I've really enjoyed this communication. I have been on sites looking for answers, because I have been involved with a Nigerian from Lagos and yes we met online 4 years ago. I probably spent close to 7/8 thousand dollars trying to get him here in the U.S, and putting food on his table paying his rent, putting clothes and shoes on his back keeping his appearance up like clock work helped his family out. Don't know how many times I done that. We are extremely in love with each other. Got scammed twice trying to get him from Nigeria. Now that I am doing my research and won't give him $2000 to leave Nigeria to go work in another country he has been cursing me out disrespecting me, hardly communicates with me. I have to save money all over again to come to Nigeria $3000 plus take care of things on my end. He told me his priority was to survive and not marry me anymore because I would not come up with the money for him to go to another country close to Africa for him to work. Went on visa journey and a few people were helpful said the only way for the two of you to get married is me coming to Nigeria and I advised him from the very beginning but he wanted to be a man and handle it and lost $3000+. In the beginning I was his Queen, his world, his wifey, his baby, my love ,my everything, my pillar, best friend love of my life... Now he doesn't tell me those things. I let him know I can't support you anymore since I have to survive on my end plus save up for me to come another $3000 to $4000 funny I was his everything while dishing out money now he barely speaks to me of course I am hurt don't know how many times I've cried over this and still do. And from what I been told he could never help financially because they don't make the money over there. I would love some feedback I don't understand his behavior.

I am in a relationship with a Nigerian and he can be very loving and show a very good side of him. But I noticed... I have to be very mindful for what I say. And it doesn't necessarily mean I said or did anything wrong. He will get very angry and abusive and stretch the situation 10 miles long, drag it out. It's ludicrous to act in such a inappropriate way especially to your lady and Nigerians don't believe in divorces and I do.