Lots of people have gotten into deep trouble simply because of High Sex Drive. Men cheat on their partners, women cheat on their partners and there is serious trouble. Sometimes this even leads to DIVORCE. Why there may not be any reasonable excuse to have extra marital sex, I believe tracking the causes of High Sex Drive may help one out two persons out there.

While High Sex Drive is not the reason people cheat, it is more of indulgence, habit wondering or wanting to exploit, when High Sex Drive is checked it can help.
I believe it can be check. But let’s look at some of the symptoms first.
• An intense urge to have sex, yet sexual activity may or may not bring pleasure.
• Sexual urges that are beyond control and that continually put one at risk for sexually transmitted diseases.
• Using sex as a way to escape from feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness, and stress.
• Continuous risky sexual behavior or behavior that’s not accepted by society, despite the potential consequences to oneself and your family.
Hyper sexuality can have serious consequences that go well beyond threatening your sexual health. These include:
• Relationship/interpersonal issues
• Difficulties at work
• Trouble with the law
• A loss of interest in things not sexual
• Low self-esteem and despair

Some of the possible scientific causes are:
1. Bipolar disorder
2. Dementia
3. Persistent genital arousal disorder
4. Rabies
5. Klüver-Bucy syndrome
6. Sexual Addiction

If you are interested in these causes and their definition and how they cause High Sex Drive simple check the details here:
https://sexmattersinmarriage..com
Shalom

zeb04:
sex is too be enjoyed by both parties.

I am against selfish sex because I read alot on these forums and I see terrible things.

mouth action for example is not a sin but it shouldn't be forced on one's partner.if you hadn't discussed during courtship, don't expect your husband or wife who is probably new to the idea to go with it and don't threaten because that makes it selfish .so also anal sex.

Very mature comment I must admit. please more mature comments because there are lots of people too shy to speak up and at the same time they are dieing, their marriages are shaking. Mouth Action (MA) is certainly a selfish act especially if one party is not down with it. Nail right on the head Mouth Action is not a sin but personally I don't envy it neither do I condemn couples who are okay with it. It is their private life.

Like I said at the beginning of this thread, DISCUSS IT with your partner if you are not cool with it, don.t allow it rock or destroy your home.

Caution:
I think the genesis of this MA is addiction to porn. They end up giving you many ideas please guys cut down on it so you don't demand unreasonable Action from your spouse same apply to ladies.

Lastly for today please don't condemn your partner if He / she wants MA help them overcome that desire if you can't give them.

Do I hear you say how?
Still Typing.....

Phema:


I grab my bible and holy water.

For real Phema you dodge my question? Am making a list of those who pretend about sex and is like you will top the list..... Typing..........

Phema:
I don't like sex at all. It is immoral.

Reason I've stayed away from it till date.

#Virgin4life

O yeah! Here comes the one holier than the creator himself, pure but came into the world through an immoral act. Please wake up! So how do you do when your system act? Or it doesn't? Really I would like to learn more from you.

kemylarge:
Im married now but i dont enjoy sex.my neibo womanizes wt girls of dfft sizes even secondary oboi if u hear d way dey shout.i keep wondering wat d feelings is like.i touch myself wen im wt my husband and i dont think its normal

I think for you you have to check it because when wondering about sex becomes more real than the actual thing, it could make you think that the one with your husband is not interesting or worse off make you want to try it with different people and this is the root cause of multiple sex partner. Touching yourself when with your husband could mean two things - 1. He doesn't turn you on or 2. Seeing and hearing your neibo with different sex people and screaming is waking the wrong desire in you. Check it, avoid that neibo and their screams not good for you.

Not enjoying sex could mean your husy is not doing it well or getting through to you. I discovered this personlly and change somethings and I was surprise my wife started responding and even said that it was better now> But she never told me all the while. Maybe you should talk to him, suggest to him, increase the pre-intimacy, maybe his mind is always too busy, maybe he too is not enjoying it, the thought goes on.....

Typing

I think 10 reasons is too small. Bros Nor marry its a free world. After all the world will be less populated. Dey find 10 good reasons.

Are You Serious? My heart beat just trippled as I read your post. Well I think if you are serious pray for serious wisdom but your mum got to know but bear i mind that it (you also) may be breaking the home. Its hard but pray for wisdom
Painful. Sorry.

Let take a simple poll?
Do you like sex?

No matter your answer there is one or two aspects of sex you may not be interested in and you should be free to communicate it to your partner.

Why do we really pretend about sex? There is too much of pretense when it comes to the issue of sex in marriage. The funny part is that both the christian or non christian have the same feelings when it comes to sex and we run into problems. The reason the divorce stats for both christian marriages and non christian is the same is because the common thing in both marriages is PRETENSE.
But the pretense I will be talking about in this post is in sex.

I am married for five years and I see that when we pretend about sex we will have issues. The moment we start opening up the better it will be.

What is the scope of sex amongst married couple? It is not specified not even in the Bible. You should be free with your partner and ask for anything you want when it comes to sex, and you should be reasonable and wise enough to respect their response. No room should be given to either the man or woman to look outside. There are diverse opinions when it comes to Mouth Action. Truth is it should be between the couples whatever you like you do in your room and leave it there. All of these is Vanity and doesn't change a thing about you. (Will talk more on this some other time)

It becomes a even bigger problem when one of the partner is not sexually active. This should be discussed promptly and addressed and solution should be sought.

The one thing I want establish in this post is Never Pretend especially to your spouse when it come to sex. Don't give the devil room to tempt you wondering what this or that will look or feel like.

Finally remember all is still vanity.
Got to roll. Will continue.....

He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.

Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.

This is a matter. But In think while the man is very wrong in viewing porn I believe the woman needs to repent.
You are married if he want Mouth Action Dose that make you a sinner and not able to speak in tongue? Listen Ma, if you hate it for hygiene reasons fine, explain to him but it doesn't in any way stop you from being holy.

You should focus on helping your man and saving your marriage even if it means playing to his vanity in marriage rather than pushing him out.
Shalom.

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Hello,
Please I am working on a little project on how to know a person loves you or if he/she is just fooling you around. Kindly drop your opinion or thought or experience.
Thanks