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Ijawboi: my school uses projector,
My environment is conducive for learning.. Wait wait y I dey even reply you, no be S.A wey person shot him wife for bathroom? Abeg relax joor. Idiat. Go buy land for deir na. Mumu

Lmmaooooo.... many are mad but few roam the street.

Mrs chaircover.

The wife is using the kids as no weapon fashion againt my pant tonight shall prosper.

mrs debrief...


No wahala. I understamd you perfectly well. Like i always say, 70% of nigerian men dont know what they call maturity. They think being mature is all about age and looks. I dont blame the OP thou, he forget so soon that those era of my wife must do what i say or she must obey me at any giving time. Lol.

Firsr the Op must learn what being a man is all bout, its not just coming home and expect your food on the table and still expect that poor woman that uses (all her valuable time to prepare your dinner, take care of the kids and clean the house) to open her vaginaaa to satisfy your sexual needs all in the name of i'm an African man.

A man must always take responsibilty of every thing... Be ready to take responsibilty for your actions be it good or bad. One of the meaning of the word husband means a man who skillfully manage is household.

Show leadership... If a man like the op want to be seen as a worthy husban and have a good relationship with his woman, he has to show leadership. When he sees a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it. People admire those who step forward to handle difficult situations. We don't admire those who stand back and wait for others to solve the problem.

Make Decusions.... the meanings of the word "manly" is being decisive. A man needs to make decisions and take responsibility for the outcome. If he's reluctant to make decisions, she may resent him( like the op wife did) Part of making decisions is understanding the other person's views and being flexible. She doesn't want someone controlling her, but she also doesn't want someone who leaves every decision to her. A man who is afraid of making a wrong decision should ask himself: Who should make decisions? -- someone who isn't afraid of making mistakes.

I wished i can type more. Itz time to eat sari lol.

But OP... Be a man before calling yourself a husand.

lanreni: With no beefs intended,I insist that d criteria for rankin needs to be known.they shuld be like 5 categories.Usin anoda major criteria,UNILAG,Convenant,UNILORIN or UNN may come first.dis is africa not Europe/USA.Besides,this blanket rankin doesn't help d universities know their specific deficiencies & areas they need to improve.sittin down in spain to rank universities thousands of kilometers away without considerin their diff peculiarities & realities on ground is sheer laziness as far as i am concerened.

GO TO SOUTH AFRICA AND SEE WHAT THEY CALL UNIVERSITY..

THEIR LECTURERS DONT GO ON STRIKE..

THEIR LECTURERS DONT ASK FOR BRIBE OR SLEEP WITH THEIR FEMALE STUDENTS.

THEIR ENVIRONMENT IS CONDUCIVE FOR LEARNING..

ITS A PITY THAT THEY STILL USE BLACKBOARD IN NIGERIA UNIVERSITY WHILE IN OTHER COUNTRIES THEY USE PROJECTOR TO TEACH STUDENT.

BRB

debrief08: Please let's define "Helping out", a man takes his plate to the kitchen once a month and that is defined as "helping out".

I apologise for being so harsh earlier.
My husband and I had exactly the same issues, he took me out one night and explained all these to me, we worked out a solution and since then have not looked back.
Take her out of the house and madness and talk to her gently.

Roving eyes won't help the situation

This should have been your first comment.

150 million mumu woooow..

Only a fool a.k.a mumu will find negativity in what lagbaja wrote above.

Truly thats the typical Nigerian slogan...... E NOR CONCERN ME.

I weeeeep for my dear nation.

Mods... I dont wanna report this amoeba above me.

8 years ban for insulting a senior NL.

Madam debfrief,

Did you missed the part where he said he helped with the house chores and his wife doesnt even allow any single soul to help her with the house work.

Please read carefully before concluding your comments.

@ Oga at the Top.

You are a man and you dont have to stream your family plight to the public for you to know the next to take. Like they always say, communication is the key to successfull relationship. Have you try to discuss this with her?

nerodenero: Nice one for OAU but how reliable is the statistics?I would have loved to see the criteria used before they arrived at this conclusion.If the statistics are good enough,then congratulations to OAU.

What criteria are you looking for?

Does OAU have computer library for students?

Does OAU have free wifi for student or any available internet for visitors ?

Doess OAU offer master degreee?

Does OAU gives scholarship or grant to students that score above 3.5 or probably 4.0.

Does OAU have any sport activity?

Tell me what OAU students or professors have produced or discover for the last 10 years...

Answer the question above......

Coming wih more question....

Try to know more bout the country first.

It can only happen in a jungle call NIGERIA.

I pray the US govt arrest the fool when UK govt is done with him.

Black pple are the most brainwashed pple ever... They see pastors literally asking for jet and mansions at their expenses and they still give.. Christianity is a joke and black folks fall for it. Charlattan pastors commit adultery (Rev King), have kids outside marriage, but expect their followers to live a righteous life. This is one of reason why the politicians cant stop loooting the masses money cuz they believe that once they loot the money and 5% is given to the pastor or alfa their sins are forgiven. I weep for my people in chinese.

We'll better wake up before its too late. God is not man, he did not choose a specific pastor or Alfa for miracle. Miracles lives within you, if you have the belief and faith you can push anything bigger than moutain. He said in matthew chapter 7 vs 7 " Asked and it shall ve given". The same way it was written in the qura n (chapter 94) He did not say ask thru a pastor or alfa. Think twice my pple.

"The greatest trick the devil ever played was convincing the world he did not exist.

Airforce1: See as she be like Mgbeke of Enugu

Upon all her heavy make upsssss

Not you again.

chuksfor13: He shld go n rest n leave politics 4 us...

What do you know about politics?.

rafhell: Her daughter is ugly

That must be your look alike on your profile.

alienware: These are not applicable to naija, beside there are no job in this God forsaken cesspit called Nigeria.

Stop spending your precious time on NL. There are jobs everywhere. E.g House boy

NMC should give thanks to the first to comment fellas, the garri clique and the tonto haters.

Idowuogbo: See dis refugee, na persin wey hold kpali she dey find o!

You think abi wanted illegal immigro like you.. Abi you won make i scan am for you?...

Ashlamzee: Heartless woman,wat's meat?

Call me

The youths are here on nairaland fighting for anambra is better than lagos while their future is burning like tornado fire.

Sweeery send me your HIV result.

I think we can start from there.

So car is an achievement in nigeria?