralight(f): 11:22pm On Jul 08, 2023
Offpointng:


I'm telling you fact, real fact. My elder sister is in this shoe to. got a good job and doing well for herself with a clean ride but no guy is coming at 28. Yes she's showing less concern atm but she can't tell me at her closet the matter no dey touch her oft time. two of neighbors here to living fine in a nice apartment but no Boy friend let alone Fiance and they are of age

It's crazy out there on you guys mehn
Ok if you elder sister is 28 that means you will be between 22 -26 age old.
Wow so this are the people talking about when a woman should get married lol.
You just reminded me of my cousin who is 18 and was telling me how his friend is dating an old lady, only for me to find out that his friend was dating a 24 years old lady.
My point is when someone is still young, someone older seems ancient to them, trust me a woman doesn't turn to an hag when she hit 30 or even 35, try to open your eyes aging doesn't work like that.

Also try to focus on yourself and stop worrying about when your Sister or other aunties around you will get married, marriage is not a Certificate to happiness.

I am not going to psychoanalyse you but if I did I could probably say, you have issues with women, maybe a heartbreak or something and you have a profound dislike of women, you try to console yourself that most girls are wasting their youth and once they get to a certain age nobody will want them anymore.
That you trying to give yourself hope that, that your ex girlfriend will regret leaving you, most of your past posts is about bashing women of been been old and unmarried, anyway I hope you grow out of this.

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Travel / Re: Nigerian Pilgrim Returns $80,000 To Owner In Saudi by Sandralight(f): 10:45pm On Jul 08, 2023
It's good to be good
Romance / Re: Why Ladies No Dey Give Fake Numbers Again? by Sandralight(f): 10:44pm On Jul 08, 2023
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Broo...E don dey red for these girls. where I served, we were 9 guys and 21 girls and when I did my research, it'll shock you to know just 3 out of 21 of them were in a serious relationship. and the youngest of em singles was 25

The 31yrs old among them told me any guy wey ask her out now is an immediate Yes, tho twas said outta a place of Emotion and I couldn't laugh so it doesn't look like I'm mocking her but guy I pited her but the words were still funny to me
You guys always have ladies that are always desperate lol please change your environment

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Romance / Re: Why Ladies No Dey Give Fake Numbers Again? by Sandralight(f): 10:40pm On Jul 08, 2023
They now block you instead or let you call and call until you are tired

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Romance / Re: Single and frustrated women everywhere!!!! 35+ by Sandralight(f): 10:32pm On Jul 08, 2023
emmancipated:


I guess these are kids, because I don't understand why someone being single is a source of concern to them. Like, are you going to be in the marriage with them if they eventually marry?

What do you stand to gain because they are married.

Does it make your life better in anyway?

Some threads for this forum dey give me headache sometimes, I swear.
I like this your answer, like any time I enter the Romance section, most of the topics are about women getting married or single women above 30 that isn't married or they will call them evening newspapers.

The question I always wonder is what is their problem? How is a woman not getting married their concern, like will it add any thing to their life or bank account.
Why can't people mind their business, drink water and stay in their lane, life no suppose hard like this.

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Jokes Etc / Re: Bachelors, Come And Tell Us Your Rank Here by Sandralight(f): 4:43pm On Jul 07, 2023
Men from 30 upwards should hurry up and get married o because time is not on their side anymore smiley

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Religion / Re: 200-Hour PraiseWorship-A-Thon: Tobi Kufeji Attempts To Break Guinness World Reco by Sandralight(f): 11:25am On Jul 07, 2023
One thing I have seen so far from many Nigerians is the Copy Copy attitude, they are not innovative at all.

That is why when some people are making money from a particular thing, they dont like announcing it because if they do, everybody and their mothers will start doing it.

In the place where I live, there is about 8 provision stores there and the stores are so close to each other, so one of the store owner packed out of the lane and the store was empty, I seriously expected anyone that took the store to sell something different but guess what last week something took the store and she was still selling Provisions, like the others selling provisions dont sell like that because the competition is too much and our lane is filled with working class people that don't really stay at home expect weekends so they dont really have customers but still someone is still starting a provision store there.
I fear Nigerians

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Crime / Re: Kwara Fraudster Swapped Old Man’s ATM Card, Withdraws ₦‎1.8 Million by Sandralight(f): 7:18pm On Jul 06, 2023
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Romance / Re: Advice by Sandralight(f): 2:25pm On Jul 06, 2023
What is there to advice again, the husband obviously dont love her or even respect her, she should start planning her life because that marriage is over
Romance / Re: Why A Woman Should Not Wait Too Long To Marry Or Settle Down? by Sandralight(f): 1:40pm On Jul 06, 2023
braine:


Anty quickly insert disclaimer. grin

But in the bid of doing that, you are further stigmatizing women above 30.

Who cares if you are 30 or 35? What should people in that age range do now? Anyone who has any problem with a woman of any age can go blazes.
I tire o like they wont get to that age too even in this modern age there are people still scared to grow old, if you are a lady that is 35 and single, will you kill yourself because of what some guy in internet is going to say lol
Abeg make everybody live their life with what pleases them

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Nairaland / General / Re: Investing In 5 People With N4500! No Greater Impact Than Empowering Others by Sandralight(f): 5:17pm On Jul 05, 2023
onlybyhisgrace:
Crystallon, Sandralight, DapFroser, delugadou, qwertyboss, please send me an email via your profile to be able to verify moniker. Thank you
I have done it Sir
Romance / Re: Why A Woman Should Not Wait Too Long To Marry Or Settle Down? by Sandralight(f): 5:15pm On Jul 04, 2023
Offpointng:


Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids illness that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec
Ok
Romance / Re: Why A Woman Should Not Wait Too Long To Marry Or Settle Down? by Sandralight(f): 4:52pm On Jul 04, 2023
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

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Nairaland / General / Re: Investing In 5 People With N4500! No Greater Impact Than Empowering Others by Sandralight(f): 4:02pm On Jul 04, 2023
I am interested Sir
Romance / Re: Which One Describes Your Mood Right Now? by Sandralight(f): 3:30pm On Jul 04, 2023
Mine is I
Romance / Re: Furniture Prices by Sandralight(f): 3:01pm On Jul 04, 2023
Theast pic looks photoshop.
What are the prizes of them
Health / Re: How My Good Deeds Got Rewarded Almost 2 Years Later by Sandralight(f): 1:25pm On Jul 03, 2023
It's good to be good, if you are a bad person I am sure you could have been scared why those men were calling you.
One thing I have learned in life is that hood deeds always bring reward, it might not happen immediately but it will surely happen when you least expect it, so keep been a good person because it will always pay.

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Romance / Re: What Do Men Benefit From Marriage by Sandralight(f): 9:53am On Jul 03, 2023
Tunde835:
When women get married they get someone who provides for them, they have kids that grow up to provide also till their old age. When a man is married he only toils, sacrifices until when the day comes to get paid all the love and attention is diverted to the mother that's why men die earlier. Society doesn't care about men. So my question is why would a man get married?

Most Men dont bond with their Children, that's why the children give more love to their mothers than fathers, and some Nigeria men are the worst, you will see in America where when the woman gives birth, the man will help in feeding and taking care of the baby but in Nigeria everything is left for the woman, even to change diaper the man cannot do it, they just think it's just to provide money but money is not love and affection.
The children grow up been more comfortable with their mothers even when the fathers comes home, all they do is Scold and treat the children like they are in a military camp "Have you done your assignment" " have you done this" " have you done that" the children can't even laugh with their dad or talk with their dad.
The child upbringing is left with the mothers so when the child grow up, he or she naturally focused more on the mother than the father because that who he loves more.
Fathers should remember that for love to be strong, it should be nurtured, just because you gave birth to the children doesn't mean they will love you like that if you dont nurtured the love.

There was one man that lost his wife and they had 2 little girls, one was 9 the other was 7, the man was working a very flexible job but still the man pack the children to stay with his dead wife siblings because he couldn't take care of his own children, so tell me if tomorrow the children are not close to their father, people will say Men dont get love and they are only money making machines

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Religion / Re: How To Activate Your Faith To Get What You Need by Sandralight(f): 1:30pm On Jul 02, 2023
I like this part " With God we can achieve all things, nothing is impossible" Amen to this.
I thank you Lord for today
Romance / Re: *** My Experience Today *** by Sandralight(f): 8:27pm On Jul 01, 2023
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Phones / Re: Twitter Limits The Number Of Posts Users Can Read Per Day by Sandralight(f): 7:13pm On Jul 01, 2023
I am so tired of Twitter, Elon is trying to force us to pay for Twitter Blue which is not happening

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Romance / Re: I Just Got Served Breakfast by Sandralight(f): 6:42pm On Jul 01, 2023
Sorry, take heart
Romance / Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Sandralight(f): 5:36pm On Jul 01, 2023
Sirchiboy:
There was this guy back then In school.
He hardly come to school but one of the bigger boys in school.
I was the most brilliant boy in my department.
Him and his boys normally come to me during exam time so I can tell them answers.
I will meet this guy to tell me how I will be making money like him but he will tell me later.
Do you know after the final exam.
This guy and his friends blocked me and didn't talk to me again.
The sensible people that I would have followed in school, I didn't follow them again.
I was foolishly following those animals thinking they will teach me how to fish but I ended up being used.
To be honest both of you played each other lol, you were only helping him so you could get his ideas on making money while he was using you to pass his exams.
Sometimes people think they are smart but they dont know the person they are trying to deceive is smarter

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Romance / Re: Can Money Buy Happiness by Sandralight(f): 4:51pm On Jul 01, 2023
Thugnificent:
My dear, Riches alone can't bring you true happiness. It's because you most likely in Nigeria that's why you think like this. If you were abroad your thinking will change. Do you think all the millionaires and billionaires in this world are happy? You never jam depression which doesn't discriminate whether you are rich or poor. When you have God and Jesus nothing else matters reason Jesus said, seek first the kingdom of God and every other thing will be added. True happiness comes from God whether rich or poor.
I think we are diverting from the issue, of course God is the one that bring true happiness.
What I am simply trying to say is that money brings happiness, it makes you content, someone with money can afford all the comfort life have to offer unlike if you are poor.
Like I said in my first writeup "Money may not bring happiness but poverty never brings anything"
It is always better to be rich than poor and one thing you should know is everyone are not the same, many people get happiness from having a good life, from been rich just because some rich people get depressed doesn't change the fact that poor people get depressed too.

Even many Churches nowadays preach prosperity, praying their members get money because once you are rich life is easier to live, been truly focused on God is easier.
I have many things I would to say but let's just leave it like that, you are taking this to a religious level and I dont think I am ready for that
Romance / Re: Can Money Buy Happiness by Sandralight(f): 4:21pm On Jul 01, 2023
Thugnificent:
Salvation
Both the rich and the poor all fight for salvation, I know people are going to go with the rich man poor man story in the bible in which the poor man went to heaven and the rich man went to hell.
Rich men are also Christian too and they serve God too.
Tell me from this example of which one of this 2 persons is going to hell
One is rich, have money, dont have much bother in his life and serve God will all his heart
And the other is frustrated poor, poverty make him to steal, deceive and lie just to afford the basic necessity.
So who is going to hell.
Now I am not saying the poor will go to hell, I am just saying the devil can easily manipulate the poor all in the bid for money than the rich.
So basically everyone fights for Salvation but the fight is easier when you are rich because you wont be tempted to sell your soul because of peanuts like Esua sold his birth right because of porridge
Lack of money leads to a lot of sin
Romance / Re: Can Money Buy Happiness by Sandralight(f): 4:06pm On Jul 01, 2023
vincenteger:
Money can only give you comfort but not happiness.

Money is a human craving that never ends.
So what's your definition of happiness??
Like tell what will make you happy in this world, you can list 3 things because you guys keep talking about "comfort, comfort" then tell me what makes you happy

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