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Pls seun and lalasticala I really want this one on front page.

Some days ago I created a topic on why people hide there salary from there spouse.

https://www.nairaland.com/2713974/why-people-keep-salaries-secret

I didn't even know my wife was that active on nairaland and she felt bad and apologized. She said she didn't know the salary issue bothered me this much and was a little bit angry I didn't tell her it bother me that much before taking it to the forum.

I didn't want the topic to hit front page but am glad it did cause it saved my marriage and she showed me every thing, her pay slips, her investment and her two bank account details and for the first time it seems as if I now know her. And we will soon be opening a joint account for family welfare. It just feels so right and is as if our marriage just began last night. At least now I have seen a future with her.


But o boy she rich oh and yet she is loyal at least that love or I think.



Thank you Seun and lalasticlala for saving my marriage.

Thank you all those that condemned the act and pls those that still hide, marriage is more fun when you share and communicate.

To those that gave a bad advice or said my wife is cheating ...thanks too

menxer:
You never chi chong ching

The surest way not to succeed in a relationship is to put eye in your lady's money when she intends to keep it a secret.

my people have a saying, "a mad person has a lover".
Meaning everyone has who they submit to.

If your lady is not submitting her money purse to you for inspection/appropriation, it shows you are not worthy of her submission.

Dat not true

Nuella222:
U want to knw if her salary is a little bit high so that u stop giving her maintenance money abi? Tight-fisted husband with a rolling eyes. Follow her go to her office and ask her boss, otune!

U a fool

Lilimax:
Make they no dey beef you in the office

I read in a book titled: Rule at Work that one way to make yourself dissatisfied and always angry in your
work place is to go about comparing your salary with that of your colleagues.

She is not mu colleague she is my wife

condralbede:
You are too stingy that's why,see how you take grab the FTC position,this talks more abt you.

Hmmm

IamGentle:
Its might actually be that she thinks you might saddle her with the household expenses because that's what u guys do u just rrun away frm ur responsibilty as soon as u notice that ur wifey is richer salary-wise quote author=satowind post=39711271]

My wife is not that fashion freak and isn't secretive but I don't know y her salary is a big deal to her. Maybe is bigger dan mine and she feels I will feel inferior or sometin.

not me but is true men do it

Philadelphia:
Tell me where she works and I'll tell you how much she earns.

fhi360

TTollie:
Click these link on how to make money the difficult but Quick way http://PayRefe.net/index.php?ref=297913

how does dis answer me?

NEROSKY:
Gobe!!! U don marry greedy n selfish woman... one chance

Hmmm

MadCow1:
You are married to a stranger.





#Period..

if she is hiding her salary from you, she cant be trusted.

Hmmm

Lilimax:
Satowind don't mind these guys telling you you'r married to a stranger for not telling you her salary.
It is not peculiar to you.

I don't usually tell my hubby the exact increment I receive on my salary else he'll cut down the
amount he gives me for house upkeep

If is just increament I won't bother but not knowing de whole thing is something else but is not a gud tin hidding urs

chimkaire:
hope you won't be stunned when you get to know

No

femi4:
Install message forwarder into her phone. As she dey get alert, you too go receive the message

hmmm are u a spy

tomi01:
I think ur wifey has an attitude problem, I see no reason why wifey or husby shld be keeping secret in a marriage, except there is something u are not telling us here.
Mine doesn't keep such, we know each other's worth and it has been helping the marriage.
(NB) People differ in nature , so whatever ur case is, deal with it wisely & move on.

Thanks but she doesn't

Ephemmm:
You see! marriage is over-hyped, honestly.

Is not

NairaMode:
Wife hiding salary? Thats a big one o.

Yeah

pawoz:
The truth is that,she spend more on her family. So for not telling u the real figure, U might not like the issue of her spending on her Family. Expect u guys ve children, then she will tell u the real figure

Her family is a rich one

400billionman:
We are opposite. Nah babes dey spill their earnings to me. Me i dont disclose mine.

U not married I guess

[quote author=HerXcellency post=39879364][/quote]Haha

ola7199:
SIMPLY PUT....SHE WILL CHEAT ON YOU.
THAT'S WHAT UPBRINGING SAYS ABOUT PEOPLE & IT'S ALSO A GOOD POINTER.
WATCH....LADIES FROM POLYGAMOUS HOME OR WHO ARE RAISED BY SINGLE MOTHER.....THEY DO THAT .
sorry i said the whole truth....a good wife will never keep any secret from her husband.

She is from no such home thanks 4 ur point sha

sexychocolate1:
You can do an underground search. Ask people in her place of work in a playful way if you are close to any, check her phone for alert. She might be using her money to sponsor someone or taking care of her family needs or even investing.

My wife is not that way and I don't wana stalk her I want her to come out natural

6fit:
if d salary is fat, they hide it so u dont make them yur ATM or become a liability to them. If d salary is small they hide it so u dont see them as a lazy follow

Marriage is suppose to be about trust

fleezytran:
Right now I do not know the exact salary of my fiancée but I asked her some smart questions to know the range... Try this as well or devise a good means to know the exact. I know what to do if I want to know the exact amount o.

Pls tell me

menxer:
Ignorance, they say, is bliss.

What you don't know won't bother you.

If she has decided to keep her salary a secret, pls let it remain a secret for the good reason listed above...

What's the point of knowing her salary and starts having sleepless nights and low libido?

I won't marriage is suppose to be about trust

gulfer:
Does she know your own salary and can you share it here

She knows mine

PussyFucker2:
The only reason she hides how much she earns is because she sends money to her relatives, family.
If you wanna know how much she earns, just dig around or play a fast trick on her.
Women have small brain.

My wife don't have small brain oh and I don't wana be stalking her

lonelydora:
You asked a question and you answered it. My brother that's thr reason she hiding it.

QUOTE ME ANYWHERE

Ok thanks

etayokha2004:
Jx let her be, I bet u she will b tired. If u ask now she will think u r after d money. Meanwhile as a gud wife she suppose to tell by her sef.

Is long enough nah we dated 4 3years

But is true nah



Any way take heart and stop wailing

But is true nah