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@obi1kenobi

. I have asked you twice and you avoided it - so one of your evils of feminism is women getting off their arses to work? They should be there to service your every pleasure and feed your ego and bear children as your personal breeding livestock and sexx machine - that is all they are good for right? grin

He avoids questions that exposes his duplicity

Mindfulness:
When Black men celebrate a racist (Dana from the TEA PARTY) in order to put Black women in place, you then know why it has been so easy for the white man to dominate, oppress and exploit them. Bunch of re*tards.

it’s that mentality of “instead of seeing you break through in life, I’d rather pull you down even it means staying down with you”.

That’s the same reason why some slowpoke Nigerians love Donald Trump. Never mind that the only thing he hates more than women and gays are black men from any part of the world. They love him like that because he shares some of their prejudices.

Fearlez:
Your last post was falsely ascribing a position to me only to ask me my position again.
This thread isn't about feminism nah, it's about your god's duplicity and attention-craving habits.

Why asking me a moronic question to cure your boredom and activate your cyber maladaptation?

Your post ascribed a position to you. But then your posts are contradictory so I’m asking you to clarify your stand.

Still waiting for a yes or no.

Yes or no questions are easy to use in identifying lack of integrity in a poster. They usually can’t say yes or no because it exposes them for who they truly are. All one ver gets is a dance around the subject just like you’re doing. When you simply type yes or no.

It’s not even a complicated question. But you can’t answer because you know your true stand is for the oppression and continued marginalization of women. You brought up the ‘real issues’ that chimamanda isn’t supposedly focusing on only to use them to criticize her, not because you care about those real issues but because you will find any excuses to try and shut down anyone who is a feminist even if means pretending to care for a split second.

Anyone who cares about the real issues women face is undoubtedly a feminist. But you’re not. So why are concerned about how she does her feminism since you don’t care if women keep being marginalized or not.

And you have the nerve to call someone else a hypocrite. very LAUGHABLE

Fearlez:
I could feel it; and now this boring, badly programmed Ugandan virus is looking so desperately for an internet activity to the point it forces words into my mouth.

Loneliness is bad thing.

Is that a yes or no?

Do you agree there’s a need for feminism seeing as you recognize the marginalization of women in some Nigerian cultures.

It’s really simple. Yes or No

Have a three.some with two guys.

You will regret not doing it before getting married

Slow cooker ribs served with Chinese take out.

I didn’t make the Chinese but I made the ribs

jagugu88li:
Enjoy...

yum

Fearlez:
@ seahawk, open a separate thread for your curiosity or go get warm with Google.

Just As expected.

You’re against feminism when it suits you. and you’re for it when you’re trying to insult a supposedly ‘pseudo feminist’ because she’s allegedly not being feminist enough instead she’s fighting the lesser issues.

Make up your mind.

UjuJoan2:
I wouldn't bother with that one if I were you.

Except you're in the mood for barkings from a rabid Dog.

I’m just curious as to what his response will be.
I’m anticipating something like:

“Chimamanda needs to focus on real issues like FGM and discrimination against women in her culture but feminism is bad so let’s just leave the women to keep being oppressed since feminism is bad”.

Fearlez:
Thanks for not pretending to defend the points I raised. At least you look less stupid than you were at the beginning.

do you agree that there’s a need for feminism giving ( as you described ) that igbo women are treated poorly according to tradition even in their fathers houses.

I’m not talking about chimamanda right now
Just a yes or no answer.

Do. you. agree. that. there. is. a. need. for. feminism?

icamello:
Thank you very much. We will stay away as you have advised. I sincerely do not have issues with him having baby mamas or girlfriends or his lifestyle. That’s his cross. While my mum was with him, he would bring his girlfriends home to sleep with them. He would even insult my mum right before these girls lol. But when it gets to the point of threatening our lives, it only makes sense I seek help and being an evil person I know he is, they aren’t empty threats.

Thanks again.

Wow. Just wow.

You all together have the patience of saints.

Forgive them for?

He’s probably an **** because he knows no matter the pain he causes them, people like you will make them the bad guys and turn him to the god who needs to be appeased despite being malevolent. This is wickedness disguised as good advice. You think they will offend God for not laying down to be further trampled? I wonder the kind of god you worship.

“Every Home faces challenges and bla bla bla” only when it’s the man who’s being a monster.

Otherwise it would have been “send the bittch packing” and things similar to that, should his mom be the one who did a 10th if he did.

You think the God you’re using to justify your wicked post is a foolish being who can’t see through human selfishness in using his name to propagate evil. Better repent .

moscobabs:
Dear friend, I understand how u feel but i will advice u not to act like a BASTARD if truly u know u were given birth by this Man, If im right ur mum seems to be the first wife and yu are firstborn of this man, beliv me ur mum still loves this man irrespective of his altitude towards her.

The only sacrifice u can make for this woman is to seek for God wisdom, do not meddle into their affairs aggressively. Call ur dad on phone that u want to see him.if he refuses, beg him till he gives u attention. Meet him and prostrate for him (weda u are yoruba or not) tell him to forgive u and ur mum , u dont need to remind him the bad he did to u and ur sister or mum, just ask him u want the family to reunite wat u need is PEACE my brother, U dont have to need anything from him before u recognise him as ur father . With this ur dad will come to his senses and will embrace u, ur sister and mum back to the house. Ur mum has already made u and ur sibling the only contribution u need from ur dad is blessing so all ur mum efforts will not be in vain.

Do not offend God via ur Dad , every homes face different challenges

Its well with u bro.

Your dad is just a little worse than most Nigerian men. Majority of them are that way. The people you want to report him to probably oppress their wives, cheat on them, have baby mamas outside of marriage.

Encourage your mom to cut ties with him for good. And you guys stay away from him. No drama

Oh wow. But I thought ‘THE WEST’ always favors the woman and sends the man out without anything. How dare you post this? It goes against the alarmist propaganda against feminism. We will not have it! Change your post.

No feminist is against love, caring for a partner or cooking. What they are against is any situation that takes away the choice to do or not do so.

I’m tired of ignorant stuff like this being peddled around by half baked dummies who just want to contribute to a topic even when they have no clue what it’s about.

cruchenutii:
I cannot use my immediate environment to properly judge & remember, Online != offline.

Women may brag & brag online about Feminism but when you meet them offline, they will love you, cook for you, help you with your chores etc.
So honestly, No Proper research or survey has been conducted over this issue.

So you agree there’s a need for feminism?

Fearlez:
Uju, you're an Igbo girl and I know you can't inherit your father's land except if he is so gracious to will it to you. Even at that, if it's an inherited land, you will still be forbidden from taking possession of it.

There's no Igbo female monarch and you women are still forbidden in taking part in family (umunna) meetings.

So why is your saviour abandoning your perpetual slavery and prating about men holding doors for women in onyibo country?

Don't you think your condition is worse off and requires UN intervention?

So Cococandy was banned but the instigator was left to keep roaming around on NL?

mmm. No surprise there. Not the first time. Thanks for confirming your prejudices dear supposedly impartial moderators.

Mmm

Unfortunately for you, she can live in HER OWN HOUSE before and after marriage regardless of which name she chooses to bear. Your sexism can’t change that..

HARDDON:
A woman only live in two places all her life time:

In her father's house or her husband's.

The name she bears, bear testimony to this.

So whether she rent an apartment or not, she is still living with her father, whose name she bears. u dig?

Amen

pocohantas:
I will rather shoot myself in the head than do this
Not with all I read these days, not with threads like this . I owe myself and my kids a good life. I will work for that life.

Idiot

Vizzy4u:
bloggers or not. This her skirt wey be like say d material finish as they sow am sef fit make even a madman with phd rape her. Rape is nt gud bcoz it makes people to think bad of us(men). However, what i always say is DRESSING matters alot. If i see any skimpy dressed lady raped, me no go sympathise ooo. The way u dress is the way u will be addresed #worldcupVibes

Or she can rent her own house and live comfortably. She doesn’t have to be in her father’s hut.

HARDDON:
Oh yea?

The only wisdom women would wear is that of remaining single all their lives.

You cant bring a feminist mentality and baggage, no matter how evolved you think the world has, into a man's home . So long as a HE, still with the evolution of the world, pays some huge sums as YOUR BRIDE PRICE, you cant run your show the way you deep fit.

If not, be ready to stay in your father's hut!

Do you by chance know that the woman’s genes also make up part of the offspring and are carried on and on as long the offspring reproduces until the end of time?

Ignoramus

amethystnnty1:
Good point!

People like to talk about how we've evolved from the lower animal but our fundamentals hasn't changed. The primary role of a woman is the procreation and preservation of the man's genetic legacy while the primary role of a man is provision for and protection of the woman and their legacy.

They recently started doing that and I’m glad.
These boys are evil minded

layzie:
Church marriage is recognised by law and I don't think that there is any extra right provided by court marriage that is not inherent in church marriage. They are both under common law...received English law. Lawyers please come in here and clarify this issue.

100 perfect true. Only evil men refuse court marriage because they want to enslave their wives.

valdovas:
It's things like this that make me not want to have a female child. Many men these these have an evil mentality.
I for one cannot give my daughter out in marriage to a man that refuses court marriage.
Traditional/church/mosque marriage alone does not recognize the rights of a woman as a human being, that is where you see a mad man get up in the middle of the night and throw his wife's things out because of one girlfriend that gives him bedroom acrobatics and the wife who might have been loyal to him from day one is just discarded like thrash and her children forcibly taken from her.

Men that refuse court marriage cannot be trusted.
He could have evil intentions towards her, maybe he is planning to cheat endlessly and even infect her and bring his baby mama's into her matrimonial home because he knows that she will not want to file for divorce because she does not want to lose her kids.


Women help yourselves and insist on court marriage if you don't want to lose your children to an evil husband in future.

So you evil people think it’s okay to divorce a woman who you probably insisted she stay home and raise your kids and leave her with nothing after you ruined her chances of building a career?

It will never be well with anyone who thinks this way. In Jesus name.
God does not like wickedness so he won’t reward your work. you won’t be successful if you plan to take away someone else’s success because of a supposed role she should play in the family and then turn around to punish her for doing the thing she was told she’s supposed to do.

Umu ekwensu (devil’s children).

Akposy:
Hello guys! It's been a while now.
Where is Brikito Loveymom Cococandy Ronald17, Jaguagu et all. Missed u all.

I am inviting you all for my convocation tomorrow! Jah bless....

Food pics coming soon

Hi akposy. It’s coco

Congratulations dude. I’m happy for you. You did it. Best of luck in your future endeavors

I get banned all the time because my main account is dedicated to fighting such posts. Nairaland condones them. Don’t even expect the management of this forum to do anything about it.

slap1:
Nairaland should really buckle up and enforce some rules. So much misogynistic and homophobic posts and comments everywhere! There are posts that should deserve outright ban, even if for 48 hours.

People react to things differently. While someone may laugh over a post like that, another may feel deeply wounded and depressed about it. And with more of such posts, someone might be driven to the point of extreme depression or suicide.

But aren’t they?

A minor majority (even as little as 10% of the study population) usually paints the rest of the group bad.
It’s worse because the rest of the group (the bigger majority) who even though they can’t do such or even dream of doing such, pretend like they don’t know the problem and the solution.
Thereby making themselves complicit. So...

adorable29:
Forget the age. If she had a weavon on and was more light skinned, they would have cursed her in her death and say she automatically deserved to die for dating a yahoo boy who killed her for rituals.

Even if by a long stretch, they guessed right, Instead of it to be about the evil act and the call out against ritualist it will be about cussing the dead girl who fell in love with a guy she never knew will harm her talkless of kill her.

Its a pity that our men are giving Nigerians a bad name because when foreigners who want to know about this country research online, the search engine routes them straight to nairaland which consist of mostly lunatics. They probably thus start to think our men are mostly unemphatic thoughtless unintelligent monsters who have no single regard for women .

If she was even a little bit older (like two years or more), they would have said she probably deserved it because she must have followed a man and it led to that.

adorable29:
Those saying the OBVIOUS story doesn't add up, may your younger sisters and baby daughters meet this fate unless you loosen your hardened evil hearts.
F.ucking heartless bast.a.rds!

LazyNairalander:
don't bring in gender into this both sex are wicked in this our contemporary world.

Mm I hear you.

Like if it was a woman or a group of women who were suspected to have done this to her , gender wouldn’t be all over this thread including your post. You want me to go to the front page of this forum and start tagging you in all the threads where men are the culprits so you can see the pattern that many of you are so conveniently blind to? You will get tired.

I’m calling it as I see. 95% of violent crimes all over the world are committed by men and it high time everyone stopped ignoring that like it doesn’t matter.

It doesn’t matter if it’s igbo rapist, Yoruba ritualist, Fulani herdsmen or foreign expatriates that did this. They all have one thing in common: penis and an attitude of entitlement that makes them feel women owe them their bodies.

THAT IS THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM!

Men are the biggest problem this world has

LazyNairalander:
wicked people everywhere..! Check my SIGNATURE

wicked men you mean