@ bampam.
The Uk spouse visa takes 3 month but you need to pray that they should answer you on time.i applied for mine and it takes 2 month before they reply us back.

@ Badman888
Nobody said Engineering is not for ladies but people thinks anything called Engineering is for male alone which we ladies want to prove that is not for guys alone but for ladies as well and thanks to the baby bee  that start this forum.

dats a nice one kimba and if you find out about the websites of ladies inEngineering in Nigeria.kindly post it.
We ladies dat are doing engineering should try and encourage others.Some ladies think is not good for them but some gurls
do have potentials to study Engineering but they never think is for ladies.i am trying to go 2 colleges and inform ladies about Engineering, the job prospect of it and since am part of a society here in Uk thats wat am trying to do and and to the ladies in the Engineering Department .keep it up Gurls.

i agree with baby bee.We also need to inform ladies to study engineering.Some think is only for men but some ladies are very good in Engineering aspect.i am doing Chemical Engineering and am enjoying it as well.
Is there any ladies in the house studying Engineering?

@ Jezgirl,
i understand wat u r saying dat u don't want 2 settle down in UK.You can try some companies that have a branch in Nigeria like Pfizer, glaxosmithkline and so on.Just try and find a company that have a branch in Nigeria although is not easy but you gat to try if you want a well paid job but there are some companies as well in Nigeria that paid very well.i am in Uk so i don't knw a lot and am thinking of going back 2 nigeria wen i finish studying my Engineering course.

Mine also is blazing hot and its working for me very welll
i don't even knw ow 2 describe it and am loving it.

its not only Unijos alone.Unimaid[Univeristy of Maiduguri] is doing d same thing.
You gat no choice than 2 wait but they are really wasting pples time.

Hi Ladylike,

just read wat u posted.Not all Nigerian guys are not honest.Some african american pple 2 are not honest as well.The only advise i can give you is to follow your heart some pple met their guys/girls thru d internet and it works out for them while some pple don't like internet dating.you are the only person that will surely knw if the guy is honest , open minded and his trustworthy.Your relationship may work out very well and it may not.

To tell if he is truthful about his work and so on, i can't give an answer for that .its you that must try and find that out thru differnt ways to make sure he is honest with you.Don't just belief wat he says .Try and Confirm it as well.

i totally agree with wat roscodaddy said but u gat to find out from your guy wat he is fearing from.Maybe he thinks that you will leave him or find another guy there and other stuffs like that .Talk things tru and ask him if he will surely waits for you.one thing as well, don't listen to people.you gat to make your own decision by yourself.

Hi mahi,
i can see that you are so confused.i am in a long distance relationship as well but mine is going on well and okay.
The only advise i can give u is dat both of u should talk things straight and from the way i read it.i think the guy doesn't like long distance relationship, ask him so that you won't waste your time.Also if he really luvs you and wants the relationship to continue, you will surely knw by the way he acts[i hope u understand].Finalise that and confirm it from him if he really wants it 2 work.i also agree with wat b_e_b_e say.

Hello people,
nice hearing differents comments.Some people say it can work and so people say it can't work.Its both of u that will determine if it can work or not.u will surely knws if the  guy wants it 2 work or not.for example, he will b mailing u, fixing a time 2 chat with u and also calling u sometimes.u can't tell me that this  guy  is doing all this for a girl if he doesn't want it 2 work.a guy can't b spending his money just like that if he doesn't want d relationship 2 work and a girl can't b buying calling cards everynow and then if she doesn't want d relationship 2 work, instead she can use d money 2 buy something good 4 herself instead of buying a calling card.And also appreciate each other everynow and then.
To rikkyjen,
i am happy for u and i always tout i was the only only person  buying calling cards everynow and then. .Goodluck in everything.
To hotangel,
its may b becose u don't like it or its has not worked out for you but its between u and your guy.u can't judge everybody.its we that can choose what we wants.if it doesn't work, den its my own probs becose i was d one that choose it.nobody force me 2 do it and am not tied down 2 start it a well.
To pie1ect
Conerning your reply "if others can do it, I can do it as well". is not if others can do that makes you to do it.Abeg na real lie b that.u will surely knw if things r not going on well with LDR and drop it .u can't force it 2 go smoothly becose since others can do it den you to wana prove it can go on well.i don't belief in that.if a guy didn't call  4 a month and we didn't chat 4 2 month.u will surely knw this guy doesn't want it 2 work.just leave d guy and find another but i don't belief that becose some people does it and it work then it  means i should prove 2 dem it can work out 4 me.Never!

Hello rolly,
i have read ur comments and it really shows that the guy doesn't like the idea of long distance relationship but u will surely find someone better that will luv u so much.Just forget about him.
Mine own case is different.I and my guy are moving on very well.We even celebrated our 4 yrs relationship on Xmas day.And i call him everyday, he 2 always call me but not everyday[u knw its not easy 2 b calling from naija everyday but he calls me very well] and we chat everynow and then.
To nikkylolly
And talking about temptation, although temptation will come but if u luv ur guy and u belief dat u trust him and he also trust u, y falling into temptation.there are lots of things 2 b worrying about, studies, work and so on .i trust my guy and i don't worry or bother myself of wat he is doing in naija..Without trust, nothing can work.i belief it has already work out 4 us.

i agree with dollygurl, it surely work for anybody dat want it to work.its works for me and i love my guy and we communicate everynow and then..

i agree with layi, u don't luv them at all.u just wana have fun dats all and its not love but Lust.

Thanks a lot 2 everybody dat wish me well.To g[b]reatpeter[/b], i knw my relationship will surely work and u will surely knw if a relationship will work or not which depends on the type of gurl or guy u dey go out with. if u trust the person and both of u r honest with each other.

we knew each other before i left naija and we still continue our relationship.its really hard but we call each other everyday, chat and txt.

Hello pple,

i have read all wat u pple said about long distance relationship if it will work or not and i quite agree with some pple who said it won't why some pple said it will.Long distance relationship is hard to say the fact but its base on trust, honest ,patient and understanding.Goodluck to the pple dat r having long distance realtionship.am also in a 4yrs long distance relationship.