Poor mynd

Floxyluv:

So, on point!!! I think, if someone truly loves you, he/she should be willing to make sacrifice for their partner. It's clear you actually love this babe in question, but do you think she feels the same way? It all boils down to that you know? All i can tell you is to be wise!!!

oh ho! Wat did u just vomit?
Cos she loves d guy she shd sacrifice wat?
He shld be d one to learn how to control his hormones if he really likes her. S.ex is not everything in a relationship dakun.

But op, is it s.ex dts causing d problem or is it dt u guys just don't understand each other. I don't understand why you av to keep feeling guilty though, shez d one dt wants a break... U were honest wt ha, dts gud. Ur conscience shd be cleared.
Now dt u want to make things work by fire by force, I think you need to talk with her. Talkin is d starting point. There, u shld find out what she really wants. If shez no longa into u, let ha go. U don't force love

Hope I was able to help. And hey, saying could anyone 'sensible' advice u is quite rude. No offense intended. U need advice u ask for it politely

joudini: Like how old are you?

all dis how old are u questions are stale jor... Find another annoying line

Op, I really understand your plight. Therez nothing more depressing in a relationship than having a guy that maltreats you and is addicted to one of these social vices. The babalawo ish shdnt be a problem, most of dem are frauds. If you take another guy to see him tomoro he could still say hez the best for you.
Have you tried talking to this your boyfriend? Have you tried getting him help? You see, as u said he loves u and is totally devoted to u... But when one starts taking drugs and what have you, their personality changes. He could do a lot of things he wouldn't do when not under the influence of substance. So I feel he needs to drop this habit first... Then you watch out for the way he treats you.
Get him help.
If he doesn't change, please leave him. There are lots of responsible guys waiting to meet you. Don't tie your self to a known disaster because of one soothsayer. You'd be blamed later if things doesn't go well.

And BTW, u guys are pretty much young, the babalawo still has a whole lot of time to change ifas mind.

xynerise:
how is that ur yanshache?

who 'liked' dis

James-dman:

whatever happened to ''everyone is entitled to his/her opinion''!
I've got the right to choose n decide what part of ur post i find interesting and in this case, it's the fact that u kept yappin abt ur success, u pointed to that fact three times!
It's almost as if, u wanted to pass a message to us in disguise.

maybe the message was for the nice Christian brothers here

@cindyrella... Lolz

Yeske, boron10... Take it easy is too small. Put ur body on d ground is better

And people actually fell for dis girls lie
U can like to go n read d oda thread of how much she n her guy loves each other.. How they'l do anythin to weather the pressure
Now, a guy that is willing to go against his parents wish in order to marry you just dropped dt bomb all of a sudden? That doesn't happen, even in yoruba movies. U guys don't talk before ni? U now decided to av a heart to heart weeks or is it days to ur wedding?
And maybe he was joking oh...
Lies...

There no biggie joor... Lots of guys might be asking her out and she just doesn't want you to see it. I have a friend that coded her fone cos of her bf, said he'l get an heart attack if he gets to read her inbox... But shez very devoted to him
So if shez actually planning to marry u... Put ur body on d ground, diaz no problem.
Its when you start suspectin shady bizness u shld worry

Isn't Op supposd to be a married man?

#gbagaun!#
On point

It doesn't always work that way. But I don't think dating a girl when shez yet to gain admission or even in her first year could lead to anything serious.
Eye never open at that time, so they just take what comes along... By the time they spend a few months or years in the university they see 'varieties' and of course... They want better.
Maybe u weren't good enough. Give her time, but I won't hold my breadth

honeric01:

Another problem women have is trying to prove that they know more than their men, husbands don't like their wives trying to do that.

Respecting does not mean licking his boot, respecting is the difference between a slave and a slave master. ( Do not fear him and also do not make him feel inferior) the in-between is what respect means.

You want to know the in-between? try studying the lives of successful women who are known around as HAPPILY MARRIED WOMEN.

no no, dt my post wasn't discouraging women respecting men. I was reffering to her topic... 'Men worshiping the ground u walk on'
If her formula was goin to be effective... D GUY would av to lick the ground a lot... According to d advertisement so she ought to clean d floor... A lot

No, that's not true Op.

pronysha: Please read and understand, don't just take the smoke frm the fire, my man is my best friend and i can only wanna get married 2 my best friend. Am talking abt being submisiv here, in my post i talk abt when i thot i knw wat that word ment bt i got it all wrong. My mum neva told me fear yo man like yo boss, she said respect him and treat him with grace lyk u do with yo boss. I respect my boss coz his higher than me & his the head of the company. Please read & understand b4 u reply.

Yessma... u can like to wash the floor with detol so when is bowing at your feet all the time he won't have infections.

I don't believe her either.
Just spewing rubbish about... Next abeg!

drnoel:

its obvious no one can ever impress killz

And why should u even try to impress him or anyone...

Respect is good... Yeah, it feeds the ego of some men. But then not all of them understands that it shld be reciprocated even though u're trying to make them see in a sublime way. But I have a big problem when it comes to the boss thingy... Why would I want to think of my husband as my boss? Why can't he be my partner (I'm not saying we're equal), but then your husband should be your best friend.
I can't tell my boss everything, I'll fear him and try not to get on his wrong side always. I don't wanna fear my husband, dakun. And I'm sure the husband won't want that either. But if its just to respect him... That's easy

Chei! Life don spoil!

Proposing and all its paparazzi myt not be necessary... But u should know the type of girl u're dealing with.
If she turns out to be the type of person that is thrilled with such formality, do it. Its no big deal.
Its not taken as weakness on ur part.
Its just being sweet... And romantic.
Girls loves romance... And if u really love d girl, therez no crime in indulging her. And urself

Mynd_44:
Okay now get back to kissing frogs

Much much better dan sparing with an eejit...

Mynd_44: ^^
Were. you not the one who ran after a car without knowing who was driving?

Yh, baby. I was d one...
There... I spoke to u, happy now?

I'm not going to drop my bag and collapse like they do in yoruba movies. I'l just say 'sorry' like as if I walked in on total strangers and den go out. If he calls me, I'l pick up and act like nothing hapnd. Den wen he brings it up I'l say 'oh, dt? Forget about it' that shld confuse him.
Bt den I'l drop my gf title by just being unavailable evrytime... I'l apologize like I dint mean to. Bt if was my bf he wld knw me well enuf to know I was removin his cheating plugs from my sockets. And den wen/if he comes to beg... He'l hear stories he'd neva heard before, nobody wld tell him to go
No need to fyt

Jeez

Whew! Most replies were pathetic, But.... I understand

Killz, expected you earlier than that... How long did it take for you to beg ur degenerating brains to put that one together? I bet u are good in nursery rhymes

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@Shymmex, u stil vomittin Sh1t

And 2buff u missed it, my face is hexagonal...

2buff: Eya kpele. Don't worry the exercise is good for you

PS: Damn straight I'll signal a girl to come over....but when she does, the conversation likely won't start with "I want to see you".
Perhaps with something a little more creative and fun....like telling her to go back again so I can "watch her walk away" from behind

This will either piss her off (if she's rigid of which I no get time for rigid babes with no sense of humor) or make her laugh and refuse if me and am dey on the same wavelength.

don't u tink dts rude? You can't get any humorous response when u treat a girl like dt o.

@Shymmex... Corpus emmesis

@Omega, yeah I know now. I don't tink I'l try it again... But den, guys dt does dt kindof thins are annoyin n arrogant. Dey shd b blamed too

I was on my way home today and then someone drove past... He slowed down as he was moving so when he parked a few meters away and waved for me to come over, I felt he was someone that knew me or somthing. So I walked n even jogged over to where he was and the next thing... 'I want to see you'
First dt line was disgusting and second, why did he have to park so far away making me trek under hot scorching sun. I just had to hiss and walk away. But after I did, I felt bad that maybe I was too rude.
Another guy actually stood at the other end of the road one time like that and told me to come ova... I acted rude too...
So now, am like is there a better way to act to guys that feels to big to walk up to where you are. I don't want to get beaten up one day