₦airaland Forum

twilliamx:
So the governor of a state after four good years can only point to 8 key projects in a state with 18 local government and he is still fighting to come back and some idiots too are beating chest for him to come back...
What a country of nit wits.. you guys should go and see what Jakande accomplished in Lagos in the same number of years with less budget..all this guys are a bunch of bastards..they have turned governance to nuclear science. But they are not the problem it's the useless and brainless supporters that I blame

when oshiomole came to power his agenda was constructions of roads and renovations of schools and we were happy with him even though he stole.

It's now obaseki's turn and his agenda is to industrialize the state and so far you can see the lists of those things he has directly or indirectly done in the state so why the bitterness towards him?there's no guarantee that ize Iyamu will continue those things and Edo really need those facilities to stand as a state.

It's either the necessary evil which is obaseki or a new party and candidate should emerge from the state.

Sleekfingers:
trust nigeria politicians at your own risk.....these people can do anything for power....

you're right

seleroms2:
l There is no outing where obaseki doesn't talk about oshiomole as if he is obsessed. He is making it seem as if this election is between him and oshiomole? Who removed the house of assembly roof? Leave politics for politician they are all desperate scum. PDP and APC all have thugs on both side. Trust politician at your peril

the obsession is not one sided they are both obsessed with each other

ojbaba95:
When Omonoba was warning Philip Shaibu publicly, some were shouting partisanship. Oba of Benin knows exactly danger species among them all. PDP are merely crying foul just to nail Oshiomole and APC .

I'm neither for Apc or Pdp but the truth is that Obaseki cannot stoop so low to hire tugs.Obaseki is not as desperate as Oshiomole who's trying to save himself from political mockery and the ongoing campaign can testify to my claim. If you listen to Obaseki speeches you'll understand why education and self control can't be termed "waste" .

JAMO84:
Buhari left the presidency for thirty years, why didn't the seven presidents within that time turn Nigeria to heaven on earth? Why did he have to come back to clean another thirty years of mess? I know who my best president is!!!!

are you saying that Buhari should take us back to colonial era for re-colonization? I don't understand

Sounds more like a tribute message to me

TheCork:
WOW..I love lessbian. Great
So how long u been lessssbianisim & when did u no it will be yor career to chase women?

your matter don tire me

Agbegbaorogboye:
If your problem is with the fact that he brought it here, I can understand with you. But I want to believe he brought it here for us to learn from and to also get a perspective not to necessarily take all the advice and opinions hook, line and sinker.

Having said that, you seem to believe the cure to alpha males is jezebellic females. I fear for that. Two wrongs don't make a right.
On this particular matter though, the wife is wrong. No excuse about it. Do you mean that the remaining nineteen wives who are members of that same church like her are simply stupid by entertaining her husband and the other men and she's the only wise one?
If she considers the gathering a worthless one, why hasn't she spoken to her husband about it for the past one year and a half he's been attending? Talk about communicating and understanding.
Am I to accept that if her family members were to always visit at year's end to celebrate new year with them she would have told them off by now?
Everything does not have to be about us or to our benefit and convenience in a relationship talk more of marriage. There are some roles women play that men cannot and vice versa. It doesn't make one better than the other. It only emphasises uniqueness and why we need each other.
As some people have pointed out here, it's the responsible men that face this kind of problems. Do you know I have a friend who invited his former girlfriends to cook and serve at his son's birthday because the wife was not cooperating? As a matter of fact, he even still cheated with one of them the week before that.
You women should know what you want.

I believe the solution to Alpha males should be parents laying emphasis on importance of good manners to their children irrespective of the sex of the child.

You'll agree with me that majority of Nigeria homes concentrate on training only the girl child on how to become a wife and mother. they forget that the boys will one day become a husband and father.

I would advice you guys to make your partners your best friends ,communicate more often, make a gossip partner out of them,know how and when to talk to them that will make them agree to you.

There so many flimsy situations going on between couples that could be resolved with something as small as a kiss and sweet talks.

Thanks for your diplomatic approach.

Agbegbaorogboye:
I must say i'm disappointed with a lot of comments I read here.

1. The gathering is one of gentlemen who are members of an organization and who hold a monthly meeting to discuss issues of common interests. That's networking and social bonding.

2. The meetings are held in members' residences, being rotated amongst them. By implication, each member gets to host an average of once in two years. This is a very suitable idea for a homely interface which reinforces the fact in them that they are responsibly married men.

3. I'm sure the husband for the past 1year and 8months has visited the house of others and eaten there with the rest of the members. The wives of the host at such meeting must have also played the same role he is asking of his wife. If contrary were to be the case, i'm sure he won't be so insistent on it.

With the above three, it will be obvious to anyone with a modicum of sense of responsibility and reciprocity that changing the trend when it gets to his turn will raise eyebrows among the members and he'll end up looking like a sort of killjoy among his peers.
It's a sacrifice albeit one that the wife who is the hostess should embrace in this case. Or which would she prefer? That her husband spends sunday evening smoking weed and drinking at a joint or discussing life's issues with fellow responsibly married men?
I really fear for the women we have nowadays. I do. If you are irritated by the thought of a communal gathering in your house by responsible people, then I beg to ask what sort of gathering you will prefer in your house.
If the wife feels the task is too heavy, she should be the one to suggest catering services to the husband. Or better still get some friends to help. I have attended birthdays of kids from families who can't afford caterers and the wives are the ones who take up the entertainment in such cases.
But to read the kind of insults some people who I suspect are women throw at the gentleman for asking his wife to help him entertain his guests in his house, I suspect we may be steadily building a generation of Jezebels and not Sarahs. Even a certain Sarah20A is in on the nonsense. How discomforting.
As for me, it's obvious that from the ladies of these days, family and communal values are presently being eroded and they are beginning to see themselves as "alpha females" which in all honesty is a cause for concern for our children.

Thank you.

if the societies are breeding Jezebel as daughters then what will you say about the monsters in male forms ,the so called Alpha males who always want to manipulate their way into getting what they want?

The truth is that the societies are breeding more monsters than Jezebel

Women are not that wicked , complicated,senseless, and inconsiderate as some of this frustrated Alpha males portrays them.

You guys should try to understand and respect
your women ,try to communicate and play more often. I'm sure if the husband was more conversant with her he would have solved the minor issue with her instead of bringing it here for every dick and harry to masturbate on.

anastasius:
Ok lesbian

dilapidated pu...ssy nigar

anastasius:
Frustrated lesbian.. Get off my dvck

please take it easy on your fragile heart you know your brain is already useless

you wouldn't want to hurt the only remaining vital organ that's keeping you alive

TheCork:
Hangon. But y do u homebase chicks behave like market womens 4god sake? White women here I london never talk like u people. U never beento London, u dont hav moiney, man sef u dont have, u never beento restaurants, u never date a London guy, u juss lost a big shance, am trying to help u but yet all u do is cuss people like *which doctor*....this is the side effect of going to publick school coz u talk like a elitarate. Anyways am a lover not a fighter & like it or not..I want to be one of my babes. Trust me, I hav moiney. Quit acting like village girl & truss me , u will enjoy me for free. Am a Londoner.

abeg go sleep

anastasius:
I like how I'm giving you high BP. That's your worth.

I was right when I said that you are clueless

Are this people doing this for ritual purposes? I don't understand how someone can be aroused by babies.

They said the adult females don't dress well that's why they keep raping them what excuse or reasons do they have to destroy the innocence of this children?
Parents are raising monsters as sons every day

The worst part is that nobody is saying anything about it, not the people and certainly not the government .

anastasius:
Name calling would not solve your misery. Potential single mom oshi

shout out to all the single and potential single moms out there may God bless your effort towards your child and children .

May God never allow you women to raise a dysfunctional broken record like this useless piece of rag as children

GoodFaith:
It's all about pussy for Nigeria women- sad
First class pussy?
Life is not all about pussy
Culture, morals and values
consideration for each other

see who's preaching about morals and values where you sleeping when that your discourteous mouth were oozing out rubbish?ohh!! you were really hallucinating .

Humans were created in two forms, I.e , male and female so consideration for each other and every other thing you wrote up there was embedded in me from the moment I understood my life is and will be all about pu..ssy .

I don't expect a shallow clueless confusionist to comprehend on what I meant up there.
Mugu

anastasius:
Stop masturbating on my mentions. Get a life. Frustrated hag

I'm literally laughing out my lungs by your level of suicidal thoughts and frustration.

Being an old hag is a full time job or do you think is easy to make a wailer out of a useless piece of rag like you?

Pu.....sssy Nigarr

I saw Buhari trekking and complaining about the military brutality in south south which later turned to a glorious celebration for the south south people in my dream

Descendants of Joseph the dreamer you're all welcome to interpret

Imagine the high quality innovations that would be coming from Nigeria if only this old thieves will make the environment favorable for everyone

anastasius:
Uncouth Nigerian witch. Only simps date your likes.

Nigeria girls or witches are not the reasons you're suffering from rejection sensitive dysphoria, better seek professional help before you commit suicide.

Mugu,first class pu....ssy

anastasius:
Nigerian girls beg me. And I don't have you all time. Team foreign girls like my Nigerian dad.

hahaha, is your likes that daydream of coming close to anything foreign. Your daydream might have come to reality if you weren't in a mental-asylum.

Hallucinating local gold-digger

anastasius:
People like you only have mouth online. In real life, you keep begging men to look your way

you're just a frustrated simp who was dumped by a girl.

anastasius:
It's not stressful. A good woman will do it. It has been done since I was born. It is rotated round families and when it's your turn, u cook and entertain. My mum isn't even Nigerian and she's proud to do it. Mum too has her own group and it's same thing. Useless Nigerian girls

yes your mother was busy cooking to please people that's why she forgot to teach you manners. Useless thing

Obinnau:
I am in Nigeria, I haven't traveled. But I have received the same treatment from friends that have traveled. One way to look at it is to put yourself in the shoes if people outside the country.
A lot of people will usually use the guise of checking up on them to 'bill' them. Also there is a reason why they went to the abroad in the first place and it's usually overwhelming to adjust to the new place and still keep up with others.
What I would advice you to do is to leave them a voice message or call directly if you can afford it. Well... That's the way I handle my own business

calling directly is the best and most emotional way of checking on someone

SoccerUSA:
I am not assuming or worried
I am just curious to know.

you should have their phone numbers since you guys are best friends

GoodFaith:
Really
Nigerian are suffering on a daily basis not just women
men too
Can you believe cooking is now a federal case

he should simply do the cooking himself or hire a caterer

SirMichael1:
I rejected it in Jesus name! Our home will not be broken

I'm not wishing you bad but na small small e take dey start.

Think with your brain not religion

You might not know how stressful cooking for over 20 people is so please try to understand and respect her feelings

SirMichael1:
The previous get togethers I went to, their wife did the cooking. It's just making of soup while I make the swallow.

who will do the serving and the cleaning?

LadySarah:
She said she can't. Leave her nw. Because she did the first one you now readily accepted the second again.That'swhy they say don't start what you can't finish. Nigerian wives really suffer oo.



But must you cook in this economy wey keep face lyk this?
You can buy drinks with meat pie
or
pepper soup and order for agidi(Eko) that's less stressful
or
use the caterer
or
even cook it yourselves to foster the unity more.

Nigerian wives are suffering on a daily basis

This guy should just denounce his faith and religion

TheCork:
Kiss, hug, extra hug, warm kiss plus juss 30 second sexxxx please. I pay u cash. Deal?

village people at work

TheCork:
Please will accept 200 naira, cash?

200 naira for what?