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Celebrities / Re: New Love Up Photos Of Bambam And Teddy-A by scarrramenga: 5:57pm On Apr 26, 2018
ugly gal
Education / Re: OMG!!! You Will Have Double Thoughts About School After Watching This by scarrramenga: 5:56pm On Apr 26, 2018
boooooooooring!op you suck

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Celebrities / Re: I Did Not Snatch Adeniyi Johnson From Toyin Abraham – Actress Seyi Edun by scarrramenga: 4:44pm On Apr 26, 2018
she no even fine sef
bleashy bleashy afonja
Romance / Re: Dating by scarrramenga: 3:51pm On Apr 26, 2018
greatnaija01:
COrrect BRO I feel u o

THANKS FOR THIS

cool
Romance / Re: Actress Omoni Oboli Opens Up Saying Yes After 2-weeks Of Dating by scarrramenga: 3:49pm On Apr 26, 2018
Faithola:

And u are the one who they gave the right to judge..eh?
cheesy yep just check out the ugly gal below

Romance / Re: Dating by scarrramenga: 3:45pm On Apr 26, 2018
IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT US TO CLICK TO SEE?

Dealing with one’s spouse could sometimes be very difficult, looking as though there’s no love or thinking that a wrong choice was made. Negative issues will naturally emerge when two individuals try coming together to form a union. These issues could be due to the fact that both of you were actually exposed to different life’s experiences, environmental factors, upbringing, etc. even identical twins also exhibit differences in character wise, let alone your partner that was never related to you.

But for the common destination, you both are heading to; there should be conscious efforts in avoiding quarrels in your relationship/marriage for the sake of peace and harmony in the home.



Below, are 20 basic TIPS that can help you prevent negative issues with your partner:

Stop hiding to access his/her phone; you might just end up hurting yourself when you forcefully see the some of the crazy things on that phone that u weren’t supposed to see. What eyes do not see doesn’t affect the heart. Especially when you know you are not ready to leave the person. Just let his/her phone be!
Don’t be a social monitoring agent; this you do by adding up his/her facebook contacts to your list, checking on the pix he/she commented on and how the person responded on the comments. How many social platforms with millions of users can you keep track on? Stop giving your partner unnecessary questions to answer.
Don’t report your spouse to your friends and family; of course, your family loves you quite a lot. Hence, any time you tell them how bad your partner has treated you, you only leave them with one option and that is to hate your partner terribly. Even after both of you have resolved the differences, your friends, and family that you have involved find it difficult if not impossible to let go.
Don’t be too close to the opposite on the excuse of friendship
Stop talking about your EX in his/her presence. If the EX was so good, you would have stayed. Focus on your partner and your future together.
Erase worse imaginations from your mind; don’t think he/she is cheating when your call is not picked or when not at home.
Never feels insecure for any reason. Insecure feeling breeds low self-esteem.
Forcefully choose to trust him/her. Don’t give room for doubts even when the person seems not faithful
Don’t be too demanding of time and money. It makes him/her feel pressurized.
Don’t act too wise in dealing with your partner. You can pretend to be a fool to some of his/her actions.
Guide your ear to hear only good stuff about your spouse. Don’t give room for rumors. Even if it’s from his or her best friend, shun it! Gossips have ruined many happy homes.
Be blind to faults; focus your attention on the things that are working instead of his/her flaws.
Don’t be on a bet with someone to tempt your partner. He/she is not Jesus.
Avoid hasty decisions: 99% of actions took in anger are usually wrong. Cool down and makes sure your nerves are relaxed before taking any decision. Lest you regret it.
Make a decision never to sleep till the next morning with bitterness in your heart towards your partner.
Be humble enough to apologize. “Dear, am really sorry” is not a death sentence. Say it with all sincerity not just for the formality. It shows your strength not a weakness as many thinks.
Don’t be too hardened! Learn to forgive as fast as possible even without being apologized to. It’s a sign of maturity
Communicate rightly with your partner. You can learn it as a skill if you don’t know how best to talk
Study to know what is of values to her or what he esteemed.
Pray together; this is the most important. A home that prays together have a solid foundation which can not be brought down by love’s storm.

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Crime / Re: Mom Videos Her 3yrs Old Twins Boys Having Sex In Lagos by scarrramenga: 3:41pm On Apr 26, 2018
I'm sure she is an afonja
Romance / Re: Actress Omoni Oboli Opens Up Saying Yes After 2-weeks Of Dating by scarrramenga: 3:40pm On Apr 26, 2018
grin if I hear say she no talk yes to the first person wey manage f*ck am? Person wey no fine
Religion / Re: Jihad: Plot To Ilamize Nigeria Leaked by scarrramenga: 3:38pm On Apr 26, 2018
Give it a rest you Christian infidel
Join your pastors to f*ck your choir gals and steal money

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Romance / Re: So Being Näk3d No Longer Means Anythin? Lady Goes Näkëd To Prove Her A$$ Is Real by scarrramenga: 3:36pm On Apr 26, 2018
KingsizeD:
let's see your sister picture

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Celebrities / Re: #bbnaija: I Don’t Think Cee-c And Tobi Should Date – Tboss by scarrramenga: 12:14pm On Apr 26, 2018
angry the gal no even fine sef
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa - Why I Had Surgery by scarrramenga: 12:13pm On Apr 26, 2018
who ask this one question?
Celebrities / Re: Omowunmi Akinnifesi, Her Mother And Sisters' Family Photo by scarrramenga: 12:12pm On Apr 26, 2018
janellemonae:


This was posted just 3hrs ago on her page.
angry yea and three different nairalanders posted it before you

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Sports / Re: Cee-c Said She Has Arranged For Counselling After Her Media Tour by scarrramenga: 12:07pm On Apr 26, 2018
grin gbagaun! is her profession English Assassin?

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Celebrities / Re: I Have Been Battling Fibroid For 7 Years’ – Toke Makinwa (watch Video) by scarrramenga: 12:03pm On Apr 26, 2018
this one is just an attention seeker.
oya come come collect dick i know say you dey bored since your husband leave u, come make i pity f*ck you
Celebrities / Re: Omowunmi Akinnifesi, Her Mother And Sisters' Family Photo by scarrramenga: 12:00pm On Apr 26, 2018
angry ugh we have seen it already, dey search internet well before you post
Politics / Re: When Govt Approves $1bil To Fight Bokoharam, Sheriff Always Decamp But Why? by scarrramenga: 11:59am On Apr 26, 2018
PaulOgrady aw no reply? i guess you are busy looking for gutter to dump your dad in
why dont you just leave his body at your front gate for LAWMA? they are good at taking care of trash grin

Politics / Re: When Govt Approves $1bil To Fight Bokoharam, Sheriff Always Decamp But Why? by scarrramenga: 11:39am On Apr 26, 2018
PaulOgrady:

What animal is that?

I suspect cattle or goat but ask your father na im know e self better
Politics / Re: When Govt Approves $1bil To Fight Bokoharam, Sheriff Always Decamp But Why? by scarrramenga: 11:36am On Apr 26, 2018
PaulOgrady:


Since your dad is no more your wrinkly mother might be wanting a big deeeek.
Leave her phone number let me see if my alsatian dog would oblige.
grin lol see this penniless m*therfucker wey never see food chop wan dey own dog, if you like no talk true say na dog your mama dey f*ck to feed una make i see if i fit find more dogs to expand your mama customer base

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