Chimarto:

The said crush is inactive on social networks 😭

Sorry if it was meant to be, you will connect with her

People still dey get Crush this Tinubu era, anyway be a man and send her a Dm and ask for her number

Maybe it's Night guards, when I was staying in Benin Night guard will be hitting metals and making noise to drive away any Theif and to announce they are around for any wannable thief

Everybody victim blaming the OP but did she commit a crime even if she was Right handed, does the BF mother have the right to slap her
The BF mother could have corrected her and tell her she didn't like her using left hand to give her things but choose to disrespect her because she is dating her Son.
What many Nigeria elders dont know is Respect is reciprocal, many elders expect the youth to worship them just because they came out of the womb early and they feel entitled to talk and treat someone younger then them badly because they are older.

I am sure the Bf will tell the OP to lockup and even relatives will tell the OP to leave the issue alone because the woman is older, some will even tell the OP to apologise to the BF mother, they dont know what they are doing is affecting the OP.

Anyway I hope we learn to respect each other regardless of age, if I enter a place I greet everyone, I dont look at their faces to see whether I am older before doing the bare minimum.

Happy birthday

This is funny so the students will remain with him during those hours

Ok is this story some kind of lesson because nobody knows tomorrow the Chiyenre might ends up getting married to someone who is X10 better than you.

Just face your marriage and stop looking into her life like you are still obsessed with her even tho you are married.

If u don't move on, when she eventually get married to someone way better than you, you will surely become depressed because all i am seeing from your writeup is you feeling you have WON over her because she hurt you but life dont work like that just because someone hurts you doesn't mean she won't live a good life, you wishing her bad might even make God to bless her more.
The ultimate revenge is living a good live and moving on

It's obvious you are a very ambitious person and your girlfriend is not.
She is not bad, not everyone is goal driven and some ladies grow up with the mindset that the man should provide all their needs and no matter what you do, you can't change that.
From my perspective I think your girlfriend will hardly change, you will keep pushing and pushing until you are tired and even if she does something now once she start giving birth she might use that as an excuse to stop doing any work so if you want to be with her just know you might take 100% of the responsibility and if that's not to your liking you can break up now.

Ask yourself whether you like her enough to take care of all her responsibilities or you just like her because from your post she is a virgin and she loves you.

Congratulations

Really lol

For me personally I prefer you stay in Nigeria and invest, if that bull run works out, you can start a business and travel abroad for vacations.
When you make bunch of money, you can still relocate and if it didn't work out you can come back to Nigeria and continue your businesses.

The honest truth is Nigeria is not really a safe country if you dont have investments you can just Japa but if you are doing well here dont take the risk.

Go for Checkup at the hospital

Space booked

Number1benue:



And you think money is the most important thing you collect from the opposite sex.



What is seek is the most important aspect of the mans life............only a jobless and non prospecting man would agree to waste his time with you

Why are you so unnecessarily angry.
Did I hurt you, sorry I didn't mean to.
I know you are angry with girls for breaking your heart and not finding you worthy to love but my darling it's not that deep

Number1benue:



And you think money is the most important thing you collect from the opposite sex.



What is seek is the most important aspect of the mans life............only a jobless and non prospecting man would agree to waste his time with you

Why are you so unnecessarily angry.
Did I hurt you, sorry I didn't mean to.
I know you are angry with girls for breaking your heart and not finding you worthy to love but my darling it's not that deep ciao

EmptyGarden:

Someone that would give without taking ... In other words - a mugu.

there will be no money involved jeez.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What do you mean by none serious boyfriend tho?

just chatting and talking online with no interest of meeting in real life and just having fun with no possibility of falling in love.

.....

Ok

Takeit2017:
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WTH

Bank can give but piggyvest wont give out in their safelock.
I am so broke

I remembered one Nigeria movie I watch when I was small, so it's goes like this

Kanayo O kanayo was the main actor and he was very rich, Bimbo Akintola ( I wonder where she is ) was his mistress, in the beginning of the movie was Bimbo birthday and she invited all the big girls and boys in Lagos

When Kanayo came to the birthday he bought her a very expensive Car and many gifts and she was the talk of the town, it's turns out she had a rival i think Oge Okoye and she does everything to show off to Oge and her crew that she is a big girl.

The film is mostly girls just trying to one up each other by who have the most expensive things and dating the richest man.

Anyway Kanayo turns out to be a ritualist and after some months, Bimbo character started coughing up blood and she died, this of course didn't stop Oge character to seduce Kanayo and became his mistress.

And the same thing happened to Oge character when she started coughing up blood and died too then Ini Edo character in the movie start dating Kanayo.
Kanayo wanted to use her for rituals too but Nollywood Plot turns it that Kanayo was Ini Edo Real dad so instead of killing her, he decided to kill himself to save her.

I guess my point is Nollywood shows the bad side of rituals but greedy people are the ones not taking lessons.
Imagine in this movie, the ladies here saw that this man former mistresses are all dying mysteriously but they dont care because of the greed of money

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Nobody should praise the man.
...because he returned the money doesn't mean he is a Saint....him big pass 40,000 naira ....na im make he returned am....40,000 is irrelevant and will not add any meaning to his life....if it like was like 50 million...him for nor return am


Secondly....the pos operator na thief...for him to charge you 800 for 40,000

The charge is not supposed to be up to 800 for 40,000

Whether he did because the money meant nothing to him or he did it because if his good heart.

The end point is what is good is good, we should applaud people that does good things because if it was some hungry and wicked youth, they wont return the money and since it wasn't their fault, they I'll say God bless them.

Once we start attacking people for doing good, many will stop doing good because afterall whether good or bad they will still be criticise

He is a good man

Ok

Okkkkk

Lol

A lot of people do this I swear lol
Tell someone you need 5k to buy some stuff and they will tell you that your own is even better they need 200k to pay their grandfather debts, buy medication for their sick relatives, they haven't eaten in 7 days and many more.

I have come to realise that some people that does that dont want you to ask them for help, so they call problems bigger than your own so you wouldn't have the mind to ask for help.

Why others that do this in nairaland do this in case someone decides to be of help to you here, they can partake in your blessing ( they usually do this when someone brings a pitiful story to nairaland which might get members to help financially, so they include themselves so as they are helped too lol )