pocohantas:


There is a girl on your street selling fruits, she likes you, but you don’t like her because she has just SSCE with no swag. You want the Law graduate that can cook and clean, while being submissive. You are now angry that the Law graduate wants an Otedola too. It’s like your head is paining you. All of you sef.

IF wishes were horses ... blah blah! anyone is free to dream as much as dey want, buh just set alarm so you wake to reality before 40.

proeast:
You guys have been sleeping too much in Lagos, and that's why someone could come all the way from a decayed village in Osun state called Iragbiji to pocket a whole state with close to 20 million people.

Put your acts together and send that rotten teeth godfather packing from Lagos State. He has stolen enough already!

That rotten teeth man gave lagos the landmark it has today, he re write or should i say re wrote lagos blueprint which makes lagos the pacesetter while other follow.
its easy to say lagos was once the capital and money is printed him lagos buh trust me lagos as the most pro active, organised & structured government in nigeria. Lagos can't sail on it own without good policies & implementation.
It was that same rotten old that liberalized nigerians from a one party system. we owe him nothing, not to talk of an insult.

SweetCunt97:
Well, every lady loves smart handsome men. She's smart but if na oyibo, they won't mind ur age shaaa.
So are u still in ur early twenties?

I did not say anything o !!

Palema007:
Typical pussy worshipper line of defense.... See him trying to quote the Bible in respect to pussy and self realization.. Have you no shame?

BTW please take a minute to read my signature and judge yourself accordingly. Thanks.

Sorry i have a custom a woman does not tell me what to do, if its that important screen munch ur profile, post it or Dm. shame is not my portion ijn

Palema007:
Funny enough, I haven't read the book. Maybe I will check it out later.

Oh check out their posts, check out their leader U.bunja's posts. Dude emphasized he isn't interested in any other part of Redpill, he's all for the pussy. Lol and his followers think that way to.
Then I wonder is pussy all there is to a Man?
You will never see them preach on self realization, or body building or Mental development. All they discuss is slaying pussy... Very disturbing!

Self realization is a topic for boys not men, moreover there is something called specialization everyone can not be a motivational speaker and men shall not live by motivation alone same as pvssy, a blend of all is what makes the world go round. i believe there are other redpill authors that focus on whatever you consider better topics, just find what you need.

LaReinaa:

Today is their day to shine.. let’s allow them

You can as well try to cover the sun with your hands. click here for more tips

pocohantas:
Hey! Alfa males will be so happy today. They will be like- “The simp is gone...oya...”

Seems you lost ur ferocious voice, it was alpha males fault kidwaya got evicted last week buh today its a two left leg evenin newspaper fault, just last week someone started supporting ozo, .

cococandy:
I thought I was in the twilight some reading the 1st and second pages.

The thread was overcome by people praising others for their comments rather than actually seeing the issue in OPs financial condition.

1) nothing wrong with her buying him gifts . I always encourage generosity. In fact I wonder why she bought for herself and the kids and excluded him in the first place . She could have either bought for everyone or no one at all. Or just buy for the kids alone.

2) I was thinking people would advice her to stick to her financial goals instead of using the third income as something to play with.

3) why does anyone thinks it’s okay for her to be managing 3 sources of income (I’m willing to bet she’s the primary home keeper as well) while he’s satisfied with his one source?

Coco i am shocked we could be on the page, candy fall on you MRS

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nahzyla:



You see am?

Unenterprising wife should be punished but unenterprising husband deserve gifts

I no fit laugh abeg

Make use of your very own eye, you can read for yourself don't let any mischievous evenin newspaper mislead you..
Op said she works 3shift, buh never @ any point did she insinuate she is the one giving her husband money, if she was, a gift won't have been a national topic. there are placez she point out her husband only gave her money when she ask, it might not sound excellent but its good enough he can provide.
There is a difference between been unenterprising and not making enough money.
if i make 400k a month a woman with toke makinwa taste would still categorise me as unenterprising & a lazy man. contentment & taste decides wat we consider ok.

Gloriagee:
She sacrifices by working 3 jobs and the house chores. It cant be that difficult to understand. Assuming, he were supportive it won't be a big deal to her to buy him gifts like shoes and clothes for the children. Does he help with her online biz? Does he hold forte while she has to do her catering runs? The mere fact that she has to create a thread should give you an idea that she doesn't think he deserves a gift. Also, go through her thread history and show some empathy.

I 'm conversant with OP threads, and i know for sure she is very sensitive.
I swear the things she naggs about are things only people with peace of mind would notice, the husband has issues as well buh i can't blame or disuade a man from believing in his hustle, most of watched the movie "ACRIMONY" @some in that movie i got extremely mad @the man over his stupid batteries .. smh, from there i understand why law court must be void of emotion.
There are things i look out for before i can crucify a man, she as not accused d man of not paying the bills or not giving her money whenever she ask, the giving might not be automatic mayb because he is aware she earns tew.
On previous thread, what wrong with a man askin his wife to serve his friend meals, i think my friend enterin my wife's kitchen to serve himself is a direct disrespect to my wife sef.
On your last paragraph, since when did a man deserve a woman's money. what OP seek is not empathy she just want to be sure she is on the right track,to unleash some things

dukeprince50:
Femi doesn't proof anything.
Both parties need to spend in a relationship.

How about she tells u to ask ur mother for sex? U must have a strong financial muscle if u wanna start a relationship. don't think she will just sex u, cook for u, wash ur things and u won't even think of spoiling her even a bit

You made a valid point as to both parties need to spend in a r/ship buh thats far from reality, and i think that is why guys nag more these days
How does ask ur dad 4 money equate go ask your mama for sex ... i strongly believe among the duties of a father to a child (m&f) is to provide & cater for her financial needs buh can we say its one of the duties of a mother to provide sex to her son sexual needs.
That statement "go ask ur mama for sex" originated from prostitutes. The appropriate statement should av been "go n carry a prostitute' cos mother doesnt fit in, its never her duty

pocohantas:


He isn’t entitled, he is a USER! The only reason guys are not seeing it is because he is a MAN.

That is why I pity women who use emotions to follow Nigerian men. You will stress yourself and help him save money. Money he will use to pursue girls that haven’t stressed away their youthfulness and feminity.

OP had a baby last year and here she is, doing 3 jobs to provide for herself and kids. I can imagine her blouse dropping off her shoulders. She has been seriously complaining of this same husband. He doesn’t give her money, except she asks and he doesn’t buy her gifts. She also stated that she is beginning to resent him and that is not surprising. Any man that allows his wife/woman do what OP is doing, would definitely get RESENTED. She might succeed in hiding her disgust, but the passive aggressiveness would be there.

Men provide for women because men expect women to have kids, take care of the home, submit, support, position in bed...etc. It is not because they are nice. The only nice man is your father!! After him, if you don’t behave well to a Nigerian husband, you go collect.

Happy sunday ma' lets not 4get only jesus can save

nahzyla:



@last paragraph, that is so true.
OP did not give full details of how her marriage is that is why she is now receiving mumu advice from women who think marriage is Telemundo or Korean love series.

The cost of doing an elaborated wedding now is from 5m above, on a normal a man spends 2m.
if her last paragraph is so true, that men just need a wife to av kids ,clean the house & position in bed.
Now what doez it cost men to opt for baby mama, what does it cost men to employ maid to clean d house ,and how much olosho wan collect to position on bed.
sum up the cost minus it from cost of a wedding & maintain a wife. then draw a conclusion in ur mind.

Gloriagee:
I can't imagine. Assuming, I were him, I'd be appreciative of all her sacrifices. She's a saint in my opinion. There's going to be so much pent up frustration but for peace in her home, she can buy him a gift. In this Buhari economy, with school fees to pay for 3 kids, house rent amongst other costs, don't even understand why a gift is warranted from a woman's 3rd hustle.

why not stick to the story and put sentiment asides, Op might av insinuate making more money buh she insinuated anytin that relates to sacrifice, there collective income sustains d family , also from her story her xtra income are spent on herself & kids. that a woman makes more money doesnt mean she foot more of d bills sometimes
sacrifice is what you forgo @ your very own detriment just to make someone happy .... so from all what Op said where did she sacrifice for d man, if she buys c'mon mr biggs snacks for her children n can't include her husband what sacrifice could she possibly made. if my wife comes home every day buyin eatables 4 d kids & herself, i will joking remind her am her baby tew .. no hard feelings that is how it should be. speaking of gift i don't see why OP needs to open a thread or she planning to buy him a car or house. gift could be boxers & byc singlet