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Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ImaIma1(f): 2:39pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
You had enough time (almost 2yrs) to plan for this event. You could have paid someone to make the soups knowing the kind of wife you have. Now, last minute, how do we settle this matter? We don't know if you have done anything previously that is causing this kind of reaction from your wife. We are only relying on what you are telling us. Anyway, op, just try to manage the situation as best as you can. Try to understand why she is refusing and take a cue from there. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Sebgajere(m): 3:18pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Dis woman is playing wit her marriage oooh. I know why she's doing this, she knows d guy is a church guy that's why. Try dis rubbish wit rugged guys na n see if dis end time girls no go chance u. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ebby9z(m): 3:33pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Originalsly: He actually wrote it there boldly that he told the guests that his wife did all the cooking and that they didn't even know he was the one that did the pounding and all. The reason we think there must be something is because it sounds ridiculous that a woman could do it. But believe me, it's very possible. Girls generally do this to "nice" men. The more you try to please them, the more they demand. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ebby9z(m): 3:35pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Sebgajere:That's what "responsible" guys go through. Guys that are afraid of being seeing as bad. Let her try it with a street guy na, na him side chics go come make the meals right there in their house and there's nothing she will do. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ebby9z(m): 3:47pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
GoldenVivi:Ojodu Berger ni. Of course what will a female say before |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 4:10pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Ygrette: I hope you're not married, if not, you'll suffer your marriage. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 4:17pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Nooil: Uyai doesnt know a troll even if the troll is sitting opposite her. In all honesty, she told me of it the first night after she cooked. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:22pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1: Then you need to revisit that moment and help her heal. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by josite: 5:13pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
my question is who owns the house or who pays the current rent for the house? .i perceive ur wife either owns the house or pays the current rest and she is findling ways to remind u that u are presently not the husband and should mind urself by not not adding more stress to her stress.u ought to be able to arrange someone close to do the market runs and cook .i wont bother to remind anyone u dont have the money an external person will demand and that is why it must be ur wife cus she knows how to manage u and ur little money.learn some sense.find a low cost mistress who will do more than ur wife will ever and start preparing to build your own house or rent ur house as the way things are going she will soon be totally fed up wit u.guys build ur own house o. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by crackhaus: 5:25pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:Edible Catering 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by kisstaye(m): 5:30pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
My friend shutup, all this small boys abroad running thier mouths and talking shit! im in canada earning plenty money as a software engineer..rational nigerians living abroad dont think this way. She as the wife is mandated to help him entertain his guests just as he should do the same for her irrespective of the number of times. Its unbelievable how this generation have lost thier sanity. My mum was happily doing this for my dad with the help of relatives..God bless the good old days! Funny im just 32. This generation is lost! CanadianNaija: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Lazycyndy(f): 5:38pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Na to dey single or turn lesbian sure pass. Because there's no hope for the average Nigerian man. The op had 20 months to save and hire a caterer knowing fully well that his wife went through alot while being 5 months pregnant the last time. And now you want the poor woman to cook again for your 25 church friends. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by mechanics(m): 6:17pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Still talk to her and pet her, assure her you will do most of the cooking things. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:45pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by crackhaus: 6:55pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:It doesn't feel weird at all to me, those wonderful responses I mean. I can't say I'm surprised. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by afroxyz: 7:24pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Nooil: You are just a lazy Arrow 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
afroxyz: Eeyah, here I thought people who said they can write poem can reason a little. Didn't know I was conversing with an illiterate. My bad. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Chidexsco8448(m): 8:04pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
OP, I cant see d reason why cooking soup for your frnds once in 18months host meeting shud be a difficult task fr ur wife to carry out even when u will help her out... Bros u can download these delicious soups & use them fr dat meeting in order to aviod embrassment No fall my hands oh, just store them in a freezer or make sure u warm them tonyt & 2moro so dat e no go sour & disappoint u dis Sunday brotherly
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Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Houston17(m): 8:15pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Chidexsco8448: Guy you no try oo . Chai!!! Na madtt graphics be this oo. Yummy... |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Sarah20A(f): 8:18pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
anastasius:yes your mother was busy cooking to please people that's why she forgot to teach you manners. Useless thing 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Sarah20A(f): 8:21pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
anastasius:you're just a frustrated simp who was dumped by a girl. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ImaIma1(f): 8:54pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
josite: Marriage is not about money or who pays the bills. If it's about that, anyone who has the money at a particular time is free to oppress the other. What they need is understanding and communication. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ImaIma1(f): 8:57pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: Because you feel it's mandatory that she hosts her husband's friends even if she doesn't feel up to it. You didn't agree with my view that's why you didn't respond 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Wingarnium: 10:06pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
royalfly:Get manners o. I never insulted anyone here so I won't take any insult. Drop your opinions and leave. I still keep my opinion. If you're not okay with it move on or ignore. I gave my opinion without insulting anyone, so get your acts together!. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by chomskyina85(f): 10:40pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1:I stay in Abuja |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 10:40pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Nooil:So me that made the 25 pieces of pounded yams doesn't need healing? What I'm being made to understand is, for the fact that she brought the last get together this time just made me believe even more that she felt she was doing me a favour and so no more favours. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 10:50pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
josite: What brought about who owns the house and who doesn't? Stop thinking like a bag of wet concrete. As a matter of fact, I rented the apartment with my money. Any more stupid questions? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 11:14pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Palema007:Yes. To a beautiful wife with a cute daughter. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 11:30pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Girl, leave me out of your childish and thoughtless insinuations. Besides, I never mentioned you here. Infact, you came yourself and the first thing you did was insult me and never advised. What is so difficult to interprete in "i'm married with a daughter"? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:34pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
SirMichael1: You are so silly, boy. Why did you take down your DP? You looked like a dragon? |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 11:40pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
joyandfaith:You know i've since told you this before. You're useless, even down to the fibre of your being. And it's not her house. |
Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by SirMichael1: 11:44pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Thank you. I, a married with a kid don't have time for adults that choose to be kids. Maybe after you drop two, maturity is hit you instantly. |
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