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Romance / Re: Who is the problem: Is it me or them? by Sandralight(f): 10:52am On Mar 13
I hardly dislike someone but from my few interactions with you, I can confidently say I don't like you at all and you are someone I don't even know.

Even this your thread I didn't want to click but I guess curiosity got the best of me.

I think you are the problem and you should try and change, your personality sucks.
You think this people are trying to make you jealous, big Fat NO, they are trying to get rid of you, they have seen your personality and they don't want you around them so they look for ways to get rid of you.

You might pretend that the girls wanted to make you jealous because of your ego but guys don't play that game, your coworker wanted to cut the friendship off, the same with your former roommate.
So stop been delusional and work on yourself, you are not that special for many people in your life to make you jealous lol
Celebrities / Re: Giveaway For Nairalanders by Sandralight(f): 10:08pm On Mar 08
superintendents:
embarassed
thanks

Oga I know you are using your alt dundalk to gamble, you know it's against the rules of the trust, we will visit this very soon
Family / Re: After 18 Years In America, A Guy Gifted His Friend 12 Dollars And Hes Not Happy by Sandralight(f): 10:06pm On Mar 08
pussyeater:

Selection Complete!
If you didn’t get picked up this time, your time will come. God bless everyone that dropped their number.
Please check your account respectively to confirm receipt.
Lol didn't you noticed that the Ibrahim and Abdullahi are the same person, I mean the names are basically the same, it's just that it was interchange in the 2 bank account but they are one person.

I couldn't believe you couldn't notice and someone took 2 portion of a giveaway which isn't fair

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Family / Re: After 18 Years In America, A Guy Gifted His Friend 12 Dollars And Hes Not Happy by Sandralight(f): 10:06pm On Mar 08
[quote author=pussyeater post=128842139][/quote]

Lol didn't you noticed that the Ibrahim and Abdullahi are the same person, I mean the names are basically the same, it's just that it was interchange in the 2 bank account but they are one person.

I couldn't believe you couldn't notice and someone took 2 portion of a giveaway which isn't fair
Romance / Re: So Many Emotionally Damaged Women Out There. by Sandralight(f): 12:29am On Mar 05
toujurs:
the bitter, one's whose tie has past, are the ones saying marriage isn't an achievement and not for everyone. grin.

But deep they need it badly. grin

The problem with your guys is you are very obsessed with women and when they will get married, it's really fascinate me how men always have age bracket of when women should get married, you see them saying women in their 30s are too old to get married, it like they want the women to feel bad so badly about not getting married when the obvious Truth is men are more lonely than women, they desperately need this companion than women.

You feel if a woman hits 30s she should be submissive because you have created a idea in your head that they are "expired" your idea been fueled by Redhill movement and alpha males but still this women in their 30s still don't want you and they still have a high self esteem and don't want to settle, so you get angry because how could a woman in her 30s still having choice, she is suppose to see you as a god that want to save her right lol

Don't worry you will he fine someday, FYI the world is evolving, get with the program because men loneliness is increasing by the day

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Family / Re: Is Is True That If A Husband Beats His Wife Regularly Then It's Her Fault. by Sandralight(f): 12:05am On Mar 05
RevenuesBoost:
Here was my reply :


You're right in a way.

But not in all cases.

Research has shown that, a man who grew up and watched his father beating up his mother several times, has the likelihood of doing same.

Even when he has succeeded in controlling his temper for a while, will definitely raise his hand on her someday with the thought, "my Dad was right in beating my mum, women are actually very stubborn, so you just have to beat them to put sense into their head" which is very wrong.

This is the number one reason men beat up their wives.

They forget that while growing up, they get into misunderstandings with their siblings, friends, etc. Most times it resulted into serious fights.

My point is, if the man and the woman have the understanding that no two grown up adults can live in one roof without any misunderstanding, then they will learn to always accept their faults apologize to each other and be willing to forgive each other 77x7 times every day.

So the man should make up his mind that no matter the misunderstanding they'll have in the future, the thought of raising up his hands on her should be erased.

For women that are unlucky to get married to woman beaters, silence is the key.
Don't say a word, don't walk away from him. Just pretend you're deaf and dumb.
It's called silent treatment, he'll realize he was wrong.
Words from two angry people , stir up fights, the solution is that one person must remain quiet and the fight will never happen.

Another solution is, teaching your male children that no matter what their sisters or female friends do to them, they should always report it to an elderly person and not fight them.
They should know the male bones are built stronger than that of the female, so they should rather pamper than beat women.

Any man that beat a woman is a beast, can the man do the same with his boss if the boss insults him or his fellow man, the reason a man beat a woman is because he sees she is weaker than him.

You said silence like that has ever stopped domestic abuse, a woman beater will always be a woman beater, if a man get married to a stubborn woman, then the woman would have probably be showing the signs, he should get a divorce, life is not that complicated, you can't be with a partner that doesn't give you peace of mind, that is a better option than beating someone is who definitely weaker than you and mind you many domestic violence cases isn't usually the woman fault.
Majority of the fault is from the men, check the % of women that have been killed by their partners, you should be advising any woman that is been abuse to leave the relationship than telling her to be quiet like that is going to solve the problem.

You are probably a guy behind this account anyway so I won't waste time saying too much
Romance / Re: Can Any One Help To Reconnect Me With This Friend We Lost Contact Since 1987 by Sandralight(f): 11:51pm On Mar 04
Is this some kind of love story. You are getting old and remembering old times 🥰
She is very beautiful, I hope you get to meet her
Family / Re: **** by Sandralight(f): 11:19pm On Mar 04
PastorOlokonla:


Nor vex bros, I will take to your advice next time. Which 80k are you talking about?. I honestly cant remember!

Lol the 80k you gave to Jewessgratitud.. for bag of rice, after she wrote a thread thinking her benefactor. A lot of people trace the money to you and posted it in the thread, you might notice that some even "mention" you asking for help.

So you see, you are kind of infamous, so for your experiment, everybody knows you were playing.

Anyway Goodluck on the next experiment
Family / Re: **** by Sandralight(f): 11:07pm On Mar 04
PastorOlokonla:


Thank you. I trully appreciate.

Congrats,

you are the first winner, send your account number and first thing tomorrow, you will receive a good amount in your account.

Thank you once again for your kind gestures. I was bored and only conducting a social experiments.

Lol everybody and their mother know you were trolling, when you sent 80k to jewe, all nairaland begging associates knew about you, I hardly visit nairaland and I still saw that post thanking you for the 80k, so that was why many were saying you should drop your account number.

My suggestion is next time you want to do a social experiment, try and use a new account and see whether anyone will offer any help, trust me, they won't.
The people saying send you account number, check their previous posts and non of them have ever helped anyone

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Romance / Re: I’m That Girlfriend That Can Never Overlook My Man’s Dirty Clothes - Lady Rants by Sandralight(f): 5:55pm On Mar 01
Lol I know all those tweets will be taken out of context.

There is a Twitter handle in Twitter asking ladies to tweet like "women desperate for marriage and will do anything" So many ladies including this tweet because I saw it in the quotes were been sarcastic and tweeting like desperate women looking for marriage.

This tweet is sarcastic and in no way true because some men are using it to bash women now

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Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by Sandralight(f): 6:31pm On Nov 24, 2023
jeromestarks:

I will slap you.

Are you angry?, did I hurt your feelings
Sorry My child, please go and drink some water
Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by Sandralight(f): 6:21pm On Nov 24, 2023
jeromestarks:

My child, it's hard to find love, especially when you're thinking with your pvssy. But come on, you have to marry.

Your parents gave birth to you, don't you want to give birth to someone else?

Do you just want to be fvcked and mounted by many diicks?
My infant, try and mind your business and stop thinking upside down 🙃
Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by Sandralight(f): 6:05pm On Nov 24, 2023
Number 3
Education / Re: Ayo Ojediran, OAU Lecturer, Slumps, Dies In His Office by Sandralight(f): 8:19pm On Nov 15, 2023
So sad, we should be checking our health regularly and try to reduce stress

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Live In A 3 Bedroom Flat! by Sandralight(f): 11:14pm On Nov 13, 2023
Gbadugbakun:
What kind of poverty mentality thinking is this. angry

This just made me laugh, like what sort of advice is this 🤣🤣🤣

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Family / Re: My Mom Doesn't Appreciate Me. How Do I Handle This? by Sandralight(f): 7:50pm On Sep 21, 2023
There are some mothers like that, that is one of the reason I will always appreciate my Mum ( May her soul rest in peace)

I remembered when I went to write one scholarship exam like that, I just finished primary school and the scholarship was hosted by an oil company in our area.

Their plan was to collect just 6 people and train them for the six years in secondary school, they will pay for everything.

So I went for the exam and because then I was used to questions only written on one side of the exam question, I answered the front page which was 20 questions, my mind didn't go to look at the back of the question paper.
I even thought I was done and I was wondering why many of the students were still answering the questions.

Long story short, I rested my head until the supervisor said it was 5 min to go then I saw some of the kids checking the back of the question, I quickly check the question paper and I realized that there was more questions there and the questions were 50 in total.

I wanted to cry, I Sha did my best and answer up to 30 before they took my answer paper.
I came in 7th, I cried and cried because I know if I had answered all the questions I will be in the top 6

When I got home, my mum saw my face and hug me, even after I told her everything and my mistake, she never used it against me even when I made her angry.
She was a very kind soul 😔

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Romance / Re: Do Guys Still Marry Beautiful Illiterate Girls by Sandralight(f): 3:19pm On Sep 19, 2023
I think in this world of social media, if a girl can read and write, she can learn a lot of things online.
School is not the only way to get educated.

If she is curious, she can read a lot of books unless the girl don't want to bother.

I also think there are guys that refer these kind of women, everyone with what they like

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Politics / Re: Bandits Displace Seven Villages In Kebbi, Sokoto States by Sandralight(f): 2:43pm On Sep 19, 2023
Why do this thing keep happening in Nigeria, like Nigeria Govt like giving medicine after death, can't they find solutions to this problem.

Even in my state there are fulami herdsman there, I love in the deep South and still they are there, there is one road you can't pass in my State because the herdsman kill and kidnap people there and everybody knows but still now nothing is been done about them.

They even killed 3 people last week, living in Nigeria is tough

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Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by Sandralight(f): 4:00pm On Sep 15, 2023
I heard someone said Nigerians can't adopt because they don't know how to love someone else child and that thought have always stayed with me.

I don't know why it happens but I have seen so many cases of people mistreating children just because they didn't give birth to them, some are even their blood relative kids.

This is really sad 😔

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Crime / Re: Jennifer Dan Found Dead With Ripped Stomach In Ikotun Hotel by Sandralight(f): 12:15pm On Sep 15, 2023
Rayban25:


You cant read. Read my comment again and see if I defended the man.
You didn't say anything about the man, so you can't use that excuse.
If you had taken the time you use to bash the woman to condemn the man than won't you be a better person? Instead you focused on the victim whose sin might be promiscuity ( even tho we don't know the circumstance of her going to meet the man in a hotel)

But I guess been a murderer is okay and been promiscuous is a death sentence

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Crime / Re: Jennifer Dan Found Dead With Ripped Stomach In Ikotun Hotel by Sandralight(f): 12:03pm On Sep 15, 2023
Rayban25:
Some girls will still come here and put all blame on the man. In as much as the man is evil, why will you as a lady going to lodge with someone that is not your husband and seeing men carelessly?

This is why whenever I hear a certain lady is missing I just skip because una no dey hear word.
Yes let's blame the victim instead of the evil man.
As usual women are the ones at fault

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Said We Must Have A House Before Getting Married by Sandralight(f): 8:32pm On Sep 12, 2023
Greattestman:
Run if you are wise... she's there to covet your money. She will deceive and when you begin the project she will leave you alone in it saying she has no money. And after you build the house, she will bring her ex to your matrimonial bed.
Be wise!!!
Lol like how did your mind come up this, this is funny I swear
Crime / Re: Ibadan People Steal Rice From A Bus (Video, Photos) by Sandralight(f): 5:39pm On Sep 12, 2023
What did I just watched cry

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Politics / Re: No Cause For Alarm, I Wasn't Sacked — LP Thaddeus Reacts To Tribunal Judgement by Sandralight(f): 5:21pm On Sep 12, 2023
That is really good, when I heard the news I just lost faith in everything Nigeria, like the common man no longer have a voice
Romance / Re: Ten Indicators Of Low Self-esteem by Sandralight(f): 10:51am On Sep 12, 2023
Ok
Romance / Re: Let's Play A Game: Guess The Real Name Of The Person Above You by Sandralight(f): 12:04am On Sep 12, 2023
Clara
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need A Job by Sandralight(f): 10:53am On Sep 11, 2023
marlenewa:
sandralight, you ask me to mention you.
Ok I have seen it
Religion / Re: Word On Sunday Thread Removed! by Sandralight(f): 3:40pm On Sep 10, 2023
DDota:

Ok, sis. I'm sorry if I accused you wrongly since the thread is deleted anyway.I will take down my accusations but note to always get your evidence before you accuse people.
It pays in the long run so as to defend yourself in the case of Flatti.re.
Happy Sunday
No problem, my mind didn't go to screenshot and I guess that was my waterloo

Have a nice day
Religion / Re: Word On Sunday Thread Removed! by Sandralight(f): 3:29pm On Sep 10, 2023
DDota:

No sis, don't let drag it again. You have not started using your Sandralight account on Rontolo thread by then.
Anyway,no problem
The thread have been deleted but I only use my Ecobank on my Sandralight account.

I was credited that day, it was the same with the day baliqee,, ask me for something

Since she has once sent money to me, I assume she must Sandralight and Rosaline5000 were the same and of course she is right.
It will be weird saying I didn't receive any blessing just because it was not my Rosaline5000 moniker that received it, that is basically lying and one thing I am not is a liar

Picture removed
Religion / Re: Word On Sunday Thread Removed! by Sandralight(f): 3:18pm On Sep 10, 2023
DDota:

Happy Sunday, just trying to advise you since they said you are a mod on that platform. The boy/girl may be fishy truly as I don't also believe her story but she isn't Superintendents.
On your Rosaline5000, which account did you use tocollect from Rontolo on the deleted thread that Baliqeez was begging for help here except you want to tell me that you have another account dropped on that day.

I even thought you meant the 2k, that post was the first time I got lucky with Sandralight and since balique have sent money to me before, I assume he must have known Sandralight and Rosaline5000 were the same, since it was the same account number
And I did got money that day even tho it was my Sandralight account, so there was no point lying
Religion / Re: Word On Sunday Thread Removed! by Sandralight(f): 3:14pm On Sep 10, 2023
Ok
Religion / Re: Word On Sunday Thread Removed! by Sandralight(f): 3:00pm On Sep 10, 2023
Okk

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