Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FRSC Recruitment: Tattoos, Bow & K Legs, Married, Pregnant Women Disqualified by Seahawk: 7:51pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
This stupid service arm needs to be sued for all they are worth Bunch of archaic unintelligent crumps. In this day and age married women are being discriminated against? |
Family › Re: The Rate At Which Married Women Cheat Is Becoming Outrageous by Seahawk: 3:36pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
I’m sorry. I don’t think women are cheating more now. They are just less caring of biased judgment against them. If men have always been cheating, who have they been cheating with? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 1:14pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
Fyngal1: Lol. This one that you are using seahawk., Where is cococandy ? resting. She worked too hard  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 1:07pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
In addition, lining your pan with foil or parchment paper can help reduce stickiness AgbenuAnna: Simeon should help my life 1-give receipe to use that involves cinnamon powder before it expires 2-what and what can I use white vinegar for 3-I baked chicken pie last week and it was sticking to the oven tray How well do I grease the pan to avoid this Breadplanets Datascience Cococandy Funlord Cutiereborn Everybody help a sister before I waste my things |
Family › Re: I Lost My Junior Brother Yesterday, Please Console Me In Your Own Way by Seahawk: 6:13am On Sep 25, 2018 |
Hugs my dear.
I can’t even imagine your pain. So sorry for your loss. If he died on the way to the hospital, he would have probably died in the hospital too. I know self blame is one thing people do when in grief but it’s honestly not your fault no matter how you look at it.
I wish you strength and courage. I know it must suck |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 4:07am On Sep 25, 2018 |
Go and learn how to cook. Nobody is here to showcase their talent for you to pick a wife. FRoosevelt: Good-looking young women you've got there, and also a couple of others on here.
Now let's sit back and observe their culinary prowess, shall we??  |
Food › Re: My Homemade Meat Pie Recipe by Seahawk: 5:37pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
Danhumprey: Cococandy, please can I talk to you in private. Through mail. It's urgent. I can’t access that email anymore. I lost the password and I no longer use the phone number I used to open it. Sorry Can you give me a general idea of what it’s about? |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 7:02pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Acidosis: I did and I will say it again. I'm tempted to call you 'lazy' but I won't (for personal reasons). mtchew You clearly have no clue what marriage entails. Imagine saying marriage doesn’t increase responsibilities |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Cos I Got A Property Behind His Back. by Seahawk: 3:23pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
I know this is a made up story but may we never marry destiny killers whose egos are more important than the wellbeing of the household. Amen
Someone built a house for you. Furnished it and put your name on the title. And gave it you as surprise family gift. And now they have to beg for you forgiveness because she didn’t foresee how upsetting it would be to your ego to have a woman achieve something good
Spits. Enemy of progress.
This kind of husband will do anything he can to block his wife from rising up in life because she might be more successful than him. It’s a typical case “of instead of the woman to succeed, let us all die in penury”. |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Cos I Got A Property Behind His Back. by Seahawk: 3:18pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Smh Silly Femsyn: Expected response from the man. African women need to understand, you don't do these things.
He does the "hefty" things in the house. From the write up, I don't think you ever really supported him for school fees (maybe once). Yet you complain him never having enough. How would he? Hello!!!! Family responsibilities have taken all of it, while you save and build a house for him?
A round of applause. Only a bastard husband will accept such bullcrap.
However, I don't think it should get to the level of divorce, but even at that, the marriage may never remain the same again.
Waiting for the feminists and misogynistic champions to support the woman. |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: Bride Price Should Be Abolished, I'm Not A Fan Of It by Seahawk: 3:07pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
That’s because you’re not interested in tradition or culture for its sake. Only when it serves your over inflated ego. You’re interested in any practice that tells you it’s okay to have a slave for a wife. You like the bride price because you believe once you pay it, the person you’re getting married to has no choice but to be a voiceless zombie who can’t question your opinions (even though they will undoubtedly be asinine). Typical traits of a sociopath donstan18: Social media opinions cannot change tradition, we should stop deceiving ourselves with these bride price blah blah blah.
If as a man,you are charged higher than you can pay to marry, you simply back-off since you can't afford it, not ranting because of your inability to meet up the needed requirements, afterall some tribes don't charge high.
And as a woman, once a man pay your bride price to wife you, have it in mind that your submissiveness isn't negotiable.
Tradition is tradition and social media can't change it. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: Bride Price Should Be Abolished, I'm Not A Fan Of It by Seahawk: 3:02pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
We can always have new traditions that don’t involve exchanging money Criis: When we do away with all our customs and tradition, I wonder what will be left, we'll just be living on borrowed identity.
The problem is not the idea of the bride price, it's the exorbitant amounts being charged by the bride's family. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: Bride Price Should Be Abolished, I'm Not A Fan Of It by Seahawk: 3:01pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
I’m not a fan either
It’s men’s way of exerting ownership over women. They are the ones keeping the tradition alive even though they pretend they don’t like it in order to blame women and make women feel guilty 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:52pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Yea I heard that nurses in the UK aren’t paid their worth. It’s unfair. You ladies and gentlemen need to ask for what’s your due. Nurses are too valuable for that shiz 1Sharon: You aren't getting me. I am comparing nursing and a nanny when it comes to the looking after aspect of ppl and SOMETIMES the cleaning up after when there is no nursing assistant.
What does the term get hands dirty mean? I simply mean putting in elbow grease when there's no help. I am not being condescending at all. Don't assume. Nurses here are overworked and the pay isn't all that, so it's not about money.
Don't forget we are talking about this 50 year old Nanny and the OP said she isn't overworked |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:47pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Acidosis: There are no chores to be done. Whoever did the chores when they were both single and working should continue to do it. Marriage does not come with extra responsibilities.
If the need to rest is really and medically important, she would tender her resignation at work (unless she holds a larger percentage of financial responsibilities at home). He didn’t just say that.  |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:32pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
1Sharon: Rubbish post. Women in the west hardly have maids, ask how they do it. You lot are so entitled  They are not entitled They have big babies called husbands that can’t lift a finger lest their ego deflates |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:31pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Always looking for an excuse to hate on women and justify infidelity  Acidosis: Ladies of nowadays really need to stop digesting everything they learn from their mothers. It is not a must to have a maid. Most of the time, these women can't even afford the services of the maid, yet prefer to leave the house in order to be classified as working class-working woman. They come back home after 30 days of hustle with less than 100k salary.
Maid stays home, cook, relax, watch Africa Magic and at the end of the month, gets paid between 30-40k with other tips. ...because she works less, sometimes oga can even decide to switch after wifey must have given him a line up of complaints about body ache.
I really don't understand why women are so obsessed with maids. |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:29pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Please pay her more realtalk19: God bless my kids nanny. I have known her for four years. A widow in her early 50s who is struggling to keep busy. I pay her 'peanuts' but the care she gives my kids is mind calming. She resumes every Monday morning 6:30am and leaves on Fridays when I get back from work, washes me and the kids clothes and takes my elder child to school while she looks after the younger who is still 1yr +. I do the cooking and keep in the freezer while she prepares eba or rice for dinner whenever I get late from work. Asides from salary I try to appriciate her with tins I know she nids eg foodstuffs, gifts or impromptu t- fare or credit Mony.
Getting a good nanny is luck and God's grace. Op should try to always cook her meals and keep in the freezer.she shuldnt be left to do everything and still take care of tins. Don't forget she may not be able to go Tru much stress and also taking advantage of you and hubby. |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:26pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
1Sharon: Oh pls. Ask women in the west how they cope without maids Helpful husbands. That’s how women in the West cope. Not the ones waiting to be served hand and foot. I totally understand why Nigerian women go for maids. |
Family › Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:19pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
I respect u so much the reason why I will stop here, had it been u were younger, I would have hit u real hard for all these u have said. This was so out of line omg. OP you have issues And your househelp has issues as well. In fact she has a lot of issues and I don’t think she is ready for the job |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Says It's Wrong To Use Feminism As An Excuse To Insult A Man by Seahawk: 2:12pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Where did I say marriage is archaic? You just decided on your own to assume I said that huh? Lack of understanding Make una dey insult una self rock003: So, marriage is archaic, yet those who stuffed your brain with that notion are married? Why are you intentionally deceiving yourself Now?
It remind me of Islamic clerics that deceive suicide bombers with 72 virgins in heaven. Strangely enough, the Islamic clerics too refuse to die, as if they too don't want to enjoy 72 virgins.
Use your head and stop fooling yourself. By the time you realise that you've been deceived, it may be too late for you to retrace your steps. please don't be stupid for your own sake. Swallowing every rubbish people teach you on social media will destroy your life. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Says It's Wrong To Use Feminism As An Excuse To Insult A Man by Seahawk: 12:50am On Sep 23, 2018 |
gaby: Who is this cattarh...??
Where abouts did you crawl out from at this unholy hour of the night...?
Refrain from quoting me please I don't indulge knuckleheads like you...
E be like say you wan chop swear sleep dis night ...
Idiot quoting me and drooling all over the thread.. A prime example of what I was talking about You’re the ones insulting yourselves with your low IQ and obvious inability to convey intelligence in your expressions JasonScoolari: Another waste`d pussy.
#spits |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Says It's Wrong To Use Feminism As An Excuse To Insult A Man by Seahawk: 12:01am On Sep 23, 2018 |
You’re the ones insulting yourselves You feel insulted by any truths that challenge your archaic opinions. And your lack of understanding makes it even more comical rock003: Those who preach feminism to you are having male partners. Chimanda is married with kids. What of you? Doing empty follow follow and fooling yourself? Only an idiot will allow what she hears on social media to control her life. Yes, only an idiot. [q JasonScoolari: I hope my dumb friend called AmazonTopaz/Ladyhippolyta88 can learn from her mentor. daveP: Madam you're so high you don't know how lower you can stoop. Perhaps the Super Kola hole is just the beginning for your madness. Ategberoson: nonsense
feminism in Nigeria is a mere word and a joke on ladies. feminism is sththese ladies hide to air their grievances and displeasure for a guy that hurt/maltreated, they failed to examine him but will rush there online splitting feminism gaby: Aunty Chi, this might just be coming a tad too late I'm afraid. Your converts have taken your initial gospel, hook, line and sinker. I am very sure they won't be reading this from you because they are already in flight and at an altitude impossible to make a detour from.
Enjoy my siggy 3 Likes |
Celebrities › Re: "I'm A Woman, I Support Wizkid, Shola Get A Life & Fend For Your Son" -Lady Says by Seahawk: 3:55pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Stupid ignorant girl |
Career › Re: Should I Leave My N200k Job For Abroad Job? by Seahawk: 3:47pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Because women are toys for you to play in your scheme of life right? I hope the new girlfriend he impregnates and abandons in order to satisfy his parents will be related to you. Wicked person Johnsown1: Brother your case is as easy as laughing, as an igbo man, i would advice you to search for a greener pasture abroad as for your parent, you don't need to defy them, get your girlfriend, impregnant her (after all your parent need your replacement incase you close up) and go abroad. |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid’s Ex, Tania Omotayo Does The “I Dodged The Bullet Dance” by Seahawk: 3:24pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Ategberoson: she can dance from now till tomorrow doesn't mean she's not one of wizkid used toy
you feminist can continue disgracing yourself there. tell these mumu feminist to open their legs, na borehole you go see for some legs
Nigeria ladies don't know the literary and practical meaning of feminism Not an ounce of sense in this comment |
Health › Re: 1.8m Abortions Committed By Nigerian Women In 2017 — PMA2020 by Seahawk: 7:49am On Sep 22, 2018*. Modified: 3:12pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
ifymadu: Why won’t I when I’m married? yea. And you got married before ever having sexual relationships huh? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Seahawk: 5:34am On Sep 22, 2018 |
 jagugu88li: Hian, e don ripe 
Btw, how do I pronounce HIAN. Is it he-en, high-ann, he-yarn, he-yen.
Let me go and select from my gallary, lunch loading soon. |
Health › Re: 1.8m Abortions Committed By Nigerian Women In 2017 — PMA2020 by Seahawk: 3:43am On Sep 22, 2018 |
Oh please shut up. After typing nonsense now you all will still and have unprotected sex. Hypocrites Seunkings02: Really? Well, not surprised you are among the 1.8 millions, as your name implies you don do am to the extent that your pussy don rotten.
If you cannot use protection why killing the innocent child... SMH Righteousness89: Why don't desist from Immorality than getting in a Killing an Innocent child.. Any child you abort makes u a Murderer... and you'll pay for it o ifymadu: Abi? The worse thing is that majority of the 1.8 million will now end up in nairaland to insult their elders and post rubbish. Teeboi56: Tuale to them Haaaaaa Hell fire is expecting them soonest Friend01: And we have these kind of day light vampires in human flesh roaming our streets with their deceptive and seductive body parts. We are finished!
Those babies will come on the day of resurrection to drag you into hell if you have indeed done such or encouraged someone to do same.
Imagine if your mother had aborted you will you be here to type this rubbish? |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo Shines As She Steps Out In Style by Seahawk: 9:23pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
BruncleZuma: Says the one looking for unemployed people on Nairaland by being on Nairaland...please go sell dried fruits or whatever it is you're doing on NL okay you’re on NL with various accounts looking for who to scam? |
Health › Re: 1.8m Abortions Committed By Nigerian Women In 2017 — PMA2020 by Seahawk: 5:23pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
If true, this statistics should cause consideration for legalization of abortion. As long as people have sex, pregnancies will always occur. Legal abortion is safer than illegal abortions. |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo Shines As She Steps Out In Style by Seahawk: 5:00pm On Sep 21, 2018 |
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