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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
oseod:Wow. my respect to you for saying the truth. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
XuteSleeks:Oga u all should stop speaking without discernment. How is someone filled with The Spirit also possessed,cos that's what u saying if he need deliverance. Indeed there is a Spirit behind porn,if he trully is Spirit filled all he need to do is renew his mind not go for deliverance. You all should stop glorifying demons. For a true born again filled with the spirit,he can only be influenced and not possessed. Hope u gettit. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Ayomivic(m): 2:00pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: Sister, if you are reading this post, i want to tell you, what you and your husband are facing right now is temptation which is neccessary, and compusory for all christians as long as we still remain in this sinful world. If you are not text, what proof do you have to call yourself Christian. What you need to do now is to make sure you don't fall into the temptation . Jesus was tempted but he overcame the temptation. My first advice to you is that,You should'nt have seaked advice from social forum like this.Which advice or answer do you expect to get here? On this forum, there are different kind of people ,different kind of faiths,atheists ,pagans etc are here.As a Christian, You have two things to guide you. first, the Scripure,second ,the Holy Spirit and they have done their job, that was why you know it is ungodly to do what your husband demands for. Now, the ball is in your court. Believe me, that spirit spoke to your husband too, he just wave it aside to satisfy flesh . Secondly- be firmed in your faith, in any cercumstance, in any deceisson let God be first.Always aske yourslf this quetions, " what does God want in this kind of situation" ? Does God permit this? and the holy spirit would guide you. If you are sure be firmed in your faith even to the point of death .Don't be scared your husband would sent you parking, or another woman would take your place.Let God determine your place. When we try to gather we scatter and when we try to scatter we gather. Let me ask you. If after you gave mouth action to your husband, he demand for sodomy,then three some, what if he demands to have taste of your sister,mother, would you still do it to save your marriage? That mean what you fear would surely happen if you give it to him. Remember Jesus said those who lost their life for him would find it and those who try to find their life would lost. Try to stay on the side of God then you would find out that what you are afraid of is just illusion. If you stay on the side of God you will later find out that Instead of shame,you get glory, instead of demotion ,promotion, instead of cry and sorrow, you get laugh and joy, intead of loosing you husband to devil ,you found him back in Christ . After Jesus overcame templation ,Angel came and minister unto him. Pls, sister. Don't be arrogant in the way you explaine thing to your husband,don't raise your voice at him ,don't behalve as if you are holy than him,don't see him as Devil.He is till your lovely husband who is just facing temptation, help him to find himself back. Pray for him and show more love to him. If you need to beg him ,beg him. If you need to pet him pet him, if he got angry dont join him in angry to provoke him. Humble yourself and be perfect. Pull him out of fire and let your joy returns back to you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by IBBG(m): 2:11pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
daimsy:Tnks. U're still studying there? |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by GodblessNig247(m): 2:12pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
jadelyn007: Silence is the best answer for a dumb ass like u. Tell that to Ur husband and teach Ur kids how to say shut the Bleep up. premature baby |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Siddon there dey ask Jamb question,why not deny him of sex too since your body is the temple of the holy spirit!!! Better give him mouth action who knows he may give you a head too. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Ayomivic(m): 2:43pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
xmaticguy: Aje egbodo wa eni kunra |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Ayomivic(m): 2:50pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Sunseeker:perversion is the duty you are talking about abi. If he does not marry her does that mean another person would not? 1 Like |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Gospell(m): 2:54pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:Lol dis girl no go kill me oh. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Oluabayomi1(m): 3:19pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr:And u think dt he bn in ushering dept n u in choir make u an adult in d Lord? U re kidding. so u even dey reach sitting rm? so sex no dey happen 4 thr? u no dey use dt ur mouth do gossip n back biting? na mouth action b ur headache nw? |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by naijanaso: 4:18pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
YOU ARE SIMPLY LYING. COOKING UP STORIES... |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jadelyn007(f): 5:32pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
GodblessNig247:you have the I.Q of a mosquito, what is your business with my post, if you are not comfortable with it why quote me? I don't have time to waste on 'all brawn no brain' fellows like you anyway, so SHOO! |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by creamyzone: 5:34pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
MadCow1: This poster u wan kill me with laff "house boy go dey chop her kpomo". Abeg make I comment too. Nairaland no go kill person oo. Now on a more serious note and to respond to the main topic. As a married man of over 3years I think I can give you some frank advice. My sister don't be deceived when it comes to sex, forget holiness please. God in his infinite wisdom created sex and put those wild sensation in every "normal" human being. Sex is dated back to the days of adam and eve and I can bet they didn't do missionary style only. If God wanted sex to be that way, monkeys, dogs, lions, baboons and other animals won't be doing back style(LOL). The same God put those feelings in animals too. marriage is to be "enjoyed" and not "endured" and its better to remain "single" than to marry the "wrong" person. A woman's primary assignment in marriage is to satisfy her husband sames goes to the man too. When I was courting my wife, I had to teach her mouth action and other sexual escapades I love. And she was willing to learn despite being shy and timid. Right now she gives me mouth action at will even use it as a means to get anything she desires from me. The only thing she doesn't like is 2nd round(which is understandable because she claims it will wear her out). See my sister there is no limit to what married couples should do when it comes to sex(as long as it doesn't hurt). This will spice up your marital life and boost his love for you. Some times me and my wife have our bath together and do it under the shower. I give her mouth action too and this is a woman that prior to when we got married was very laid back and reserved to sexual issues. For your man to be addicted to porn, its obvious he is into masturbation(which is bad for a married man). This indicates he is sex starved and If you don't satisfy him now, its only a matter of time for him to fall into temptation and start doing it with other women. So my sister if you really love your husband and you believe in the oath you both swore "for better for worse and till death do us part", you should satisfy his sexual desire. Even God won't be happy with you... EOD |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Utchgirl(f): 6:27pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
[quote author=braxjay post=35925052][/quote] Thanks |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Utchgirl(f): 6:27pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
[quote author=braxjay post=35925052][/quote] Thanks |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by chrizfasa(m): 10:12pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
but u use the same mouth for kissing. just try it. it will oil u.okay. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by simdam500(m): 10:42pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
I read just fp and I feel... I've heard it all.... am out sef... Jeeeeeeeerzzzzzx |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by simdam500(m): 11:10pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
VenusBetty: Eh babes, you can even watch it together at home and alone. But i don't buy the idea of him having it on his phone and laptop. You're married girl. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by simdam500(m): 11:16pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
jadelyn007: God bless you dearie. I pity girls who think blowjobs and all sorts will keep a man from cheating and I wonder how high they are willing to jump to keep a mans roving eye and wandering dickkkkkk. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by BlowJobs: 11:48pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
jadelyn007: I keep Getting mentions all the time. Na wah oo 1 Like |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by initiate: 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
This is for your husband and the rest suffering from port addiction. PORN IS STUPID. You must be ruthless. Paul told the Corinthians: "I discipline my body and make it my slave" (1 Cor. 9:27, NASB). You must ask God for the power to control your urges, and run every time you feel tempted. You should also consider that it's really dumb to look at porn, for the following reasons: 1. Porn is a huge waste of time. A 2008 study of graduate students found that 48 percent of young adult males look at porn weekly, and some view it daily. The statistics for women aren't as high, but numbers are rising. The problem is that the more porn you look at, the more you need—and porn addicts spend hours (and sometimes lots of money) looking for bigger thrills. You'd be a lot healthier if you spent that time exercising, studying or hanging out with friends. Or praying! 2. Porn imbeds images in your memory. Philippians 4:8 says: "Whatever is pure ... dwell on these things." A Christian who indulges in porn is filing thousands of unholy images in his or her brain. Those images will emerge during a conversation, during sleep or even during worship at church! Why would you want those movies showing in your brain every day? 3. Porn changes your view of sex and other people. Porn addicts begin to view people as body parts. And married men who are addicts often try to force their wives to engage in degrading acts they've seen in films or photos. I've counseled guys who find it difficult to enjoy married sex because it's not as satisfying as the porn they consumed for years before marriage. Psychologists have proven that teenage boys who watch a lot of porn become much more sexually aggressive and assume girls want to be treated roughly. 4. Porn harms your sex life. Secular counselors have released countless studies proving that the human brain is "rewired" (in other words, damaged) by watching porn. The chemical dopamine is released when we feel sexual stimulation, but a porn addict needs higher and higher levels of this to be stimulated. He will search for more hard-core porn to satisfy the urge—and in some cases will experience erectile dysfunction because he can't satisfy the need for a thrill. 5. Porn grieves the Holy Spirit. Ephesians 4:30 says: "Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God" (MEV). When you grieve someone he gets quiet. When a Christian makes sinful choices, the Lord does not condemn us but He will withdraw the sense of His presence so we become desperate for Him again. A mature Christian learns to avoid anything that offends the Holy Spirit. 6. Porn brings condemnation and shame. Many Christians go through life feeling spiritually defeated because guilt weighs them down. Romans 8:6 tells us: "For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace" (NASB). If you focus your attention on porn, you will live in a depressing spiritual rut. Get up, repent, receive forgiveness and learn to overcome your habit by trusting in His indwelling power. To find total healing you should admit your struggle to someone else (see James 5:16). Transparency brings freedom. 7. Porn is filthy. The Covenant Eyes ministry has reported that 66 percent of porn performers have herpes, and 7 percent have HIV. Porn is full of disease. It's gross. James 1:21 says: "So get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives" (NLT). The Greek word for "filth" (rhyparia) can mean "obscenity" or "moral defilement." The next time you are tempted to look at a porn site, imagine yourself standing in a latrine, up to your neck in human waste. Don't soak your soul in filth! 8. Porn will pull you into worse sexual sin. Never downplay the power of temptation. You may think you can "manage" your sin, but the truth is that porn is a beast. It is stronger than you are. It is a cruel taskmaster that will take control and make you do things you regret. I have counseled men who admitted to me that porn was their first step toward adultery. If you are struggling to stay free from porn, tape this article to your computer screen and read it before logging on. You may even want to write the words "DON'T BE STUPID" at the top of this list to remind you that purity is still important in this pornographic world. Get a grip. Use self-control. Don't let porn destroy your life—or your relationship with God. ConfessionsNgr: 2 Likes |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by XuteSleeks(m): 8:44pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
Gaidenk: K. Thanks sir. Cheers. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
XuteSleeks:Say "ok" not "k". Don't mention. 1 Like |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Kereokwu(f): 9:21pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
Ayomivic: |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by 1miccza: 10:30pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
If tomorrow this woman catch her husband with one sweet babe,she go begin go fast and pray abi? Her husband is being civil by telling her what he wants she's here claiming born again,your pastor tell you say e no dey do in wife well?? |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by scotteno(m): 11:36pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant. Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me. This is a matter. But In think while the man is very wrong in viewing porn I believe the woman needs to repent. You are married if he want Mouth Action Dose that make you a sinner and not able to speak in tongue? Listen Ma, if you hate it for hygiene reasons fine, explain to him but it doesn't in any way stop you from being holy. You should focus on helping your man and saving your marriage even if it means playing to his vanity in marriage rather than pushing him out. Shalom. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Alphabets(m): 7:39am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Hello my Sister, Please permit me before making my two points to clearly state that as children of God, both yourself and your husband owe God your first love and based on that, you must seek to please Him first before pleasing yourselves or any other person(s) in all things come what may. Having said that, my two points are as follows: 1. Every part of the body has what it is naturally to be used for (Check Romans 1: 26-28 and trust God for understanding). Not your mouth, not your anus but only your vagina is that canal in your body where your husband is expected as created by God to insert his penis. I believe his demand is the direct result of what he's given himself to over time and to me, he may still not get satisfied if you decide to heed to what you know to be wrong; then, what is the essence of doing it? Doing that, you as a lady can not enjoy the sex and in that case it is an act of selfishness for any of you to be concerned first about his or her own good before the other. I believe you will agree with me that the most sensitive part of your body to sex is your clitoris and it is located in you vagina and it is still this you vagina that can satisfy your husband the most under normal condition; that's the way God has created it. More so, there is no way you will be doing mouth job and his sperm which is meant to go through your reproductive canal will not go into your digestive canal. This is part of what give birth to many of the terrible sexual diseases that we see today, please do not do that which is capable of putting you in bondage. You can not pattern your marriage after the practice of ungodly people! 2. Please pray for your husband. He needs to be delivered and as soon as possible. A strange spirit is in him, his thirst as a son of God is outrageous. Humbly relate with him, he seriously needs your humble, sincere and effectual prayers (you could do it with fasting); God will answer you. You need only God, His word, His Spirit's help and godly advises to save your marriage. I know you now have tens of them with you but don't give in to wrong advices please. Trust God to help you Sister! This is a test which you must not fail. Your husband is down and he needs your help as his wife (Eccl. 4: 10-12). God never saw Adam and Eve as losing it yet until Adam joined his wife to be deceived. Don't be deceived! Please think well about it. MAY GOD HELP YOU! |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by PasNina(m): 6:41pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
[quote author=anumide post=35926747][/quote] Get_in |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by anumide(f): 7:38pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
PasNina:Excuse me, is everything ok? [quote author=PasNina post=36014236] |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by PasNina(m): 8:00pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
anumide:Nope .... everything is not ok ma'am. |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by anumide(f): 8:05pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
PasNina:ok, so how can I help you? |
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by PasNina(m): 8:07pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
anumide:Ahba! U too take life serious oo. Ejoor ... Anyways just stop hugging freely. Happy weekend. |
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