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I have to admit this post made me crack up in laughter, wtf
OP, why would you assume she will swallow a whole ring if you put it in an icecream? Dont people swirl icecream in their mouth before swallowing? i think she will detect it
No, i dont think people use straws for ice cream, its not a friggin coke
But thanks for the laughs, they re all funny replies.

OP, take her to an expensive, fancy, classy restaurant for dinner, make it very romantic, get down on your knees and ask her. she will be blown away. make sure she aint drunk before you ask her.

lol @ izeek.

@ blaccky, you ve got to stop information which is not true. I have never in my 20 something yrs heard that having sex during menstruation causes infection in the pelvis. Aint you a guy? how do you know all these?

Just wondering if the posters here re mainly residing in Nigeria or most are outside nigeria?
Can some people answer my own post too?
Its titled 'your opinions on having a white partner'. Tx

wtf?
years of experience??
Not in that way o. Im a good christian girl

@ eyonigger

what is this you re talking about
This is not a way to make someone fall in love with you. If you know what love means, you re probably wrong with your antics
those lazy antics can only make a girl be infatuated with you or lust after you, or enjoy hanging around you
Falling in love takes so much more than that

probably
90% of women have done this. yes, its true. But 80% (including me) found out how disgusting it can be so they stopped.

you cant make someone fall in love with you! It aint gonna happen at all if this is what you are after. You can only do things that can increase your chances of them liking you r becoming more into you. These tips re all over the internet as to how you look, your self confidence, the way you make her feel good and the life you have for yourself.
Instead of looking for ways to make someone fall in love with you, why don't you find a way to love yourself more, and the right person will fall in love with you.
Good luck

Its a bit disgusting if you ask me, I would rather wait. How Hot can you get for 5 or 6 days?
Well it depends, if you're fine with the mess and the hassle, go for it. Its your life

But yea, there's very very little chance she will get pregnant, women don;t no matter how many times you guys do it when she's having her period. but remember it has to be the early sort of stage of her period, if its getting to the last day or before she finishes, there's a little chance she might conceive

@ honeric01,
you re funny
I don't know anything that I enjoy from white men that my black bro's haven't given me. lol

@romeo4real.

Growing up, I was reading a lot of mills and boons. I have to admit however maybe this is a reason underlying the fact that I have grown to be more attracted to white men. Not all white men re nice, there re the good and the bad ones as well. This is the only reason I could think of. I have always been, since i was little attracted to white men. I used to tell my sister that I could one day marry a white but they would laugh at me thinking I was just joking

@ honeric,

I dont think its the scarcity of the black guys around here thats causing it. If i think of an ex now, if i go back to nigeria tomorrow and stay for a couple of weeks, I dont think id feel the urge to cheat, or the need to want to leave my white bf. I see blacks around, maybe not a lot, but I still have strong feelings for my white bf, so maybe its not an issue of scarcity of whites

@ romeo4real, wow, your answer has been so far the most impressive. You put it all together very well. Thanks for that. I understand the reasons behind why some blacks date white, but this is not my motive at all. I have been treated well with my ex nigerian boyfriend, and we didnt really have any issue, but i just find that I seem to get very well along with the white a lot when we date. Not that I use them for my own selfish purpose, no.

why do i find white dudes attractive enough to date? Not all of them are attractive enough to date, its not because of the looks. a lot of nigerian guys re very cute too, it has nothing to do with looks. being attracted to something is not because you think they re the most attractive person? you understand. Its just something you prefer or like

skin color dont matter to me because im black, and I date white. im not against black skin color, cause im black, lol. so obviously im not against my black brothers. does that answer your question?

to be honest I dont know why I find myself more into white, but thats just the way it is, and I cant change that. I just wish my family wil be more accepting

@honeric 01

Yes my first boyfriend was nigerian, and i dated another after that. But since then, I have been more into white. Maybe the environment sorts of dictates, I really dont know, but THANKS for your advice

I dont really see why people's opinions matter in this instance? Huh
@typiah

Havent i said it all? You need to read my post again, its just something you are interested in others about. Isnt that why they created these kinds of forums??
Naija people, be nice

@ blacky, don't be mean, be nice. I only asked for opinions , not backslapping. Anyone can choose to date whoever they want or like.

@ dis guy,

No don't feel sympathy for me , I live in the city, There re a few africans around, im just more into "the white" I guess. Its not my fault

Your ex has got to do a PATERNITY test!!! Dont listen to her refusal. That's the only way you can be 100% sure the baby is yours. You should be too smart to insist no matter what she says. Go for the paternity, if she refuses again, just decline and ignore her , tell her the baby is not yours until you do a paternity test. she might want to dump the baby on you now that she's seen that you're happy and have moved on.

Another vital think is, you have to tell your new girl. She may be disappointed but it was in the past, none of this is your fault, nor hers. You have to be open to her, if she's the one you re considering spending the rest of our life with. explain to her, so that she knows everything going on, and in this case, your ex will not make any threats against you until you have the paternity test

So you know 2 things you need to do now to clear your head and heart
1) Tell your new girl everything
2) Insist on a paternity test no matter what.

Goodluck

@ ikamefa, Your post is funny and nice. Thanks for that. I reckon they will eventually come around if they realise how happy he makes me

Hey, my first time of writing something on here, and I would love other Nigerians opinions especially the ones outside Nigeria.
I have been dating white men most of my life, and I have been with one for a while now. I have always been attracted to white men, and I'm a Nigerian girl. I just wonder what you people think of this?My family are not very supportive of this though, and i wonder why this is more of a problem for them than seeing me being happy.
Shouldn't they be happy for me regardless of who I fall in love with?
Does the skin color matter so much? To me it doesn't really matter because I believe we re all the same inside.

Whats your opinion on black/white relationships, if anyone has gone through that road and just your general thoughts. Thanks