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Great idea that is.

You are right about the threats, but I believe its still a workable idea.

I have no doubt we have the human resources in Nigeria to do this kind of thing. I hope we can work around all other logistics.

I am interested too. My e-mail is sulegboyega@yahoo.com.

I will keep an eye on this thread.

@Idjones

Good questions, but complex answer.

Some guys out here have mentioned really important points, though.

I got a site from another thread on this forum which could really be helpful

http://nigeria.smetoolkit.org/nigeria/en

You will discover more about this question from this site and can actually

answer your question in full detail.

Good luck.

@Deyour

Just enjoy the humour!!!

but sometimes when people deny something so vehemently,

it might turn out they actually want it!

Well I am already erecting a fence to ward off any canon coming after

this!!

@michelin89

Why on  earth would you do this to Seun!!

Its about maturity and readiness mentally, physically and

other wherewithal.

A 30 year old might not be as mature as another 25 year old,

it all depends.

@Topic

This is an experiment that went badly wrong.

A square peg in a round hole? Hopeless.

You won't change enough for him and he won't change enough enough for you either.  

It seems both of you are in a  parallel world, its only on a dating site that two of

you could meet.

Your friend is not ready why is she confused? If she's ready she can

do it and she will succeed.

And if you know the guy personally then tell him he needs to slow

down. Why rushing into marriage with a lady that is not mentally

ready? MARRIAGE, hun, MARRIAGE, hun. I don say my own o.

@Seun

Take it easy with the girl biko.

@2Dye4

that your crystal ball must be worth millions.

@Topic

Well looking at your explanation of how the whole thing started and developed, I think you two still

haven't crossed the borderline yet. Clearly your relationship is not a love at first sight (if there's

anything like that), and going by your explanation you two have never been intimate.

Expression of Love in word or otherwise follows a kind of inner feeling. It seems that bit is

missing. Smirks something unnatural.

The question to be asked is about yourself.

Consider this analogy;

You are in an exam hall, (forget about pampa, orijo, pari ise and all the likes ),

you are so sure about an answer to a question, what would you do?

Do you get confused and try to ask for confirmation from someone else or tick it and move on?

And if someone whistled another answer in your ear, will you listen or get confused?

If you are confused, then it means you are not sure.  Take more time and really be sure.


Be that as it may, I consider people who look down on physically challenged people as being unfair,

so even if you are thinking about what people would say, you can be sure that your act is a noble

one in the eyes of our Lord.

@Joey82

We cannot begin to preach for you here, we all understand those stuffs.

You are not connected with this girl, its simple. Different people have different things that get them connected with someone. The only problem I have with your comment is that given the situation, how did you start dating her in the first place? I am sure she just didn't start running after you on the road saying she loves you, or may be you don chop now and wan clean mouth? eh.

For me, I think you need to let her go and I have no doubt she will be a princess in someone else eyes.