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Lmao...@Op.. Even in marriage, u stil hav to xpect such or worse. Hope u dint just end the relationship like dat. hav u tot of takin the girl to some prayer house or genuinly press her with questions about the queer behaviour, cos i m sure u wil find out more,as ur spirit hapen to be stronger than hers.
Meanwhile wen we wre smal, our house help once acted like dat towards my dad. Came one evening and commanded my dad 2 giv her a certain amount of money to buy thins for self, wit one leg on top of center table and both hands on her waist. It was 3 in one slap dat sent her diving under d table. Later we got to find out it was some influence from bad/evil friends she was kipin.

My ex called to confess he has just been goin totally crazy about me and how lonely he has been all the while, and cld not find someone else,.. spendin hours on day time cals...i took pity and decided to cal bak d next 2days and, his gal pickd d fone to warn me seriously to stop disturbin her guy dat he said he dosent want to talk to me anymore...and the next day he cald bak to apologise and told me he has ended his relationshp wit d gal..and in d evening dsame gal used his number to cal me to tel me dey r now livin 2geda. Hian!

Oxytocin_712: Personally i will advice you to wait, marry someone dt you love and who loved you, ur mum and aunty will not be there with u and why did they want to use u to settle monetary issues?. As of ur pastor, i believ in REALL ONES and to me they are there to confirmed what u have seen. pls be wise let him deceive u not in d name of 'vision' and why can't u go extra mile in prayer and to genuine men of God who will not lie JUST TO CONFIRMED IT. Also [b][/b]what is ur father's opinion?. STAYBLESS.

Father said in as much as he want me to marry a rich man dat dey shuld allow me to follow my heart.

segunjowo: Honestly speaking, mother owns a man. Irrespective of what u think. He carried me for nine months. I sucked her braest for nine more than a year..real milk, I must say! And sure, she didn't kill me like other mothers will kill their babies either by abortion or otherwise. She sent me to school and saw me grew from infant to this stage. And she stil asked me to get married to whom I choose(she isn't jealous like you girls who can't afford to share your guy with another gurl). I tell you: My mama na she own me o! Nor be my wife..

Bullocks.. Was it not dsame mother dat gav birth to your wife and gave her dsame care and everythin befor she grew up bcame d well groomed beautiful woman dat u married. Wat is wrong wit giving her d chance to do dsame for and ur kids dat is even for d rest of ur lives. Allow her to own u joor.

agabasam: If she knows how much my mom suffered 4 me, and cried wen i was sick.... She would not mention a thing....... My mum z my best fwend...

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Does dat mean ur woman cannot do dsame to u and even to ur kids. Mtcheeeeew! Some men can be somuch attached to dia mother it gets annoying.

kokoye: I didnt.

I just decided to make her the one.

Stop reading pacesetters or mills & boon.

Thank you

Una be fool: Seldom. Once in two months

Why nah

al-qaeda:
INFACT GUYS SHOULDNT EVEN MARRY A GIRL THAT IS 26+ COS U SHOULD KNOW THAT SHE WAS TO POMPOUS AND ARROGANT. ABEG, DE FUCCK DE THROW AWAY.

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Are u ok? Do u have sisters or gal friends issues.

Hi.i am young woman in my early 20s. I have been seeing a young man of 30 for about a year now and about 2 months ago he started talking about marriage plans although he hasn't proposed but i took that as one.

He has rented a 3 bedroom apartment and promised to take me to his parents towards the end of the year. Long story short we planned to get married next year.

I trust him although i fear he might disappoint me as he is still struggling. But 3 weeks ago my people called me home from were i was doing my service to meet a man that has come for my hand in marriage. The man is handsome and wealthy but he is 16 years older than me and that alone makes me uncomfortable. Plus i dont really like him.

we seem not to have much in common, But my mum and my aunty have been begging me to marry him as we are sort of going through financial breakdown and they see him as a kind of saviour. Plus my mums pastor says he has seen the marriage in vision before now.

The marriage will be done in less than 4 months if i say yes, And if i say no then i will have to wait for my man till mid next year.

So i ask please will you consider your family and go into the marriage or wait for your love.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm... This goes to show its a mans world after all. Jeeest passing through.