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Can u pls give us a little detail on your background so we can understand where you're coming from.

my fav animated character wud be non other than SUP DOC?Bugs bonny's real cute n all

I think the best thing u can do for u both is to let her know how u feel about her. Tell her how much u appreciate ur frienship and all that n let her know she doesnt exactly have the place of a wife to be in ur heart. She definitely would feel hurt but its better now than when its too late i.e. when she gets to find out by herself. You in turn might lose some of her loyalty dependin on how she takes your openeness but she'll be better for it.

More than five minutes madness exists. But i feel it's just used as a cover for doing something really nasty or unthinkable. You should be able to control ur emotions, else you would be forced to use a lifetime regretting the damage u caused in five minutes

I love eating wierd stuff like indomie n yam,Plantain n bread,puttin raw eggs in my noodles while theyr prepared,slicing up diff types of pepper(green,yellow,red)n frying them together to make stew. My roommate always complains about my wierd mixtures even my friends too. I just cal it experimenting.

Another wierd thing i know i do is i dance when i'm walkin n it makes those around think there's sumtin wrong wit me,i just do it when i'm trying to remember steps from a rehearsal(i do mind rehearsals a lot) or trying to create sumtin.Not so wierd abi?

I love eating wierd stuff like indomie n yam,Plantain n bread,puttin raw eggs in my noodles while theyr prepared,slicing up diff types of pepper(green,yellow,red)n frying them together to make stew. My roommate always complains about my wierd mixtures even my friends too. I just cal it experimenting.

Another wierd thing i know i do is i dance when i'm walkin n it makes those around think there's sumtin wrong wit me,i just do it when i'm trying to remember steps from a rehearsal(i do mind rehearsals a lot) or trying to create sumtin.Not so wierd abi?

My influence started at first wit my family, then peer groups bt now i'lld say i do those things that make me feel good. Learning to live by God's influence though

Wot i really regret doin is not being bold enough to stand up for wot i believe in especially telling a guy off when he doesnt respect me. I used to be stupidly shy in the past , bt now i want to see who wud try me

My own phobia may sound a bit wack bt i hv a phobia for visiting guyz in thier house alone

as much as i want to believe u shud be able to fall in love with n marry whoever u want regardless d class difference,this only happens in stories like cinderella n other fairytale like movies,if u watch this soap,'wen u r mine' u'll c d hell paloma is goin thru jus coz she's a poor kid in love with a rich guy,so for me, d class thing is inevitable

One thing i think i've noticed bout handsome guys is that many of them always have an attitude or an impression that with evry one girl they r with they culd be with 10 others so they actually think they r doin d girl a favour n this makes them more prone to cheatin, but it all boils down to ur personal principles anyway

Wel, am not domesticated as per the perfect wife, but i try, i cook wen no one else is there to do it, i clean my room coz my body reacts wen its dirty, n when am in hostel anyone that thinks crashin in ma room is an opportunity for free food goes hungry.Pretty domesticated abi?

wel i dnt know if anyone's seen where d bible says we r fearfully n wonderfully made n also the fact that no one else has ur finger prints n no one has ever,so if God took that much time to form everyone, nobody is ugly. We are all beautiful to specification.but i agreee that some r more blessed than others n may get more attention but true love comes from first loving urself.

Give us small time make we tink am wel

Fallin in love wit pictures sha . Wel i once met this guy online n he started buggin me from d day i sent my pic to him.
Gues wot happens eventually, he meets me n all thats on his mind is gettin down wit me n since i wont budge, we aint friends no more.
To me most of the time its jus mere attraction not love

personally i feel dating a guy without money is not a real problem, it take a lot of guts though and a lot of sacrificing. My problem is even if a guy doesnt have money, he should at least be thotful. You don't have to have a million bucks to be thotful and carin. Am sayin this coz some guys just use d ' i don't have money' line to hide their insensitivity.

My second fear is most Nigerian guys, when they eventually get rich, 4get the woman that was in their life durin the STRUGGLE.she suddenly becomes not good enof, so for me i'd say if ure bold enof to take the risk, go ahead.

asking why girls freak over material things is like asking why guys always trip for a gorgeous female. They just work hand-in hand. . Who no like better thing?

dating a guy thats younger than me is really not a problem. Maturity is not an age thing but a thing of the mind and really thats wots needed to make relationship work. I dont mind if d guy is 5 yrs younger than me, d only issue is that he shouldn't still be reasoning like his agemates, for us to get along.

To me when u see ur boyfriend every day it would be a lot of fun in the beginning, u try adjusting to each other and grow more fond of each other but after a while it may become real choking, u know absence they say makes the heart fonder. So i believe in givin urselves some space

Here's the scene, guy meets girl at a concert they both perform in and they exchange numbers and start calling each other n exchanging text messages. They seem to be getting close, when one fateful day, girl recieves a text from this stranger ( a girl) telling her never to call the boy's number again. Girl tells boy bout it n he denies knowing who did it. They continue normally as friendz till she gets another msg from the same girl and another and another, till she gets 10 messages from this stranger threatening her to leave the boy alone or face the music. The boy eventually explains to girl that its a female friend of his that was goin crazy.end of story is boy claims d girl sending d msgs aint his girlfriend but just a close friend n boy stops communicating with new girl. I was jus wondering if a lady should freak out when another girl gets close to their 'supposed man'

i also agree wit her analysis, i guess for now u shud spent time tryin to know her, her interests n and wot makes her happy rather than worryin about y she wont kiss u

I really don't think kissing shud be a big issue in a realtionship n d fact that ur girl wont kiss u doent seem abnormal, cos it may be, like layi said coz she doesnt trust u enough yet. Besides i feel 1 month is too short for u too start worrying bout kissing or wot exactly do u want from d relationship?

Wel i read this story bout a guy who turned his wife into a punching bag n when the wife warned him d first time when she had a miscarraige n he dint budge, she started planning her revenge. She eventually beat him to a pulp one day n he landed in the hostpital with missin front teeth n a broken arm and leg

I really like how e'one's responding like gurlfriend battery is just a myth coz y'all saying 'dump him', it can't can't happen to me', but i wonder why its still on the increase n i hear new cases everyday!My advice sha is d same as the others, stop casting your pearls before swine because they won't know its worth n thats wot ur boyfriend is doin. DUMP HIM

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