SeeWahala:


Deputy president of the same ohanaeze ndi igbo is an ikwerre man

So what was your grouse again? 🤔

Peacefulplace:
People have told me to leave but I love him so much that I don't think I can do that.

My husband is my soulmate and we have had many disagreements before but still end up making up in the end.


He is a very loving man. The kindest man I have ever met. He always talks so dearly about me and will always makes sure I am okay. His sister and family are also so sweet and understanding.

But today he did something he has never done to me. We had a fight. I shut the door and went to look at his phone. I found some casual flirting on Instagram, and i think it was yahoo boy behavior. To get some little money in his hands. When I found out, I was very angry. I slammed his phone down on the floor not thinking and out of anger I make crack in screen. My husband wanted his phone back so he broke the door down to get it because I did not open door for him. When he saw the crack on screen, he threw the phone at my face and it hurt my nose.. it was paining me. He immediately said sorry and begged me not to leave. He kissed me and cried because he himself was in shock that he hurt me. He never hurt me before I swear on my life na. He is such a good sweet man that we both shocked 😲. It was to much. I accepted and forgive him. Now he say to move on and let's forget about all this and try to do our for the marriage. Us both need to change and be better to each other. He want to go to church and ask for forgiveness. I believe this was a mistake and he is not the evil I saw today. But when I ask my close female friends, they tell me I need to run far from him and that he is very bad for that he did..

But I don't want to give up on our marriage or chance for family . He treats me so well na. I don want to tell anyone else what happened. Dey may say many theories but don know our love for each other you understand..


Just some small advice I am asking .. I beg

Umueme:


Couldn't comprehend my subs?
Tired of insults? I have your time. Have nothing doing now. Come talk werey

MySolace:

Just listen to urself...

Listen wen succesful enterprenuer and economists talk... Dey knw d ettiques to minimise cost.

I wish theres a way to test peoples inteligent quotient before dey're allowed to drop comment.

cyrusmillz:


Let's be honest with ourselves . We lost the chance when Aston villa got that victory . As much as I'll love us to win the league , I don't like to get my hopes up.

BadBradley:
ask your master why they haven't charged him to court yet.

Ask your master why the claimant hasn't died FIJ yet.

Ask your master for proof because FIJ mentioned the very restaurant in Abuja that they claim the government agent transferred public money to

I think they should refute the claims and allegations publicly instead of using police to intimate the reporter.

For 3 days the police hasn't yet sued or arraigned?

Common, you can be this blind and bold

Lanretoye:
Useless lawyer of criminals,where Dey cashout na to Dey solicit for looters,,criminals etc,I have heard in win a case in a very long time

SpiritualWealth:
Maybe It Was Because I Didnt Upload The Picture of The Conjoined Twins That I Came Across The Other Day I Created This Thread.


Probably If I Had Uploaded It; This Thread Would Have Attracted Some More Thinking Minds.
Bros stop winning me joor
Na Xtians God talk said he made us like his image naw...
Na Dem get conjure(3in1) na...


Well, Below is The Picture of The Conjoined Twins That I Came Across Online.

pquaver:


Hmmm.. Make i no talk.. We all the mouth my brothers dey make.. Like say ebin pa wa oo no dey home base...

Auxtan:


I have been praying to have her back how ever God will do it. She's really the one my heart wants.

Sadly she's in a new relationship now with a 30yo pastor.

But thankfully the pastor has said intimacy will be after marriage and they are not in the same city.

We still talk on phone but she says she feels nothing for me anymore and that she's in a new relationship and can't just leave.

I am so sad that I lost my treasure as I call her. I am her first intimate partner. For 2+ months now I have been carrying a heavy heart.

janeedema:
Ignoramus.

You are looking at the wife of the owner of Iroko TV. She is the executive producer of most videos you pay cable to watch on ROK TV. If she acts, she does it for fun not for money or fame.

quote author=fredoooooo post=129779598] Another attention seeker .. na everything this one deyv ake look for attention..
Go back to acting and its not working, no need to dey look for attention .. werey

banjicom:


Which one be arsenal will never smell d epl cup? Den tell you say arsenal never win epl cup before? Abi which kind yeye talk be dis.

Okoroawusa:

Nne, my statement is not a personal thing to you but a generalized one.
On your comment about voting PDP since 1999. Can you say that it was an Igbo presidency? Did Igbos fare better in those governments as citizens and stakeholders?
Also when you talk about good governance you make it seem like you are not a Nigerian. Nigerian politics is always about political power, power sharing and ethnicity and everyone including you wants your tribesman to be in power. Let's not pretend about that.
In the case of Nnamdi Kanu, he got the kind of support he got because of 2015. Igbos saw his emergence as a form of the continued opposition to the Buhari government, APC and the loss of the 2015 election by the person Igbos supported. It wasn't about Biafra. No Igbo was and is still ready to go anywhere. But we never bargained that the issue of Nnamdi Kanu will come around and bite us in the as.s in the form of insecurity in the SE. Yagazie nwannem nwanyi. Ekwugo too much.

shugamummy:
Yes, see how you dodged the real issue again and started blabbing what Awolowo and Tinubu has been feeding you people since time immemorial. I did not blame you because, after reading There was a country I concluded that Yorubas are terrible bigots. They won't change so soon and their Masters Fulani has strong control over their thinking. Let me even make something clear to you, I don't know if you are more than 30yrs now but I bet you, you will clock 60yrs and won't even see this project pass Edo coastal waters not to talk of reaching Rivers State. I promise you, if by your 60yrs you can drive from Lagos to Calabar on this coastal road. Just name any country you want to visit and I will sponsor it.

Gerhards:





Anybody who disagree with you must be a liar, you talk like a kid

Wainey:
guy rest, u are not anioma

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

AqualinaXYZ:
Let the country continue burning






If you too beg pikin to get sense and he no gree you leave am make he put hand for fire





We don beg una tire to vote right una no hear so make una face the consequences

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

Daniel499:
My brother true talk...the average woman sees a man like an ATM machine to be financially exploited.

Opanka44:


Your mother toto

Barims:



Another stupid talk

Proudman1:
So, I received a good amount of money into my first bank account.

And they automatically freeze the account.

Something less than 100k.

So, I went to the bank to find out what the issue was about and they said I need to do KYC documentation.

My NIN and BVN are already with this people and I've been using this same account since 2015!

Ok, let me do the KYC na, they say my name doesn't match and I need to swear affidavit.

I went to court to do affidavit and then they submitted it and ask me to come back next week Wednesday.

The thing sha weak me because I no get any money to sustain myself till that Wednesday.

But the worst is the utility bill requirements. The support ask me to come with NEPA bill. I told her that I stay in the university hostel.

The next thing she said was that I should go to the university management and collect their NEPA bill and bring it to them

I was like how in hell will that be possible? 🤷

Right now, I don't know what step to take sha. Because who for school management go gree give student school NEPA bill to go complete the student's bank account?

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

buzquet:
Bro, you should not be ashamed. Just man up, apologise briefly to your wife. Don't be too emotional about it. She will constantly drag you into her emotional frame because of the issue.. resist the urge to explain. Whoever she has reported you to, if they call you, just apologise briefly and move on. Don't explain too much for anybody. Remain firm as a man you be. She will come around.


Please don't make mistake of trying to please her too much. Just make sure you pay all the bills as you dey pay am. Don't panic because if you panic, you will press self destruction button.


Women don't care about morality, they only care about if you are Strong Or Weak. If you are Strong, she will forgive you and move on. But If you are weak, she will severally punish you for it till death do una part. Stand strong, sir